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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
No.
It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.
Im going to wait around for the toss up. 
So thirsty."
Do we toss to see who goes first? |
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I find it hard to say yes to things outside my comfort zone. They require a lot of overthinking and processing time. Spontaneity scares me most of the time 
I'm getting pretty good at saying no to things I don't want to do. Much better than I used to be. Sometimes I'll even say no rather than making an excuse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
No.
It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.
Im going to wait around for the toss up.
So thirsty.
Do we toss to see who goes first?
I’ll go for head please"
Tight call. Must have been hard. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm terrible at saying No (surprising I know) if I feel like saying it will let the person down.
But then I'm possibly equally as bad at saying Yes to things I really want to when I feel the brain goblins get in the way.
The mind can be a terrible pain at times and not in the way I like  |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm terrible at saying No, although most of the women on here have no such issue  "
Ha! I don't know. I think that's because they're asked more so there's a greater likelihood, not because they find it easier. |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
Depends on the context, here I'm very good at saying no - unfortunately getting less polite about it.
When my friend says "do you want to pop out for a couple cocktails", I find it difficult to say no. When she says, do you want another and another gets even harder to say no. 
When the guy comes across and says, "do you want to come back to mine", easy to say no, says He'll "do both me and my friend" it is even easier to say no - but more difficult to say it politely  |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m getting at better at saying no. 1st time I felt awful but it gets easier
J x"
It does, I mean there's still the "oh dear" moments but you get better at speaking honestly. And not going along with things. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I find it hard to say yes to things outside my comfort zone. They require a lot of overthinking and processing time. Spontaneity scares me most of the time
I'm getting pretty good at saying no to things I don't want to do. Much better than I used to be. Sometimes I'll even say no rather than making an excuse.
J"
Ah Julie 
Spontaneity can be daunting but the more you say yes to things that you really want and will bring you joy, the happier you'll be. I hope one day the excuses aren't needed. Just the reason (if you want to!). |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"When it comes to saying yes or no to things, are you good at it?
If you were better at it, what would you find yourself saying yes or no to more often?"
Depends what it is and who's asking.
A few people I just can't say no to, because of who they are, regardless of whether it's in my interests to or not, whether it'll be a ballache or whether I think it's a bad idea.
Sounds crazy right?
But some people have that effect on you.
Others I can quite easily say 'fuck no' to in a heartbeat.
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