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What does ‘discreet’ really mean?
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 not this again
Some weeks ago this thread was made.
Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both |
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" not this again
Some weeks ago this thread was made.
Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both "
Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad.  |
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Discreet for us means we keep our Fab lives separate from our daily ones.
If we see you out and about we might exchange a smile but won’t say hi.
We’re not looking for new daily friends here, just naughty evenings. |
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In my case I ask for discretion purely because I’m seeking locals to meet (Nottingham’s a relatively tiny place!) & I like to compartmentalise my life so don’t want ‘Fred’ bumping into me at any local outlet & declaring our shenanigans for all and sundry  |
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It means that we are happy to play on the condition that you don’t go broadcasting our personal lives to every Tom dick or Harry. Swinging used to be very discreet. I don’t care how mainstream it is, it’s discretion or nothing.
Sadly it seems in short supply these days. |
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"It means that we are happy to play on the condition that you don’t go broadcasting our personal lives to every Tom dick or Harry. Swinging used to be very discreet. I don’t care how mainstream it is, it’s discretion or nothing.
Sadly it seems in short supply these days. "
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" not this again
Some weeks ago this thread was made.
Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both
Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad. "
You can always make a ask thread lovely, many people ask questions that have been asked previously, hopefully the ones who dislike it will scroll on past next time. Keep on posting those thoughts  |
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" not this again
Some weeks ago this thread was made.
Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both "
Or a lot of the time neither |
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I don't think it always means they're cheating,but sometimes they are & there would be other red flags.
Mainly they don't share that they are in this lifestyle ,so wouldn't want others to discuss them if they'd met or don't want their work to know that they're on here.
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Discreet to me in a swinging context means that you don't broadcast your activities publicly, you don't post about other people in off site platforms and you don't gossip to other people about those you've met. |
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" not this again
Some weeks ago this thread was made.
Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both
Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad. "
Now your grounded for back chat  LOOOL |
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" not this again
Some weeks ago this thread was made.
Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both
Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad.
You can always make a ask thread lovely, many people ask questions that have been asked previously, hopefully the ones who dislike it will scroll on past next time. Keep on posting those thoughts "
Everyone posts their likes and dislikes to threads for what ever reason lovely |
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" not this again
Some weeks ago this thread was made.
Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both
Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad. "
You can ask whatever you want within forum rules  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Whether it's written or a profile or not half the meet excitement is having a personal life. If that personal life is broadcast in a week, month, year or 10, then it's no longer personal - you may as well be the guy in the pub bragging about how they fucked a holiday rep. |
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"adjective:
careful and prudent in one's speech or actions, especially in order to keep something confidential or to avoid embarrassment.
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This is how i would hope people to behave on fab. In this way being discreet should come as standard really. Shouldn’t even need to be said.
Which is why when it is plastered all over a profile i read it as cheater red flag. I’m not always right, but i reckon its served me well about 90% of the time. |
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