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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Honestly most people are shit at flirting.
Largely because they either think they are just being nice despite it being flirty in appearance, or from the other end the other person mistakes being nice as flirting.
Most people are too reserved to be flirty with strangers/new people these days because it's generally not worth being so with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly most people are shit at flirting.
Largely because they either think they are just being nice despite it being flirty in appearance, or from the other end the other person mistakes being nice as flirting.
Most people are too reserved to be flirty with strangers/new people these days because it's generally not worth being so with them."
Some of worth a little bit of a flirt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally I think guys are worse, if a lady was to smile with her eyes as well as lips a guy would melt whereas if a guy did that we would be creepy haha |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Generally I think guys are worse, if a lady was to smile with her eyes as well as lips a guy would melt whereas if a guy did that we would be creepy haha"
That's soley down to the perception of the guy.
Women certainly are not some magical creatures that ooze attration and sex appeal themselves.
More often it's a case a man will view a smile as flirting and go balls deep in an attempt to capitalise on a perceived opportunity.
Women are "better" because men are "weaker" to the effects. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general I actually don't think I'm great at it. Especially on here.
If I'm really into someone and it's reciprocated, then it's a very different story.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll give myself 1/10
I'm a horrible flirt. I can't do it. I get all embarrassed and say stupid shit.
I tend to just pounce and hope the rejection isn't to brutal 
Mrs C |
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"I'll give myself 1/10
I'm a horrible flirt. I can't do it. I get all embarrassed and say stupid shit.
I tend to just pounce and hope the rejection isn't to brutal
Mrs C "
Thats the way I’d like it done to me……
I’m crap at it and crap at noticing it being done to me….. how I ever got laid I don’t know…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flirting?
Are you a natural flirt, do it without intending too, or people get the wrong message..  "
I'm naturally a really good flirt, accidentally so. I've found times that I've dug a hole because I can be too flirtatious. 
Online, however, terrible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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According to my daughter I flirt waaay to much. I don't do it intentionally and rarely have an agenda. I don't think I am flirting but maybe a younger person has a different idea of what flirting is ! Who knows. |
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"Can't read the signals if someone is flirting with me. Just think they are being friendly.
I'm a rubbish flirt when it's someone I actually really fancy
Flutter your eyes  "
Tried it. They think I'm having a stroke |
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In person...useless. Apparently. That's my personal opinion, anyway. Others tell me "you were really flirting with her". I wasn't, at least not consciously.
Online...I'm a different beast. I'll flirt deliberately.
Maybe I'm some sort of shy coward when it comes to talking to women I'm attracted to who I have only met in person. I don't really know. |
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Not sure flirting is my strong point but I'm definitely not good at picking up when someone is flirting with me. Makes it a bit tricky in clubs for me trying to work out if other people are interested or not. B. |
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