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Ever caught feelings for someone one here?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We haven’t personally but a guy I was regularly seeing from on here started to get feelings and I took the decision to stop seeing him.
My husband is my priority so nothing would make me jeopardise that |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
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Yes. First guy I met on here. Still my favourite human. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not those kind of feelings.
Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though. 
This made me smile. "
I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait! |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Not those kind of feelings.
Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.
This made me smile.
I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait!"
Oh send my love!! Say I asked after Ember and Panda. (Is it weird I remember the name of her dogs? Probably) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not those kind of feelings.
Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.
This made me smile.
I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait!
Oh send my love!! Say I asked after Ember and Panda. (Is it weird I remember the name of her dogs? Probably)"
Just did.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me there has to be some sort of feelings or nothing happens. I can’t just “fuck” as I need a bit or a start of a mental connection.
I understand that can limit my options but it’s what I need.
One night things just don’t work for me
Major feelings. Yes once. We dated for a long while and it was good. Do I look for that again? I’d say no.
Feelings can be both amazing and equally destroying |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Not those kind of feelings.
Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.
This made me smile.
I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait!
Oh send my love!! Say I asked after Ember and Panda. (Is it weird I remember the name of her dogs? Probably)
Just did. "
Awww thank you! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
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Yes.
I married her.
Sure, it's ended now. But I don't regret a thing. We've had some amazing years together, are still good friends and both moving on separately.
You can never predict when/if you catch the feels for someone on here and certainly can't predict if or how long they'll last.
Just like in the real world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
Yes.
I married her.
Sure, it's ended now. But I don't regret a thing. We've had some amazing years together, are still good friends and both moving on separately.
You can never predict when/if you catch the feels for someone on here and certainly can't predict if or how long they'll last.
Just like in the real world.
A"
It's good you're still friends. That's one thing I've never been able to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, it was fun while it lasted and I’ve no regrets. Would definitely take a friendship past FWBs if it felt it was going somewhere.
But I’m more happy going with the flow and enjoying time with someone rather than faking in love |
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"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
Yes.
I married her.
Sure, it's ended now. But I don't regret a thing. We've had some amazing years together, are still good friends and both moving on separately.
You can never predict when/if you catch the feels for someone on here and certainly can't predict if or how long they'll last.
Just like in the real world.
A"
I love this story. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
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Yes it was the happiest days of my life but in the end i lost and went insane for a long time tried to blow up the world at least 3 times but was stopped by a teddy bear and a spotty man now i try not to feel much of anything its safer for the universe
Your welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
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In over a decade no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, it was fun while it lasted and I’ve no regrets. Would definitely take a friendship past FWBs if it felt it was going somewhere.
But I’m more happy going with the flow and enjoying time with someone rather than faking in love "
Hi op this is me too. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
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"Yes it was the happiest days of my life but in the end i lost and went insane for a long time tried to blow up the world at least 3 times but was stopped by a teddy bear and a spotty man now i try not to feel much of anything its safer for the universe
Your welcome"
would i change it tho not a chance in hell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, probably several times over really. But I enjoy a connection/friendship with folk I meet... Does it mean I want to have a full blown relationship with them? Nope, because it's not want I'm seeking. But I'm definitely not scared of saying if I like someone, and if I'd like them to play some part in my life, whatever that role may be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get to like people. Love a good flirt and normal non sexual chat. After all I know what it is no need for Venn Diagrams.
Liking is not licking either but I need to feel positive vibes so we might move from liking to licking. Lips of kisses  |
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"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
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Yes, a couple of times. Sadly they disappear after a few meets!! |
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"Every person that I get to know. I get feelings easily. Sometimes it's feelings that they are someone very special."
Sometimes it's feelings that they are someone to avoid. Sometimes it's just-north-of-neutral feelings, liking but not licking (thank you for this expression Sexbecs12!). And sometimes it's very special feelings.
However I'm not crazy (at least not in that way), I'm not going to be trying to move in, and I'm certainly not going to be upsetting anyone's existing relationships. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I've had someone tell me they love me, and I'm very fond of him, but it's not real, as we haven't spent enough time together. I think he just likes the idea of it and having someone to chat to."
To be fair it's not for you to say what is and is not real for him. I'm not saying it is or isn't real, but some people do manage to fall in to what they feel/believe/think/do is love easily. With very little time spent together. To him it is real.
That aside whatever it is to him, doesn't invalidate what it is for you, and you need to do what's right for you. |
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"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?
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I honestly love the social side of the lifestyle and meeting up more than once.
Being Poly found out both my wife & girlfriend have accounts...after we started dating LOL |
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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago
Colne |
Yes but I think they're something between non romantic feelings and romantic feelings.
My last FwB ended things after developing feelings for someone else which was fine, I completely understand. They're not in a relationship yet but he messaged the other day and we ended up flirting and um... reminiscing and I got a bit upset about it but I think it was just because it was such a good thing rather than actually having romantic feelings. Who knows...  |
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"I've had someone tell me they love me, and I'm very fond of him, but it's not real, as we haven't spent enough time together. I think he just likes the idea of it and having someone to chat to.
To be fair it's not for you to say what is and is not real for him. I'm not saying it is or isn't real, but some people do manage to fall in to what they feel/believe/think/do is love easily. With very little time spent together. To him it is real.
That aside whatever it is to him, doesn't invalidate what it is for you, and you need to do what's right for you. "
It's also not fair for you to comment when you don't know the situation or finer details.
I don't think so... It's just words on a screen. He's not shown me with any actions - like making the effort to see me. Love isn't a bunch of what's app messages and a handful of meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, of course.
I think it's only natural when you are being intimate with someone regularly.
Does it mean I'd want to take it further? No!
I think the feelings make it better. I'm not a robot. |
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"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off 
Are you Taylor Swift 
I wish! But nope. He's a hardcore swift fan and would have got that reference faster than me though!  "
Ah I see haha cool .. It's your go btw  |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off
Are you Taylor Swift
I wish! But nope. He's a hardcore swift fan and would have got that reference faster than me though!
Ah I see haha cool .. It's your go btw "
Are you poking me in the forums?!  |
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"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off
Are you Taylor Swift
I wish! But nope. He's a hardcore swift fan and would have got that reference faster than me though!
Ah I see haha cool .. It's your go btw
Are you poking me in the forums?! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once, thankfully he did as well and we ended up being together although it didn't last very long as he constantly thought I was on here behind his back and cheating |
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