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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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None. He came as he was taking his penis out. It's fine, it happens. Didn't really bother me. To be honest, if I had a cock, knowing my very excitable state I'd probably do the same sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never received the D but have given a couple of pumps. It happens to the best of us."
Once in a club a man’s penis touched my wife’s lip and he spunked all over. It was so awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Zero.
Spaffed on my thigh before he'd even got the condom out the wrapper."
I used to es cort and this happened to me once. He didn't know how to react and got dressed and left straight away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a guy spontaneously combust jizz on me, I'm not sure if that means I'm not hot enough or I just choose sexually experienced guys.
But the actual sex doesn't seem to last long. Could be something to do with me telling them to hurry the fuck up and just come already.
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I wanted to make Jo a video whilst I was out, I went to the toilet, whipped it out in the cubicle, because the toilets were busy it wouldn’t go hard  so I got my phone out to watch one of Jo’s videos….rubbed it about 3 times ….
Obviously the video I sent Jo was shit!! 
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"I've never had a guy spontaneously combust jizz on me, I'm not sure if that means I'm not hot enough or I just choose sexually experienced guys.
But the actual sex doesn't seem to last long. Could be something to do with me telling them to hurry the fuck up and just come already.
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Nah it's that magic vagina |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never had a guy spontaneously combust jizz on me, I'm not sure if that means I'm not hot enough or I just choose sexually experienced guys.
But the actual sex doesn't seem to last long. Could be something to do with me telling them to hurry the fuck up and just come already.
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Let's not say men are sexually inexperienced because they come quickly. I get it, it's part of the self deprecating shtick with the whole addition of the "not hot enough thing" but it can happen and I don't think there's a direct correlation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never had a guy spontaneously combust jizz on me, I'm not sure if that means I'm not hot enough or I just choose sexually experienced guys.
But the actual sex doesn't seem to last long. Could be something to do with me telling them to hurry the fuck up and just come already.
Let's not say men are sexually inexperienced because they come quickly. I get it, it's part of the self deprecating shtick with the whole addition of the "not hot enough thing" but it can happen and I don't think there's a direct correlation. "
My point was I choose guys that don't get over excited at the prospect of having sex. And the "not hot enough thing" is maybe how people actually feel and not just self deprecating shtick.
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"My point was I choose guys that don't get over excited at the prospect of having sex. And the "not hot enough thing" is maybe how people actually feel and not just self deprecating shtick.
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Overexcited seems harsh. I know people who cum quickly still and we just carry on having fun anyway, it's only an issue if they get in their heads about it and its not something that needs to be an issue. I like knowing that someone is excited by me, but I also assume they're quicker than the average when they're with other people too. And it by no means makes them lesser in bed in my eyes. |
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over a year ago
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I have pre-faced a few of my meets with 'how quickly can you cum' when time is of the essence and you need to move quickly on.  Depends what fantasy you are enacting as to the actual time. I dont mind, I like it. Adds to his shame |
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"My point was I choose guys that don't get over excited at the prospect of having sex. And the "not hot enough thing" is maybe how people actually feel and not just self deprecating shtick.
Overexcited seems harsh. I know people who cum quickly still and we just carry on having fun anyway, it's only an issue if they get in their heads about it and its not something that needs to be an issue. I like knowing that someone is excited by me, but I also assume they're quicker than the average when they're with other people too. And it by no means makes them lesser in bed in my eyes."
Excited by you...so they get excited. Which was what I said, and I never said it was bad thing did I?
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"My point was I choose guys that don't get over excited at the prospect of having sex. And the "not hot enough thing" is maybe how people actually feel and not just self deprecating shtick.
Overexcited seems harsh. I know people who cum quickly still and we just carry on having fun anyway, it's only an issue if they get in their heads about it and its not something that needs to be an issue. I like knowing that someone is excited by me, but I also assume they're quicker than the average when they're with other people too. And it by no means makes them lesser in bed in my eyes.
Excited by you...so they get excited. Which was what I said, and I never said it was bad thing did I?
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I just said the the over excited seems harsh, as if they're doing something wrong by being more excited than the average. Excited is wonderful. |
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Honestly, it happens to us all. Happened to me when I've been tired. And super-excited obviously... or when the build up has been amazing. But yes, happens unexpectedly too.
And, I guess, with some partners it's always quicker than with others. One suggested it was how she was shaped inside and that most men were quick... maybe she was just being nice! |
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over a year ago
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"It it really a thing? I thought ‘a few pumps and a squirt’ was a joke about guys doing 10minute sex or something. "
Some guys don't realise it's a joke... |
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Wow, I'm sure if we started a thread taking the piss out of women who can't cum from penetration alone it wouldn't go down very well.
It's any suprise why so many guys have so many hang ups about their cocks.
Bravado aside most guy's haven't got an on off switch able to control when they cum or not.
Although I'm sure a few braggadocios one's will be along soon.
Generally speaking we don't get to choose the time.
Yes we can back off and learn to have control to a point.
However if I was a woman and I made a guy cum very quickly I'd take it as a compliment.
Much in the same way as if I made a woman cum very quickly.
If I'd turned someone on so much that they can't control themselves how's that a bad thing? |
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"Wow, I'm sure if we started a thread taking the piss out of women who can't cum from penetration alone it wouldn't go down very well.
It's any suprise why so many guys have so many hang ups about their cocks.
Bravado aside most guy's haven't got an on off switch able to control when they cum or not.
Although I'm sure a few braggadocios one's will be along soon.
Generally speaking we don't get to choose the time.
Yes we can back off and learn to have control to a point.
However if I was a woman and I made a guy cum very quickly I'd take it as a compliment.
Much in the same way as if I made a woman cum very quickly.
If I'd turned someone on so much that they can't control themselves how's that a bad thing?"
I don't see where the piss-taking is? And some men are three pumps and done with no foreplay just as some women are pillow princesses who don't give oral. Sometimes people are selfish. Sometimes it just happens and that's absolutely fine. |
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Yes I’ve been unlucky enough to experience this quite a few times . Am told that my pussy is far too good that men can’t help it lol . Has also happened to me alot when sucking too . It’s all shit really tbh as so often is all over far too quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Zero.
Spaffed on my thigh before he'd even got the condom out the wrapper."
Ditto! I choose to believe I was so hot he couldn't help himself! And don't any of you lot tell me otherwise you hear!  |
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I've been with people who came faster than they wanted to, but it really wasn't a big deal for me. Just as long as that's not the end of proceedings. Lasting too long tends to bother me more! |
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"Wow, I'm sure if we started a thread taking the piss out of women who can't cum from penetration alone it wouldn't go down very well.
It's any suprise why so many guys have so many hang ups about their cocks.
Bravado aside most guy's haven't got an on off switch able to control when they cum or not.
Although I'm sure a few braggadocios one's will be along soon.
Generally speaking we don't get to choose the time.
Yes we can back off and learn to have control to a point.
However if I was a woman and I made a guy cum very quickly I'd take it as a compliment.
Much in the same way as if I made a woman cum very quickly.
If I'd turned someone on so much that they can't control themselves how's that a bad thing?"
Learning to back off is the key for me. I have found that if I want to delay cumming and I can feel the urge start then I just need to slow down and have a quick pause. Once I have controlled that then I am good to go for a while.
Sometimes, however, you just can’t stop in time and you know those immortal words “It doesn’t matter” really mean it does and she isn’t happy  |
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