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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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At what stage of chatting do you, or would you like to arrange a meet?
Are you a chat for a while then meet if comfortable or a fuck it let’s meet and assess any chemistry 
TIA  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Depends on so many things.
I met my partner 2 weeks after we started talking (he booked the flight and hotel after about 36 hours of messages  ).
And one of my other favourite people... it took 5 years for us to actually meet.
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"At what stage of chatting do you, or would you like to arrange a meet?
Are you a chat for a while then meet if comfortable or a fuck it let’s meet and assess any chemistry
TIA "
Chat for 97 days continually on messages, then 15 hours of phone conversations. Then maybe just maybe I'll get myself blocked....solution |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It varies a lot. During my slut stage? A few messages and I was good to go. No messages after, in fact I actually blocked people so there was no chance of repeats.
In the past couple of years it's been anything from a couple of weeks to months. No, wait. One week. He's the exception though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At what stage of chatting do you, or would you like to arrange a meet?
Are you a chat for a while then meet if comfortable or a fuck it let’s meet and assess any chemistry
TIA
Chat for 97 days continually on messages, then 15 hours of phone conversations. Then maybe just maybe I'll get myself blocked....solution "
You can get blocked without doing all that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Thanks."
You're welcome |
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"At what stage of chatting do you, or would you like to arrange a meet?
Are you a chat for a while then meet if comfortable or a fuck it let’s meet and assess any chemistry
TIA "
I'm chat for a long time establish a meeting of minds get to know them then when you meet its more likely you have better time . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly. "
Don't you just don't about football n shit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit? "
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex."
Obsessed they are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex."
Not all of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex."
Where are these men!? |
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us "
Of course we do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do "
This is getting a bit panto. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto."
Oh no it isnt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it’s obvious what we’re here for, so if we get on why waste time on messages. Just get on with the business."
Why not hire a sex worker if that's how you feel? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Where are these men!?"
They mustn’t like women who look like they play guitar for Guns N’ Roses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto.
Oh no it isnt"
Booooo hissssss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Where are these men!?
They mustn’t like women who look like they play guitar for Guns N’ Roses"
That hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Where are these men!?
They mustn’t like women who look like they play guitar for Guns N’ Roses
That hurt "
Don’t cry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Where are these men!?
They mustn’t like women who look like they play guitar for Guns N’ Roses
That hurt
Don’t cry.
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Always more of a bon Jovi fan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Where are these men!?
They mustn’t like women who look like they play guitar for Guns N’ Roses
That hurt
Don’t cry.
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Have to Slash that one of the Jokes list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto."
Psst...he's behind you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Where are these men!?
They mustn’t like women who look like they play guitar for Guns N’ Roses
That hurt
Don’t cry.
Always more of a bon Jovi fan"
You always disappoint me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto.
Psst...he's behind you"
A bit creepy mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto.
Psst...he's behind you
A bit creepy mate."
Have you never actually been to a panto  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like chatting. Could we have a cam-free chatroom, free from textspeak, uncomfortable looking pants and insertions?
Maybe with a cake sub-forum? And no expectation to ever meet? "
I thought the Lounge was a cake sub-forum?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto.
Psst...he's behind you
A bit creepy mate.
Have you never actually been to a panto "
No  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Where are these men!?
They mustn’t like women who look like they play guitar for Guns N’ Roses
That hurt
Don’t cry.
Always more of a bon Jovi fan
You always disappoint me.
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I know.
I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto.
Psst...he's behind you
A bit creepy mate.
Have you never actually been to a panto
No "
Apologies,it wasn't meant to be creepy ,it's one that usually chanted at a panto when the witch or other dastardly type appears in the background |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto.
Psst...he's behind you
A bit creepy mate.
Have you never actually been to a panto
No
Apologies,it wasn't meant to be creepy ,it's one that usually chanted at a panto when the witch or other dastardly type appears in the background "
I’m joking mate |
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"We don’t like a lot of chat
That’s why we prefer to meet for the first time at a club
Sexting bores us as very often all talk and disappointing with the actual action  "
Lol, we’re similar and only meet new people at clubs really. Eyes, smiles, drinks laughing and dancing all really help the chemistry …”here’s my boobs/knob” over WhatsApp leave us stone-cold-bored tbh.
A little sexy chat as flirting is almost essential |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty quickly. As the male half of a couple, talking to men gets boring very early on.
Talking to men always gets boring quickly.
Don't you just don't about football n shit?
I wish. Men on here always want to talk about sex.
Not all of us
Of course we do
This is getting a bit panto.
Psst...he's behind you
A bit creepy mate.
Have you never actually been to a panto
No
Apologies,it wasn't meant to be creepy ,it's one that usually chanted at a panto when the witch or other dastardly type appears in the background
I’m joking mate "
Yeah, doesn't really come across in text |
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"We don’t like a lot of chat
That’s why we prefer to meet for the first time at a club
Sexting bores us as very often all talk and disappointing with the actual action
Lol, we’re similar and only meet new people at clubs really. Eyes, smiles, drinks laughing and dancing all really help the chemistry …”here’s my boobs/knob” over WhatsApp leave us stone-cold-bored tbh.
A little sexy chat as flirting is almost essential"
100%
And I hate all the ‘what I’m going to do to you’ talk
Yawn haha
I’m much more a face to face person |
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I chat with appropriate momentum for weeks or even months. With a little coaxing I leave it to the woman's discretion for when she is ready to meet. Arrangements to meet are usually expedited if we've moved to WhatsApp or Telegram. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we survive the first two day fade, I'll arrange a meet, but generally that will be in a month's time, thanks to my busy calendar, so that gives us more time to get to know each other  "
Calendars deffo make things difficult |
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"As soon as possible. I don’t want a penpal."
Dear Rex,
I wrote to you but you still ain't calling.
I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom.
I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not've got 'em.
Loadsa love,
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"Well it’s obvious what we’re here for, so if we get on why waste time on messages. Just get on with the business.
Why not hire a sex worker if that's how you feel? "
Not everyone needs to spend a long time chatting or a connection ( whatever that means) before deciding they want to meet someone.
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"Well it’s obvious what we’re here for, so if we get on why waste time on messages. Just get on with the business.
Why not hire a sex worker if that's how you feel?
Not everyone needs to spend a long time chatting or a connection ( whatever that means) before deciding they want to meet someone.
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I didn't suggest they did |
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"Well it’s obvious what we’re here for, so if we get on why waste time on messages. Just get on with the business.
Why not hire a sex worker if that's how you feel?
Not everyone needs to spend a long time chatting or a connection ( whatever that means) before deciding they want to meet someone.
I didn't suggest they did"
It doesn't mean they should be paying for it either |
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"Well it’s obvious what we’re here for, so if we get on why waste time on messages. Just get on with the business.
Why not hire a sex worker if that's how you feel?
Not everyone needs to spend a long time chatting or a connection ( whatever that means) before deciding they want to meet someone.
I didn't suggest they did
It doesn't mean they should be paying for it either "
His language provoked my response. Same attutude I see across Fab. Men treating women like sex dispensers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love chatting and getting to know someone but I do like a social meeting if logistics allow quite quickly. I hate to have someone chat with me for ages then meet me and be disappointed and feel they wasted their time.
Obviously that's not always going to be possible. I guess that's why I find the idea of people further away traveling to see me as too much pressure. |
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"At what stage of chatting do you, or would you like to arrange a meet?
Are you a chat for a while then meet if comfortable or a fuck it let’s meet and assess any chemistry
TIA "
i chat then meet thats the whole point, you can't like or even fancy everyone you meet but thats the only part of this process thats real  |
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