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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The charity gifts like a goat can be ok for some people if they're not hugely consumerist.
Plants, something from the year they were born, make your own cheese, taster pack of beer/chocolate/spices. |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"I gave someone a piece of wood a few weeks back. Just so that I could say I'd given them wood...  "
 I often give wood for both birthdays and Christmas.
Alternatively... a tube of pringles and two chocolate oranges. It's hard to wrap but great for the entertainment value! |
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There are websites where you can get a celebrity to say something to them, such as the remaining Chuckle Brother saying “Happy Birthday, Brian” which, frankly, I think is peak birthday right there. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"tokens.
I think the basics such as good chocolates, wine or decent cheese and chutney for savoury people are underestimated. I really appreciate things like that."
One of my best ever presents was a hessian bag with 12 different little jars of marmalades, preserves and jams.
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"tokens.
I think the basics such as good chocolates, wine or decent cheese and chutney for savoury people are underestimated. I really appreciate things like that.
One of my best ever presents was a hessian bag with 12 different little jars of marmalades, preserves and jams.
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Monty Bojangles truffles was one of mine and gorgeous shower gel that I wouldn't buy for myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing.
If you are two much grief to buy for, I just don’t bother, if I get questioned as to why I didn’t get someone something I just tell ‘em you’re too much of a pain in the ass to buy for. "
This!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ask them what they want. Pointless buying something they don't want and will never use.
I tried that  "
If they gave me no ideas I'd just get them a card.
I'm getting to be a right crabby old bitch in my old age.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Can’t go wrong with a hamper!
Be it a cheese hamper
A chocolate hamper
A tea hamper
A coffee hamper
There is always a hamper for every available taste!
Throw in a balloon as well for that added je ne sais quoi.
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I got a big box who Who Gives a Crap? toilet paper. It was their puzzle edition. Find the toilet just like Where's Wally in a range of wrappers from Space to the Pyramids ect.
Perfect for the recipient who enjoys lengthy time on the toilet and who likes puzzles!
I also bought them a taxidermy rat with a Superman t-shirt on. Cool and gross in equal measure.  |
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I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful |
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful "
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ask them what they want. Pointless buying something they don't want and will never use.
I tried that "
If they said "oh there's no need", take them at their word |
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right "
I used to, then I realised that most people appreciate whatever you give them as long as some thought has gone in to it. Don't buy milk chocolate for a dark chocolate lover but do buy them some exquisite hand made, single origin chocolates. I also realised that the friend I had the most difficulty buying for was the one who had criticised gifts other people have her, that was a liberating moment |
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A nice hamper of lovely foods is always great and appreciated.
You could of course offer to pay their next energy bill but hurry and do it in the summer when it's not as bad before the bad weather hits and they go sky high again |
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right
I used to, then I realised that most people appreciate whatever you give them as long as some thought has gone in to it. Don't buy milk chocolate for a dark chocolate lover but do buy them some exquisite hand made, single origin chocolates. I also realised that the friend I had the most difficulty buying for was the one who had criticised gifts other people have her, that was a liberating moment"
I think it's partly a me problem. Gifts are my love language and I want to get them right. This person is exceptionally difficult to buy for and not a friendship where I'd want to phone it in. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
I have it sussed when it comes to Daugher and hubby and thee grandkids and close friends.
However my Sister is a difficult one, widowed about a year ago she has everything, Money,Houses, Cars and a well stocked wine cellar.
Guess Flowers are my only option |
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"I have it sussed when it comes to Daugher and hubby and thee grandkids and close friends.
However my Sister is a difficult one, widowed about a year ago she has everything, Money,Houses, Cars and a well stocked wine cellar.
Guess Flowers are my only option "
You could make her some of your cakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right
I used to, then I realised that most people appreciate whatever you give them as long as some thought has gone in to it. Don't buy milk chocolate for a dark chocolate lover but do buy them some exquisite hand made, single origin chocolates. I also realised that the friend I had the most difficulty buying for was the one who had criticised gifts other people have her, that was a liberating moment
I think it's partly a me problem. Gifts are my love language and I want to get them right. This person is exceptionally difficult to buy for and not a friendship where I'd want to phone it in."
Do they want a gift?
All the suggestions on this thread I'd hate to receive. Chocs, hampers, toiletries. They'd all get re-gifted.
I ask people not to buy things because it's a waste of their money.  |
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right
I used to, then I realised that most people appreciate whatever you give them as long as some thought has gone in to it. Don't buy milk chocolate for a dark chocolate lover but do buy them some exquisite hand made, single origin chocolates. I also realised that the friend I had the most difficulty buying for was the one who had criticised gifts other people have her, that was a liberating moment
I think it's partly a me problem. Gifts are my love language and I want to get them right. This person is exceptionally difficult to buy for and not a friendship where I'd want to phone it in.
Do they want a gift?
All the suggestions on this thread I'd hate to receive. Chocs, hampers, toiletries. They'd all get re-gifted.
I ask people not to buy things because it's a waste of their money. "
Is there something you'd really like? If I got you in secret Santa what would you like to unwrap? |
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right
I used to, then I realised that most people appreciate whatever you give them as long as some thought has gone in to it. Don't buy milk chocolate for a dark chocolate lover but do buy them some exquisite hand made, single origin chocolates. I also realised that the friend I had the most difficulty buying for was the one who had criticised gifts other people have her, that was a liberating moment
I think it's partly a me problem. Gifts are my love language and I want to get them right. This person is exceptionally difficult to buy for and not a friendship where I'd want to phone it in.
Do they want a gift?
All the suggestions on this thread I'd hate to receive. Chocs, hampers, toiletries. They'd all get re-gifted.
I ask people not to buy things because it's a waste of their money. "
I don't think they'd say they wanted a gift, but that'd be out of politeness, if that makes sense. |
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By *onicZMan
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
Some slippers and a doldo.
If they don't like the slippers, they can go fuck themselves.
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On a serious note though, it can be difficult even if buying vouchers as places close down entirely or close certain stores meaning it ends up being an effort to travel so far. So if going the voucher route, as someone else has suggested, it's probably best to get one of those reloadable master cards that can be used anywhere, even online.
Perhaps speak to mutual friends if at all possible? Gift cards and cash should really be a last resort unless they specifically ask for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you give someone as a present when you don't know what to get them?"
Money or gift vouchers...They can then get whatever suits them or what they want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some slippers and a doldo.
If they don't like the slippers, they can go fuck themselves.
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On a serious note though, it can be difficult even if buying vouchers as places close down entirely or close certain stores meaning it ends up being an effort to travel so far. So if going the voucher route, as someone else has suggested, it's probably best to get one of those reloadable master cards that can be used anywhere, even online.
Perhaps speak to mutual friends if at all possible? Gift cards and cash should really be a last resort unless they specifically ask for them. "
What's a doldo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you give someone as a present when you don't know what to get them?
A plot... Everyone will need one  "
As in ..a plot ...or put them in a movie or TV programme script |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"What do you give someone as a present when you don't know what to get them?"
If I don’t know them enough to know, I’d just send a card. Save all my mental energy on gifts for the ones who matter |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Nothing.
If you are two much grief to buy for, I just don’t bother, if I get questioned as to why I didn’t get someone something I just tell ‘em you’re too much of a pain in the ass to buy for. "
I kind of agree but not in a negative way. Putting money in a card is like saying I dint know you enough to think about what you might like but I feel a duty to remember your birthday. If I ever got money for a gift , unless I’d asked for money , Id give it back and say dont bother again , we don’t know each other ! |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"I have it sussed when it comes to Daugher and hubby and thee grandkids and close friends.
However my Sister is a difficult one, widowed about a year ago she has everything, Money,Houses, Cars and a well stocked wine cellar.
Guess Flowers are my only option
You could make her some of your cakes "
Thank's for the inspiration, could make up a Hamper with my home made jams and marmalades as well as some cakes and pastries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right
I used to, then I realised that most people appreciate whatever you give them as long as some thought has gone in to it. Don't buy milk chocolate for a dark chocolate lover but do buy them some exquisite hand made, single origin chocolates. I also realised that the friend I had the most difficulty buying for was the one who had criticised gifts other people have her, that was a liberating moment
I think it's partly a me problem. Gifts are my love language and I want to get them right. This person is exceptionally difficult to buy for and not a friendship where I'd want to phone it in.
Do they want a gift?
All the suggestions on this thread I'd hate to receive. Chocs, hampers, toiletries. They'd all get re-gifted.
I ask people not to buy things because it's a waste of their money.
Is there something you'd really like? If I got you in secret Santa what would you like to unwrap? "
A small bottle of water.
Anything else would be pointless and I'd feel bad you wasted money. |
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"I think sometimes we all try too hard and it's exhausting. Was it BHS that used to have shelves of absolute tatt at Christmas time, specifically aimed at people trying to find something different? Marmite chocolate, grow your own bonsai tree...at least shower gel is actually useful
I could never fathom those sorts of gifts. It's why I worry about getting it right
I used to, then I realised that most people appreciate whatever you give them as long as some thought has gone in to it. Don't buy milk chocolate for a dark chocolate lover but do buy them some exquisite hand made, single origin chocolates. I also realised that the friend I had the most difficulty buying for was the one who had criticised gifts other people have her, that was a liberating moment
I think it's partly a me problem. Gifts are my love language and I want to get them right. This person is exceptionally difficult to buy for and not a friendship where I'd want to phone it in.
Do they want a gift?
All the suggestions on this thread I'd hate to receive. Chocs, hampers, toiletries. They'd all get re-gifted.
I ask people not to buy things because it's a waste of their money.
Is there something you'd really like? If I got you in secret Santa what would you like to unwrap?
A small bottle of water.
Anything else would be pointless and I'd feel bad you wasted money. "
Deal! |
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