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2nd date - Same food - red flag ?
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Ladies (or others) if a sexy fabber invited you over for second date and made the exact same dish , and played out the sane routine , dinner conversation, wine , movie and snuggles, leading to great seed, would you come back a 3rd time.?
For those that cook, would you consider it rude if your date requested exactly what they wanted you to cook ? |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
If nothing was said about it being the only meal they can cook well or something similar, I’d find the evening a bit weird…like when someone copies and pastes the same message over and over…I’d get the impression it’s just a routine and it would feel flat and not very special.
And I have to explain some preferences when people offer to cook for me but I wouldn’t state a particular meal. |
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I did wonder about the seed  .
I'm pretty flexible and if I like someone enough or am sufficiently enamoured I will be more than happy to take it as it comes and accommodate their requests and desires. |
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If the experience is enjoyable... Why not.. Certainly food for the conversation too. Especially if they wear the same clothes and under garments... Same playlist.... Would have a groundhog day feel to it. |
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By *m272Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Ladies (or others) if a sexy fabber invited you over for second date and made the exact same dish , and played out the sane routine , dinner conversation, wine , movie and snuggles, leading to great seed, would you come back a 3rd time.?
For those that cook, would you consider it rude if your date requested exactly what they wanted you to cook ? "
Start as you mean to go on I say lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I liked the food the first time yes. I can be worried about food and if Im going to be able to eat it, so no surprises is good  sod the film though get straight to the seed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd find someone cooking for me a bit odd anyway. Once would be enough, I wouldn't go back.
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- Not a view I share btw - I just find lilith’s droll humour very funny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she’s taking the trouble to cook for me, which means she made the effort to get the ingredients and so on, I wouldn’t mind it if it’s the same dish. The routine isn’t an issue at all as long as we’re enjoying ourselves.
As for asking, I wouldn’t consider it rude to be asked but I don’t think I’d ask on a second visit unless we already have a friendly and assuring connection.
Miles |
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