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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have two regular people to chat with, and a few I chat with a couple of times a week one is currently on my meet list. We just trying to sync with work and family commitments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't properly talk to anyone apart from the odd message here and there from the odd guy that wants sex.
I've given up making plans to meet as they never happen anyway.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Over what time scale ?
If the people I chat too, I’d say I meet 90% because I generally only chat to people I want to meet. but sone do take months even years in one or two cases. There’s 2-3 in the hopper right now but I’m In no rush
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Not many, I don't really like arranging meets from here.
I'd say 2 in the past year, there's a few attending socials from the forums I look forward to meeting in person, but generally meet meets I prefer to find people at socials, so much easier at face value.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not many, I don't really like arranging meets from here.
I'd say 2 in the past year, there's a few attending socials from the forums I look forward to meeting in person, but generally meet meets I prefer to find people at socials, so much easier at face value.
Mrs "
I feel this |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Well let's see, according to a friend I talk to dozens and dozens of people...
No. I don't have the energy or headspace for talking to two/three people a day. In terms of people I'd like to meet socially or have a date with? It's a handful a year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't properly talk to anyone apart from the odd message here and there from the odd guy that wants sex.
I've given up making plans to meet as they never happen anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many, I don't really like arranging meets from here.
I'd say 2 in the past year, there's a few attending socials from the forums I look forward to meeting in person, but generally meet meets I prefer to find people at socials, so much easier at face value.
Mrs
I feel this"
Very understated,and underrated. |
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Tbh from forums, it revolves around the organised socials, I've a group at bedford I want to meet, a group at upthebrum I want to meet, and the new people who come to the regular socials I go to. Most of my time is meeting up and spending quality time with current friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment the answer is I don't bother. I don't like people much right now. A very select few I do.
Why? Because people put me off. One Attitude that really stinks. One that wanted to fuck someone else one last time before me.....what the fuck? One that insisted on me displaying their veri....ask yourself why!
One that messed me about and gave a bullshit excuse. Another that forgot to message after I gave a date. One that sees to think a social means kissing followed by sex. One that would flirt in full view yet when it came to the date we set just ghosted me completely. The one that revealed they were attached after setting a social was agreed....why do that to someone? It's low. It takes away consent. Yet they think it's ok.
People suck right now. I can't be arsed at all. I would need someone to restore my faith in humans but in the grand scheme of things I'm quite content and enjoying life as it is and there are people that understand the word respect and it's true definition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the moment the answer is I don't bother. I don't like people much right now. A very select few I do.
Why? Because people put me off. One Attitude that really stinks. One that wanted to fuck someone else one last time before me.....what the fuck? One that insisted on me displaying their veri....ask yourself why!
One that messed me about and gave a bullshit excuse. Another that forgot to message after I gave a date. One that sees to think a social means kissing followed by sex. One that would flirt in full view yet when it came to the date we set just ghosted me completely. The one that revealed they were attached after setting a social was agreed....why do that to someone? It's low. It takes away consent. Yet they think it's ok.
People suck right now. I can't be arsed at all. I would need someone to restore my faith in humans but in the grand scheme of things I'm quite content and enjoying life as it is and there are people that understand the word respect and it's true definition. "
Thats your state of mind atm. Your viewpoint is all based upon that and from that angle.
Reflection is a must. From there comes,Growth if only we want and |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the moment the answer is I don't bother. I don't like people much right now. A very select few I do.
Why? Because people put me off. One Attitude that really stinks. One that wanted to fuck someone else one last time before me.....what the fuck? One that insisted on me displaying their veri....ask yourself why!
One that messed me about and gave a bullshit excuse. Another that forgot to message after I gave a date. One that sees to think a social means kissing followed by sex. One that would flirt in full view yet when it came to the date we set just ghosted me completely. The one that revealed they were attached after setting a social was agreed....why do that to someone? It's low. It takes away consent. Yet they think it's ok.
People suck right now. I can't be arsed at all. I would need someone to restore my faith in humans but in the grand scheme of things I'm quite content and enjoying life as it is and there are people that understand the word respect and it's true definition. "
Thats your state of mind atm. Your viewpoint is all based upon that and from that angle.
Reflection is a must. From there comes,Growth if only we want and aply ourselves.
RUMI "Yesterday i tryed to change the World , today i am changeing myself "
We are on a journey we have much to still learn about ourselves more than anything else.
Time does not wait for anybody. Its the most valuable thing ever!!! When its gone,its gone.
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
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I talk to regularly none i talk to a few old friends from time to time and plan to meet nobody new folk pop up a lot but my job is now to let em down gently they cannot have my penis |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
Talk to lots, yet to meet anyone but I wouldn’t discount it. I do find there are quite a lot of people I talk to that I don’t quite believe are who they say they are in terms of gender and couples. Maybe me being naturally wary?
Doesn’t really matter if you’re only chatting anyway. H you can usually tell the fakes if you cam too! Lol |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’m currently not really chatting to new folks, I’m very happy with the people in my life and I’m enjoying building those friendships and relationships.
I’ve got two wonderful romantic partners, a few sexual partners and several friends, all of whom I’m giving my time and attention to. That’s not ruling out new connections but I’m not actively seeking more.
I’m definitely not interested in pouring my energy into chatting that doesn’t go anywhere or isn’t going to be a positive part of my life |
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We only chat to a couple of people as we like to build connections rather than plate spin. A good connection is more important to us.
We have friends on here but they aren’t chat every day types…more, see you at the next social.
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"Do you get talking to and realistically plan to meet? "
I've got 4lined up one Saturday one Sunday and one when she back from her holiday on 18th and then one I'm meeting in September after Maya and I come back from holiday . but granted this is recent upturn in events
After MThs of drought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few I talk to on and off, and a couple of folk that I talk to regularly. Arranging a meet is awkward though due to busy lives and commitments but I think we're both pretty determined to make it work and meet eventually |
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At the moment or in general? Either for me is probably 0 mostly. My free time and head space is extremely limited. Realistically most people aren't interested in chatting to someone who may just want to chat for the next two months before meeting for nothing more than coffee. I'm okay with that, hence why I'm not looking. |
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Realistically any person I engage in a real conversation with could become a meet, we go to a club and if the people we talk to online are just as nice face to face then there's no reason it won't go to a room.
The problem is time. Nightshifts, Aunt Flo, away on holiday, etc. There's a couple we have met a few times, really like but just can't get our calendars to sync.
Time is the enemy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At the moment or in general? Either for me is probably 0 mostly. My free time and head space is extremely limited. Realistically most people aren't interested in chatting to someone who may just want to chat for the next two months before meeting for nothing more than coffee. I'm okay with that, hence why I'm not looking. "
Is the coffee decaf |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't really plan to meet anyone tbh.
If I do I do.
Not really sure what I'm doing here sometimes.  "
I’m not sure either.  
Jk. I like seeing you in here. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Not as many as I used to.
My tastes have changed and I'm not as spritely as I used to be.
Do you think you just settle these days?"
I don't have to settle.
Even at my age I get lots of men messaging.
I have a long term partner who I see occasionally.
If I couldn't find anyone here to fulfil my needs it wouldn't be a problem for me.
I'd be ok without anyone in my life.
I don't need to settle for anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not as many as I used to.
My tastes have changed and I'm not as spritely as I used to be.
Do you think you just settle these days?
I don't have to settle.
Even at my age I get lots of men messaging.
I have a long term partner who I see occasionally.
If I couldn't find anyone here to fulfil my needs it wouldn't be a problem for me.
I'd be ok without anyone in my life.
I don't need to settle for anyone. "
How have your tastes changed? Asking for a friend |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Do you get talking to and realistically plan to meet? "
A few.
Some I just like to talk to.
Some I'd love to meet just for a coffee and a chin wag.
Some I'd like to meet, see if we hit it off and there's a connection, and at some point see them naked as the day they were born.
Some I'd rather jump into an active volcano than encounter in real life.
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"At the moment the answer is I don't bother. I don't like people much right now. A very select few I do.
Why? Because people put me off. One Attitude that really stinks. One that wanted to fuck someone else one last time before me.....what the fuck? One that insisted on me displaying their veri....ask yourself why!
One that messed me about and gave a bullshit excuse. Another that forgot to message after I gave a date. One that sees to think a social means kissing followed by sex. One that would flirt in full view yet when it came to the date we set just ghosted me completely. The one that revealed they were attached after setting a social was agreed....why do that to someone? It's low. It takes away consent. Yet they think it's ok.
People suck right now. I can't be arsed at all. I would need someone to restore my faith in humans but in the grand scheme of things I'm quite content and enjoying life as it is and there are people that understand the word respect and it's true definition. "
  sorry to hear you have been through all this. There are a lot of selfish ignorant people in this world and from my own experiences in life its taught me spiritual or religious people do things with a conscious and have empathy not many have it.
Everyone has had shit happen to them and still could we never truly know what life will or can throw at us. So it's to have empathy no one needs pity or sympathy just don't treat others how they wouldn't want to be treated and its ignorant for people to not practice this also heartless too.
You will bounce back from it all take time for you and keep enjoying what you love in life (heart) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you get talking to and realistically plan to meet? "
I hope to meet up with a few of the people on the forum. Especially get to talk to them at the Sept Manchester Lounge Social. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Do you get talking to and realistically plan to meet?
I hope to meet up with a few of the people on the forum. Especially get to talk to them at the Sept Manchester Lounge Social. "
Shameless plug Woody. 
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*you forgot to mention the date! |
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What is this talking or messaging you're on about our box is arid 
We have one we're chatting to not from the forum with the view for a social and see. And chatting to a group of people from the social in Bedford ready for September and meeting in real life again
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you get talking to and realistically plan to meet?
I hope to meet up with a few of the people on the forum. Especially get to talk to them at the Sept Manchester Lounge Social.
Shameless plug Woody.
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*you forgot to mention the date! "
I didn’t need to, everyone knows it’s the 9th Sept. |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone "
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol"
A bean mounting a chicken? Just when we thought we'd heard of everything |
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I chat to lots of people on here and other platforms there are a few people that have said they want to meet but obviously life gets in the way... I'm not averse to travelling..within reason and a vaguely sensible distance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol"
Why stop at the other side of the world? I'm making it a mission to fuck an Aussie now!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind travelling, but what if we want to fuck regularly?
It's all just too much for my simple mind."
This is it, it's great to meet once every so often but so tough for it to be a regular thing |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
Why stop at the other side of the world? I'm making it a mission to fuck an Aussie now! "
It's a long ass flight ... quicker to get to Hampshire |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol"
I’m gonna take more than his fancy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind travelling, but what if we want to fuck regularly?
It's all just too much for my simple mind."
See i never have this problem, no one ever wants to see me again. |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol
I’m gonna take more than his fancy "
Lucky lady
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol
A bean mounting a chicken? Just when we thought we'd heard of everything "
Surely it's a bean stuffing a chicken |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
Why stop at the other side of the world? I'm making it a mission to fuck an Aussie now! "
Isn't that what Sydney wants?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind travelling, but what if we want to fuck regularly?
It's all just too much for my simple mind.
See i never have this problem, no one ever wants to see me again."
Oh, don't get me wrong - it doesn't last long. I just promise them I can do better next time and they start to feel guilty after I cry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
Why stop at the other side of the world? I'm making it a mission to fuck an Aussie now!
It's a long ass flight ... quicker to get to Hampshire "
You're definitely right, there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol
I’m gonna take more than his fancy
Lucky lady
;-)"
I should probably point out here that this is purely wet dream material on my part |
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"I don't mind travelling, but what if we want to fuck regularly?
It's all just too much for my simple mind.
See i never have this problem, no one ever wants to see me again."
I'm sure that's not true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol
I’m gonna take more than his fancy "
And I'd let you |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
Why stop at the other side of the world? I'm making it a mission to fuck an Aussie now!
Isn't that what Sydney wants?! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind travelling, but what if we want to fuck regularly?
It's all just too much for my simple mind.
See i never have this problem, no one ever wants to see me again.
I'm sure that's not true "
Actually very true. I think I scare them. |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol
I’m gonna take more than his fancy
And I'd let you "
Very luck lady indeed |
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"I don't mind travelling, but what if we want to fuck regularly?
It's all just too much for my simple mind.
See i never have this problem, no one ever wants to see me again.
I'm sure that's not true
Actually very true. I think I scare them."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol
I’m gonna take more than his fancy
And I'd let you
Very luck lady indeed "
Wahey game on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd actually forgot that's what we were supposed to do on here! I loved chatting and meeting back in the day, but I think I might be over it now. I keep a hand in to check if the urge comes back, but generally end up commenting on the weather/what's for dinner/good TV shows then log off again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
Why stop at the other side of the world? I'm making it a mission to fuck an Aussie now!
Isn't that what Sydney wants?! "
I heard she likes going down under |
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"Quite a few of them but distance is a cockblock
Nothing is insurmountable... unless they happened to be on the other side of the world lol
He might not want to mount anyone
Oh I dunno I think Fluffy Chicken has taken his fancy lol
I’m gonna take more than his fancy
Lucky lady
;-)
I should probably point out here that this is purely wet dream material on my part "
Mine too to be fair lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm chatting to a couple of new guys but tbh I probably won't meet them
I find that at some point new guys almost always say something that puts me off them before we get chance to meet and it just putting me off even speaking to anyone new
There's a couple of guys I've met previously that I meet every now and then but they're very unreliable so I should make an effort to meet someone new |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you get talking to and realistically plan to meet? "
Not many. I have met a few people on the forums though I had met them at socials. I have recently met someone off the forums and hope to see them again.
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