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Question for the ladies..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...do you ask to meet men or wait for them to ask you?
I mean, not on fab, outside of on an actual date.
What's your success rate?
Do you think times are changing where men aren't always the ones to make the first move..like with kissing/touch..if the guy doesn't make a move do you?
And men, do you hold back? If so why? Just not that interested or cba |
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I ask sometimes. I don't think I'd like it if I had to ask every time.
Usually I'm fairly successful. Sometimes life gets in the way or I've misread a situation. But most times it works our for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
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OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet? "
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
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Which is insanity to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me."
No they were the sane ones!! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!"
There are sane ones? 
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!"
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed |
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Apart from work, I don’t think I'm ever really in situations conducive to meeting men. And all of my male colleagues are married
When I'm out with friends, I'm there to enjoy their company and not out 'on the pull'. |
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I NEVER make the first move. Maybe once we have chatted I'll suggest a date/meeting. The 99% rejection if I make first move is tiresome. Rather she make first contact then at least I know the rest is up to me to keep the interest. Maybe not the best approach but it might explain my success rate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
There are sane ones?
A"
A couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed "
You may struggle to piss.... |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed
You may struggle to piss...."
It's cool by the time I meet you you'll be wearing dentures which I'll take out anyway. Gimme those gums! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed
You may struggle to piss....
It's cool by the time I meet you you'll be wearing dentures which I'll take out anyway. Gimme those gums!"
So, like next year? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No I don't. The whole being engaged/poly thing makes it a tad difficult. I have done in the past, men and women, if I'm interested in them enough.
As far as kissing goes, I generally prefer the other person to make a move. Only because I'm kind of rubbish at reading if someone is interested in me in that way. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed
You may struggle to piss....
It's cool by the time I meet you you'll be wearing dentures which I'll take out anyway. Gimme those gums!"
You really think they are not dentures already? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed
You may struggle to piss....
It's cool by the time I meet you you'll be wearing dentures which I'll take out anyway. Gimme those gums!
You really think they are not dentures already? "
Sssshhhhh |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed
You may struggle to piss....
It's cool by the time I meet you you'll be wearing dentures which I'll take out anyway. Gimme those gums!
So, like next year? "
Sounds a plan! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed
You may struggle to piss....
It's cool by the time I meet you you'll be wearing dentures which I'll take out anyway. Gimme those gums!
So, like next year?
Sounds a plan! "
Cock tease |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I don't speak to guys outside of fab.
On fab I have done numerous times, they usually fob me off and never seem particularly interested.
OK so, could you take a guess and quantify the percentage of how many guys you've asked to meet that you do actually meet?
In the last 12 months, I've asked 3 guys outright if they wanna meet. Met none. I mean one I did piss off a bit so that was maybe my fault.
Which is insanity to me.
No they were the sane ones!!
If I meet you and come back without a body part I'll be really pissed
You may struggle to piss....
It's cool by the time I meet you you'll be wearing dentures which I'll take out anyway. Gimme those gums!
So, like next year?
Sounds a plan!
Cock tease"
Is it cock teasing for you? Wait, you have teeth and a cock? Damn it Lilith you catfish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...do you ask to meet men or wait for them to ask you?
I mean, not on fab, outside of on an actual date.
What's your success rate?
Do you think times are changing where men aren't always the ones to make the first move..like with kissing/touch..if the guy doesn't make a move do you?
And men, do you hold back? If so why? Just not that interested or cba"
I ask and have a high success rate because clearly I'm a sure thing. I've also been asked too, same reason.  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I don't ever make the move, unless I know for certain that someone likes me. And I'm talking notarised and signed in triplicate kind of certainty.
And that doesn't happen out there in the world. I don't get guys interested in me. On here, however, it happens. And if I want to ask someone to meet me I will. However... I don't expect them to say yes. Which is handy, as they usually avoid the question or abandon the conversation instantly.
If I have all the appropriate paperwork and a blood oath that they like me... I'll go for a kiss, or whatever, in person. Very tentatively. And if it doesn't seem like they're into it, I'll turn that into some kind of distraction... like "look over there, a 3 headed monkey!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You mean kissing/touching them the first time? Yes I've reached out first.
I'm very loath to ask anyone to meet at present unless as a friendly social, but I have asked first before now. When I had some confidence and courage! |
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