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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup...l never ..ever ..compare my life with others in anyway, find what you love to do and do it and make absolutely no apologies to anyone for doing what you love.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not the Dr says I'm my days are numbered .I've got a lot of shit needs sorting ."
Shit that’s not good at all, I hope the shit gets sorted swiftly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
But happiness is fleeting anyway.
I think its is unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be miserable all the time."
It comes and goes but I'm happy pretty much most of the time. Life is good. |
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"No.
But happiness is fleeting anyway.
I think its is unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be miserable all the time."
Definitely not unnatural to be always happy. If a person can manage with where their life is then they will get through the days better  |
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I am sure most people oscilate berween euphoria and depression. Things happen that push you towards one or the other. People manage those events and the effect they have differently. Love and strength to anyone who struggles and please don't suffer alone. Talk to people and get professional help too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
But happiness is fleeting anyway.
I think its is unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be miserable all the time."
Agreed. What goes up has to come down as with all in this youniverse. Who’d want to be happy all the time anyhow, I actually enjoy melancholic moments - they spur me on |
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Yes very much.
But sometimes I slip and it creeps in around the edges. I have to then remind myself I have nothing to be unhappy about.
I have had a bit of a journey to get here and have suffered quite a bit of a loss so I guess that’s where the doubt comes in.
But yes happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am lucky because I have people and little moments that bring me so much happiness and they are the reason I am here. But without them no, I'm not really happy and it feels like there's a big part of me that will always feel way. I've lost so many parts of myself and I don't think they will ever heal. But I'm grateful for what I do have, and I try to focus on that. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I am lucky because I have people and little moments that bring me so much happiness and they are the reason I am here. But without them no, I'm not really happy and it feels like there's a big part of me that will always feel way. I've lost so many parts of myself and I don't think they will ever heal. But I'm grateful for what I do have, and I try to focus on that."
Lemon you may be terrible at dming horny men on fab (me) but I can tell you are genuinely such a good little egg and I know many people here think you're fucking awesome.
Hope you become as happy as you can be (blowjob not required)  |
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"I am lucky because I have people and little moments that bring me so much happiness and they are the reason I am here. But without them no, I'm not really happy and it feels like there's a big part of me that will always feel way. I've lost so many parts of myself and I don't think they will ever heal. But I'm grateful for what I do have, and I try to focus on that."
Ah, Lemon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Frankly with the way my life is going no. I'm not. But I keep a mini diary of all the crap going on. Of which I'm not affrade to admit. And hopefully one day some of this sensual tension of mine can be worked off too  |
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No.
I am usually a happy person.
But not happy in situation.
I thought I was.
But experiences in the past have made me realise I'm not.
I'm just goin thru the motions.
Dunno if I'll ever be truly happy again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have happy moments, but I'm not happy at the moment. It's kinda hard to say to yourself.
I'm definitely a person who is seen as happy and relied upon to give other people happiness.
My bucket is pretty empty at the moment.. I'm working on filling it. |
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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago
Midlands & Cheltenham |
"No, not at all. If it wasn’t for the fact that I have a child, I’d have left this world a long time ago!"
Ahhh the kids have us digging deep and doing our best. My aim is not to pass to much of my fragility onto them.
I wish you well friend and hope you find a body to talk to |
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By *ix69Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"No, not at all. If it wasn’t for the fact that I have a child, I’d have left this world a long time ago!
Ahhh the kids have us digging deep and doing our best. My aim is not to pass to much of my fragility onto them.
I wish you well friend and hope you find a body to talk to "
Thank you, I appreciate that! |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
bedlington |
Thinking back haven’t been truly happy since 2013, family was never the same after the ex cheated and ran off with someone else before coming back, we remained together till 2021 but was never the same but at least got more time living as a family with the kids, met a great lass after we split was perfect for a few months then had a heart attack that ruined everything she stuck around but my personality changed for a long while was only able to feel sadness and eventually she left I don’t blame her I was no good to her anymore how I was. Sorry for going off deep for a morning van broke down can’t work and feeling it bad this week just keep asking my dead dad is this it is this how life was meant to end up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just as the teachers said on my school report. Could do better.
But I hide it well. No point in dragging others down is there.
But....
I'm not unhappy...."
They said that too to me. 'could do better but with xxxx' 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking back haven’t been truly happy since 2013, family was never the same after the ex cheated and ran off with someone else before coming back, we remained together till 2021 but was never the same but at least got more time living as a family with the kids, met a great lass after we split was perfect for a few months then had a heart attack that ruined everything she stuck around but my personality changed for a long while was only able to feel sadness and eventually she left I don’t blame her I was no good to her anymore how I was. Sorry for going off deep for a morning van broke down can’t work and feeling it bad this week just keep asking my dead dad is this it is this how life was meant to end up?"
You still have plenty of good days to come. Sounds like you've had it tough but keep going. You've got your beautiful kids and I'm sure happier times will come for you again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe in being happy. I think there are things in life that bring you happiness I being in a constant happy state is impossible and doesn't exist |
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Happy? God no. I don’t even know what that means. Content? Yes. Healthy? Yes. Better off than nearly everyone else? Yes.
I’ve never really got over the feeling that there should be a little bit more to life. Despite having a brilliantly supportive family, amazing friends, loads of hobbies, plenty of cash and no reason that I can’t do whatever I like whenever I like, I wake up every morning and rather than spring out of bed ready to face a new exciting day, think, urgh, is this it?
This has been the case for pretty much my entire life. I’m not depressed, I just feel like there should be something more out there, that the occasional bit of spectacular doesn’t outweigh the drudgery.
Some days I can really enjoy my adventures, sometimes I’m distracted by a performance or art, often I can laugh out load at things that happen to me. But it’s all temporary. The overriding sensation is, meh. Is that good enough? |
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Nope, can't quite remember what happy feels like. I'm so weary of this hateful world, on the days I can function I mostly just try to keep my head above water. Shite state of affairs, but at least there's chocolate. Big virtual hugs to everyone else who is struggling too. |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
bedlington |
"Thinking back haven’t been truly happy since 2013, family was never the same after the ex cheated and ran off with someone else before coming back, we remained together till 2021 but was never the same but at least got more time living as a family with the kids, met a great lass after we split was perfect for a few months then had a heart attack that ruined everything she stuck around but my personality changed for a long while was only able to feel sadness and eventually she left I don’t blame her I was no good to her anymore how I was. Sorry for going off deep for a morning van broke down can’t work and feeling it bad this week just keep asking my dead dad is this it is this how life was meant to end up?
You still have plenty of good days to come. Sounds like you've had it tough but keep going. You've got your beautiful kids and I'm sure happier times will come for you again. "
Thank you for such nice words, I hope so, thank you |
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