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What women want ????
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By *ubman50 OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
I'm confused, in general you here most women say that men are selfish and just after onething on here and they want to be shown affection made to feel special etc,well i'm on fab as a submissive man offering to be a complete submissive, willing to give massages, oral, run baths and wash & dry hair, also to do housework chores and gardening/DIY but i don't seem to find any women that want a man like me.
What am i doing or saying that is so wrong ? |
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"I'm confused, in general you here most women say that men are selfish and just after onething on here and they want to be shown affection made to feel special etc,well i'm on fab as a submissive man offering to be a complete submissive, willing to give massages, oral, run baths and wash & dry hair, also to do housework chores and gardening/DIY but i don't seem to find any women that want a man like me.
What am i doing or saying that is so wrong ?"
You do all those things because you enjoy doing them & being submissive, that's not a special act to a particular person.
That's not affection or made to feel special that something you like to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally I wouldn’t want a submissive man.
I like to be challenged so would find it rather boring.
But I’m sure there are lots of women on here looking for that.. good luck op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm confused, in general you here most women say that men are selfish and just after onething on here and they want to be shown affection made to feel special etc,well i'm on fab as a submissive man offering to be a complete submissive, willing to give massages, oral, run baths and wash & dry hair, also to do housework chores and gardening/DIY but i don't seem to find any women that want a man like me.
What am i doing or saying that is so wrong ?"
- what you’re describing isn’t what most ladies want, I’m sure. All that you’re describing is what YOU want. They’d still be pandering to your wants/needs. Personally I’d like a 2-way relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not looking for any of that.
Women are on here for many different reasons and are looking for numerous different things.
I wish you good luck in what you're searching for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want a guy that's confident, in control. A guy that can show me affection by spitting in my mouth whilst he has a strong grip around my neck.
I can do my own housework and DIY.
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I thought you said you wanted a cook and a cleaner in another thread?
If OP wants to come round and do my housework today that would be great, guests are coming at 7.00 so needs to be sorted by then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What women want.
What a question!
I expect every single woman on here wants something different to every other woman on here so there’s not much point trying to find an approach that appeals to us all.
You do you because that’s what you want to do and if someone wants that too then bingo.
If you’re trying to be a certain way just to attract women it won’t work  |
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By *unchalMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I'm confused, in general you here most women say that men are selfish and just after onething on here and they want to be shown affection made to feel special etc,well i'm on fab as a submissive man offering to be a complete submissive, willing to give massages, oral, run baths and wash & dry hair, also to do housework chores and gardening/DIY but i don't seem to find any women that want a man like me.
What am i doing or saying that is so wrong ?"
Are you sure you're not into men? I could do with someone like you around the house. How do you feel about tidying up after slovenly teenagers?  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I don't want a sl@ve. The idea of anyone being that submissive towards me makes me feel ill (I don't give a monkeys what people do with each other... no kink shaming... I just don't like it for me).
That doesn't mean I don't want affection, love, care, and a partnership. In which I get to suck his cock and use it as I like... and he gets to fuck my mouth and use me as he likes. Give and take  |
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I want all that, but I want an attractive to me man, with penetrative sex as well. A man I can rely on to be strong for me, not just a servant, I can get that from subs, with no sexual interaction what so ever.
Good luck OP |
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By *atnayCouple
over a year ago
STEVENAGE |
"I want a guy that's confident, in control. A guy that can show me affection by spitting in my mouth whilst he has a strong grip around my neck.
I can do my own housework and DIY.
Yes, this. Lol
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"I'm confused, in general you here most women say that men are selfish and just after onething on here and they want to be shown affection made to feel special etc,well i'm on fab as a submissive man offering to be a complete submissive, willing to give massages, oral, run baths and wash & dry hair, also to do housework chores and gardening/DIY but i don't seem to find any women that want a man like me.
What am i doing or saying that is so wrong ?"
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Change your title to "Butler" and they will come flocking. |
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Hi op
What you're looking for is quite niche and won't appeal to all women .
Only a small amount of women will be seeking a sub & then when you factor in your married too, that will reduce the people who will meet you further.
None of us will appeal to everyone though .
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By *ubman50 OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Thank you all for your comments i appreciate them all but i feel i might have not explained myself clearly, although i agree with some of you about it being my fantasy which is true i'm also not looking to commit full time it is just a fantasy that id like to explore and make come true but its more like im making an offer for any lady that wants to feel wanted or spoilt by being treated like a lady or just someone that wants to Boss a man about for a few hours |
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"Thank you all for your comments i appreciate them all but i feel i might have not explained myself clearly, although i agree with some of you about it being my fantasy which is true i'm also not looking to commit full time it is just a fantasy that id like to explore and make come true but its more like im making an offer for any lady that wants to feel wanted or spoilt by being treated like a lady or just someone that wants to Boss a man about for a few hours "
I think there's no harm in looking for someone who shares the same fantasy as you, lots of us are after that meets wouldn't be very successful otherwise . I don't know if it would help if you put a little section in your profile explaining what you've told us here.
There was a very popular forum poster who thoroughly enjoyed bathing men, washing their hair etc. Most people supported them in offering that but she was a woman...make of that what you will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you all for your comments i appreciate them all but i feel i might have not explained myself clearly, although i agree with some of you about it being my fantasy which is true i'm also not looking to commit full time it is just a fantasy that id like to explore and make come true but its more like im making an offer for any lady that wants to feel wanted or spoilt by being treated like a lady or just someone that wants to Boss a man about for a few hours "
… it all just comes across as duplicitous & one sided if you ask me. Bossing a man around would just make me laugh/use up energy, pity him & there’s absolutely nothing arousing/empowering about that.
Maybe try dedicated sites? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you all for your comments i appreciate them all but i feel i might have not explained myself clearly, although i agree with some of you about it being my fantasy which is true i'm also not looking to commit full time it is just a fantasy that id like to explore and make come true but its more like im making an offer for any lady that wants to feel wanted or spoilt by being treated like a lady or just someone that wants to Boss a man about for a few hours "
No, I don't feel you're being honest with us or yourself. You're looking for a FemDom dynamic. This is your kink and personally I don't want to be spoilt by a man who is getting off on being subservient to me. Rewording it doesn't hide the basic premise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you all for your comments i appreciate them all but i feel i might have not explained myself clearly, although i agree with some of you about it being my fantasy which is true i'm also not looking to commit full time it is just a fantasy that id like to explore and make come true but its more like im making an offer for any lady that wants to feel wanted or spoilt by being treated like a lady or just someone that wants to Boss a man about for a few hours
No, I don't feel you're being honest with us or yourself. You're looking for a FemDom dynamic. This is your kink and personally I don't want to be spoilt by a man who is getting off on being subservient to me. Rewording it doesn't hide the basic premise. "
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"Thank you all for your comments i appreciate them all but i feel i might have not explained myself clearly, although i agree with some of you about it being my fantasy which is true i'm also not looking to commit full time it is just a fantasy that id like to explore and make come true but its more like im making an offer for any lady that wants to feel wanted or spoilt by being treated like a lady or just someone that wants to Boss a man about for a few hours "
Ok. You're offering your fantasy to women and writing it in a way that makes it sound like you're doing us a favour.
Some people are into that, and I hope you find the people you're looking for, but it seems manipulative to say "I'm not like other men who only want what they desire" when you're... offering what you desire as if everyone should want it. |
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