FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > The forums come to life.
The forums come to life.
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
. |
When it comes to meeting people from the forums, how has it been?
Are people as expected or different? Do you build a mental image from posts about personality/appearance?
Are you happy to meet socially or otherwise forum users? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"When it comes to meeting people from the forums, how has it been?
Are people as expected or different? Do you build a mental image from posts about personality/appearance?
Are you happy to meet socially or otherwise forum users?"
Usually carry on the conversation where we left off x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Never meet anyone from the forums well tell a lie there I have sort off meet one person from the fourms but wasn’t exactly a meet
More they were on a train and so was I never sed anything to them though but I will say thank you for my phone back sorry it went flying in your direction as I dropped it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
Ooh I never really assume what people are going to be like. Sometimes I've been 'oh you're taller than I expected' but that's about it.
Also I'm usually so nervous/excited to meet people I rabbit on about nonsense to the point they are probably thinking 'jesus she won't shut up'  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
How has it been? Both equally rewarding and frustrating, because I've met some lovely forumites who all exceeded my 'expectations', but also sad that so many are geographically dispersed for me to meet and imbibe. But it's not an impossibility.
I don't really have serious expectations because I have nothing to work from other than the photographs from their profiles and the way they engage and conduct themselves on the forå.
I may possess a general inkling of how they ·may· 'look' but to be honest I have no real mental image. I suppose I have a flaky imagination. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I imagine I'll find some of them tedious, some of them sexy, and the others like when you meet a friend of a friend and it's always a little awkward "
Bagsy tedious!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I imagine I'll find some of them tedious, some of them sexy, and the others like when you meet a friend of a friend and it's always a little awkward
Bagsy tedious!!"
I imagine you'll be tedious and sexy. Which is fine cause I'll give you a bottle of rum which stops words and promotes horniness. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I avoid meeting forum people.
No offense, I'm sure you're all erm lovely in real life... 
You've never met a forumite?
Or more, you're avoiding doing so as much as possible?"
She is begging me to meet. Even offered to suck my toes for it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
. |
"They’ve always been pretty similar to what I’ve expected I think. A couple of surprises but I think a lot I’ve met have been frequent posters so you get a good feel for their personality. "
Yes, to a certain extent. The forums are just a snapshot of a person at that particular moment in time. Tone can't always easily be read, your own biases slip into how you view a person. I guess over time you can get more of an insight? More of a feel for a person. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Some have been a pleasure to meet. Some were different to how they are on here. Hopefully any who have met me had a positive experience "
Big ol' positive experience here, pal.
You are just ace to be around.
OP is okay-ish too I guess.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I avoid meeting forum people.
No offense, I'm sure you're all erm lovely in real life...
You've never met a forumite?
Or more, you're avoiding doing so as much as possible?"
I think I've met 2 in the past, one no longer and one still here. I think.
It's a gossipy place you know? Plus, you kiss one, you've practically kissed them all the way everyone's interlinked. Away from forums is safer.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I avoid meeting forum people.
No offense, I'm sure you're all erm lovely in real life...
You've never met a forumite?
Or more, you're avoiding doing so as much as possible?
I think I've met 2 in the past, one no longer and one still here. I think.
It's a gossipy place you know? Plus, you kiss one, you've practically kissed them all the way everyone's interlinked. Away from forums is safer.
"
It's all the drama Mick, I just love it!!
I don't care who talks about me.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've had the pleasure of meeting a few at various socials and they've all been as expected, one social was a bit crazy packed so the atmosphere wasn't great and I think a few we're a bit fed up but in general everyone I've met has been great.
I don't really have any preconceived thoughts on what people are like though, I find meeting at face value much easier.
Mrs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"They’ve always been pretty similar to what I’ve expected I think. A couple of surprises but I think a lot I’ve met have been frequent posters so you get a good feel for their personality.
Yes, to a certain extent. The forums are just a snapshot of a person at that particular moment in time. Tone can't always easily be read, your own biases slip into how you view a person. I guess over time you can get more of an insight? More of a feel for a person. "
Yes I think that’s been it. I’ve surely met people like Topsy or Stingly at socials, people who post a lot and openly so you get the general gist of how they are over posts here and there. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
. |
"Ooh I never really assume what people are going to be like. Sometimes I've been 'oh you're taller than I expected' but that's about it.
Also I'm usually so nervous/excited to meet people I rabbit on about nonsense to the point they are probably thinking 'jesus she won't shut up' "
No! Not at all. You're adorable in your babble, it's very endearing and excitable.
Not making an assumption is a good way of doing it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I find this interesting as most advice given to people who are struggling to meet amongst other things is be active in the forums!!
But then that now may seem to be duff information  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Met some in passing,just to say hi at a group social. Should be meeting some more in a few weeks  . But don't have the right appearance that attracts people. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I haven't yet, but that's not to say I wouldn't. I like forumites, I've found I'm more interested in a guy from here as you get a better snapshot of their personality before moving to private messages |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I haven't yet, but that's not to say I wouldn't. I like forumites, I've found I'm more interested in a guy from here as you get a better snapshot of their personality before moving to private messages "
Thats banking on that they show the true selves |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'd never do one of the mass organised socials though. Ever.
I've historically met people who I wanted to meet, not with other knobbers added on."
Ah this made me chuckle |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I’ve met a good few forumites at big socials and some of them privately, all over great experience as you get to finally match the real person with their online persona. I just hope others felt the same about me.
The only thing that keeps me up at night till this day is the fact when I met F&B for coffee he went unlos a few days later.
I’m desperately trying not to think those two things are somehow related.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'd never do one of the mass organised socials though. Ever.
I've historically met people who I wanted to meet, not with other knobbers added on.
Ah this made me chuckle"
I sound like a twat (I am), but I can't handle big groups of strangers.
If I can't fade away it's not for me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Amazed to count up and realise I've met five forumites. Four of them were lovely & pretty much as I thought they'd be.  the other was a cunt."
Well, yeah.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
"I’ve met a good few forumites at big socials and some of them privately, all over great experience as you get to finally match the real person with their online persona. I just hope others felt the same about me.
The only thing that keeps me up at night till this day is the fact when I met F&B for coffee he went unlos a few days later.
I’m desperately trying not to think those two things are somehow related.
"
he always left and joined |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I’ve only met forum people at group socials.
They’ve mostly been as expected personality wise. The only surprises are when people come across on here very confident but in real life they aren’t.
Kx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
2014 met a few
Used the chat room
The few beautiful men became regulars. Had some good times and happy memories.
2019 again met some beautiful men. 2023..only been back 3 weeks. Still sorting out the odd socks
Never met anyone from the forums mainly chat and search.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've never really anticipated whether they would be different or the same as their forum persona as I've mostly just been excited to meet them.
I have noticed they may be a little more reserved though which completely normal as typing opinions on here is a very different prospect to meeting in person and only a few I've found have been completely the same when first meeting them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Pretty much everyone I've met from the forums has been as I've expected.
And I've only met people from the forum since lockdown was lifted. So that's been a while. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *KloganMan
over a year ago
Ramsbottom |
I’ve scrolled through and kinda forgotten the question but I think I’m meant to say, 100%, way better than I’d hoped. Really, genuinely heart warming experiences. X
If that’s just luck then I’ll take it. X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Well I clearly haven't as ye're all so bloody far away , I would like to though,even if just socially 
Em x"
Seems an awfully long way to come for just a social meet... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
On previous profiles I met a couple of people via the forums. Not sure it was different to meeting anyone else as still involved chatting one to one before agreeing to meet. In my case, it was more a different way of being introduced. Overall it was a positive experience at the time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Typing dont mean a thing,pics,are a glimpse.
I would have a phone chat,arrange for a drink.
Face to face is the window of oppertunity ,for you to leave an impression. So abit can be pieced to what may or could be down the line,if both parties persued,the intentions and the Goal is the same.
So many variables and info to take in,and sive through.
Attraction,fancey,lust,the emotions of people the mental state at that given time.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've met quite a few over the years, mostly socially some more.
All my experiences have been positive. I've not met anyone and thought they were all that different to what I expected. Some a little more shy in person but that's actually endearing.
I hope I've been as people expect. I think thats the biggest fear for me when it's forum people. Especially those you interact with regularly. It almost feels like there is more pressure for them to like you when you meet them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We generally love to look at the forums but rarely join in. As we only meet folks at clubs it would be great to meet some of the fabulous people who post in the forums
So many great personalities that we look forward to reading comments and enjoying treads xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"It's almost as though people thought it might be good to have a social for Lounge dwellers and organised one for September. *cough* MLS *cough*
J"
Really? Is there a social to encourage Lounge forum goers? You must tell me more? I'm assuming it can be found in the meet section of the forums if you search MLS?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I've met quite a few now, most were as expected. Some were quite the surprise though, for various reasons.
Where's the Saturday night Kareoke???"
I endeavour to make a return next week. The last few weeks has been bonkers. Nothing deep or serious or negative. Just bonkers. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've very much enjoyed meeting forumites. The ones I've taken to bed have been utterly delightful. And the ones at socials who kept their clothes on have been lovely company. Some of them I might want to take to bed at some point, but no rush  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’ve met quite a few forum folks in my time, almost exclusively so! For the most part, they’ve been wonderful and delightful people, a few less so, several far more so.
As with any long term text based interactions, it can give you insight but not the full experience, meeting in person is always the way forwards |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's far too small a pond for me to fish in
Indeed. Feels a little inc€stuous here.
Miles
Er. You don't have to fuck them. ?? I didn't.
What?! I thought fucking was obligatory. Dammit. "
You bring a flask and sarnies and I'll bring a worm  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It's far too small a pond for me to fish in
Indeed. Feels a little inc€stuous here.
Miles
Er. You don't have to fuck them. ?? I didn't.
What?! I thought fucking was obligatory. Dammit. "
Missed a trick there! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"It's far too small a pond for me to fish in
Indeed. Feels a little inc€stuous here.
Miles
Er. You don't have to fuck them. ?? I didn't.
What?! I thought fucking was obligatory. Dammit.
You bring a flask and sarnies and I'll bring a worm "
We're going fishing? I've been on aquarium dates, but never actual fishing. Will you show me how to hold the rod? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"It's far too small a pond for me to fish in
Indeed. Feels a little inc€stuous here.
Miles
Er. You don't have to fuck them. ?? I didn't.
What?! I thought fucking was obligatory. Dammit.
Missed a trick there! "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's far too small a pond for me to fish in
Indeed. Feels a little inc€stuous here.
Miles
Er. You don't have to fuck them. ?? I didn't.
What?! I thought fucking was obligatory. Dammit.
You bring a flask and sarnies and I'll bring a worm
We're going fishing? I've been on aquarium dates, but never actual fishing. Will you show me how to hold the rod? "
With your good looks, and sexy body, the rod will bend to your will |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Definitely meet socially first, you have to have a connection of some kind otherwise its just not fulfilling"
To paraphrase Woody Allen....."but as not fulfilling experiences go, it is one of the best" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *lexm87Man
over a year ago
Various |
"It's far too small a pond for me to fish in
Indeed. Feels a little inc€stuous here.
Miles
Er. You don't have to fuck them. ?? I didn't.
What?! I thought fucking was obligatory. Dammit.
You bring a flask and sarnies and I'll bring a worm
We're going fishing? I've been on aquarium dates, but never actual fishing. Will you show me how to hold the rod?
With your good looks, and sexy body, the rod will bend to your will "
"Aquarium dates"? Tell us more! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
F
