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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Both threads where the OPs rightly or wrongly are being slagged off for posting personal information that their "meet " may see and take offence.
Surely the more people that add to these posts saying this, the more the threads come to the top, and the more likely this will be.
If people feel strongly then why not leave the thread alone.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And starting another one pointing them out 
Oops lol
Well worth a return spanking!  "
People in glass houses need their bottoms spanking.
Mrs notts bends over and wiggles bum lol |
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"And starting another one pointing them out
Oops lol
Well worth a return spanking!
People in glass houses need their bottoms spanking.
Mrs notts bends over and wiggles bum
lol"
Wow! Tasty! And the very thought is having the desired effect  .....unfortunately, I'm at work and unable to do anything about it except wriggle about a bit.  |
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Threads will always attract comments, rightly or wrongly - threads are posted fully EXPECTING a responce, the fact that responce is not what the OP expected is hardly others fault.
In my view it is the responsibility of the poster to think what they type, not other forum users. They often reap what they sow.
For example, here are two possible thread titles about the same thing;
'Stuck up women never reply to my messages'
or
'Can anyone help me inderstand why my messages don't get replies'
Which one is more likely to get more positive replies?
I'm not generally one to post harsh or unpleasant replies on threads but I'm certainly not censoring my replies to account for peoples thin skins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads will always attract comments, rightly or wrongly - threads are posted fully EXPECTING a responce, the fact that responce is not what the OP expected is hardly others fault.
In my view it is the responsibility of the poster to think what they type, not other forum users. They often reap what they sow.
For example, here are two possible thread titles about the same thing;
'Stuck up women never reply to my messages'
or
'Can anyone help me inderstand why my messages don't get replies'
Which one is more likely to get more positive replies?
I'm not generally one to post harsh or unpleasant replies on threads but I'm certainly not censoring my replies to account for peoples thin skins. "
can't answer that, am too stuck up to reply  |
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"Threads will always attract comments, rightly or wrongly - threads are posted fully EXPECTING a responce, the fact that responce is not what the OP expected is hardly others fault.
In my view it is the responsibility of the poster to think what they type, not other forum users. They often reap what they sow.
For example, here are two possible thread titles about the same thing;
'Stuck up women never reply to my messages'
or
'Can anyone help me inderstand why my messages don't get replies'
Which one is more likely to get more positive replies?
I'm not generally one to post harsh or unpleasant replies on threads but I'm certainly not censoring my replies to account for peoples thin skins.
can't answer that, am too stuck up to reply "
There you go then. The correct answer was the first one |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Threads will always attract comments, rightly or wrongly - threads are posted fully EXPECTING a responce, the fact that responce is not what the OP expected is hardly others fault.
In my view it is the responsibility of the poster to think what they type, not other forum users. They often reap what they sow.
For example, here are two possible thread titles about the same thing;
'Stuck up women never reply to my messages'
or
'Can anyone help me inderstand why my messages don't get replies'
Which one is more likely to get more positive replies?
I'm not generally one to post harsh or unpleasant replies on threads but I'm certainly not censoring my replies to account for peoples thin skins. "
I agree in principle to what you are saying. Unfortunately it doesn't work like that. Someone with their own agenda will normally twist the context of the OP, which is when the crazy gang enter the fray. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads will always attract comments, rightly or wrongly - threads are posted fully EXPECTING a responce, the fact that responce is not what the OP expected is hardly others fault.
In my view it is the responsibility of the poster to think what they type, not other forum users. They often reap what they sow.
For example, here are two possible thread titles about the same thing;
'Stuck up women never reply to my messages'
or
'Can anyone help me inderstand why my messages don't get replies'
Which one is more likely to get more positive replies?
I'm not generally one to post harsh or unpleasant replies on threads but I'm certainly not censoring my replies to account for peoples thin skins. "
I've not seen the other thread (awful first meet) just the sweaty one on here, however I do think people were harsh with that OP. |
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"Threads will always attract comments, rightly or wrongly - threads are posted fully EXPECTING a responce, the fact that responce is not what the OP expected is hardly others fault.
In my view it is the responsibility of the poster to think what they type, not other forum users. They often reap what they sow.
For example, here are two possible thread titles about the same thing;
'Stuck up women never reply to my messages'
or
'Can anyone help me inderstand why my messages don't get replies'
Which one is more likely to get more positive replies?
I'm not generally one to post harsh or unpleasant replies on threads but I'm certainly not censoring my replies to account for peoples thin skins.
I agree in principle to what you are saying. Unfortunately it doesn't work like that. Someone with their own agenda will normally twist the context of the OP, which is when the crazy gang enter the fray. "
I agree with that as well. The thread gains it's own life and the story takes on new angles that were never there... the guy on one of those threads suddenly became a 'timewaster', for example, which was not a comment used by the OP at all.
All you can do is watch your own posts and try not to be deliberately unpleasant or rude I guess. Not respinding to obvious trolling is also good (but hard to resist at times). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The same thing is happening on that other thread at the moment. Granted, it wasn't a good OP, but you can see how it is being twisted into something entirely different. "
I don't understand the motivation of the OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The same thing is happening on that other thread at the moment. Granted, it wasn't a good OP, but you can see how it is being twisted into something entirely different.
I don't understand the motivation of the OP."
Which one?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The same thing is happening on that other thread at the moment. Granted, it wasn't a good OP, but you can see how it is being twisted into something entirely different.
I don't understand the motivation of the OP.
Which one? "
Yeah who you talking about!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The same thing is happening on that other thread at the moment. Granted, it wasn't a good OP, but you can see how it is being twisted into something entirely different.
I don't understand the motivation of the OP.
Which one?
Yeah who you talking about!!! "
The one in the sweaty thread. |
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"The same thing is happening on that other thread at the moment. Granted, it wasn't a good OP, but you can see how it is being twisted into something entirely different.
I don't understand the motivation of the OP.
Which one?
Yeah who you talking about!!!
The one in the sweaty thread."
I don't think there was much motivation. Just a fire and forget statement he never thought out. Bleating about bandwagons doesn't cut it for me - if you push a wagon down a hill you can hardly complain if prople jump on it afterwards... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like reading forum threads that are disrespectful to other people, and that show no discretion, what happens on a meet should stay on the meet!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The same thing is happening on that other thread at the moment. Granted, it wasn't a good OP, but you can see how it is being twisted into something entirely different.
I don't understand the motivation of the OP.
Which one?
Yeah who you talking about!!!
The one in the sweaty thread.
I don't think there was much motivation. Just a fire and forget statement he never thought out. Bleating about bandwagons doesn't cut it for me - if you push a wagon down a hill you can hardly complain if prople jump on it afterwards... "
Ah, but some of us were only doing it to get noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't like reading forum threads that are disrespectful to other people, and that show no discretion, what happens on a meet should stay on the meet!!
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I agree and I hate the thought of being involved with hurting other peoples feelings, but some of those threads do raise some interesting topics that happen in swinging. Just not good if the other people see the posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes some of the threads do make interesting topics, but most of them are either bragging, " look who I/we met"
Or putting the other party down, and the latter is very one sided and in my mind not very fair on the other party!
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Discussing past experiences in general terms is fine in my book, but recent ones (like the barely out the door and log on Fab forums one this morning) and mentioning meets with others can be a bit ropey in my mind.
I don't mind banter, in jokes and cheeky references between forumites either, but anything too obvious or blatant is a bit off I think.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Discussing past experiences in general terms is fine in my book, but recent ones (like the barely out the door and log on Fab forums one this morning) and mentioning meets with others can be a bit ropey in my mind.
I don't mind banter, in jokes and cheeky references between forumites either, but anything too obvious or blatant is a bit off I think.
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I am with you on this one..... If we were to meet a fellow formite, we really wouldn't want our meet, before or after published all over the forums!!
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