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By *ali69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Manchester

Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

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By *r SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

It looks good to me bro

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

Simple.

Most will view a profile before reading a message.

You haven't given them anything to generate interest either in the words or images.

So messages may not even get read.

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lack of personality

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By *ali69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Manchester


"Lack of personality "

I appreciate that! Could you please tell me what made you think that?

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By *ali69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Manchester


"It looks good to me bro "

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

The starting point on here for single guys, is to keep in mind that men outnumber all other demographics by a huge amount. literally about 10 times as many. A quick search of my local area (5 miles) shows that over 200 of the 300 results are single guys, 20 are women, 35 are couples, the rest TV/TS's...

Cal

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s just like bland, nothing actually bad with it, but nothing of any interest either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lack of personality

I appreciate that! Could you please tell me what made you think that?"

The lack of personality...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

More pics would be ideal

Add more to sell yourself

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

Flagrante

Your profile simply needs to reflect who you are so that when you a send a message the recipient can determine if their profile matches with yours.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

The starting point on here for single guys, is to keep in mind that men outnumber all other demographics by a huge amount. literally about 10 times as many. A quick search of my local area (5 miles) shows that over 200 of the 300 results are single guys, 20 are women, 35 are couples, the rest TV/TS's...

Cal"

Life coaching classes maybe as a side hustle. There is a gap!

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By *orksRockerMan  over a year ago

Bradford

I don't need to look at you profile to know you're problem. This thread appears at least 3 or 4 times a week from different newbies who think "Hey why not me?" without really knowing the amount of messages each lady gets here. I regularly see female messages say on my home page, "Sorry people, mass delete as I've over 700 messages and can't read them all"

The site has a high proportion of men here. Just get used to that fact and try to make your profile the best it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

Check out ( in-Vogue )

And other forum posts. You will learn very fast! Like a cold shower itl wake you up fast.

Many study a site and get a feel.

Swinging is in the mind,not only in the Body.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple  over a year ago

Neath valley.

Looks tidy enough to me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More pics would be ideal

Add more to sell yourself "

Hes got a Magnum tash! Wont that do?

Oh shite ,needs a Ferrari now. And gold chain around the neck. Hairy chest on full summer growth ,given the rain we have had.

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By *imply DeeWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

Apart from others have already said, it’s generally difficult for single men on here.

You can have the best of the best profiles but you won’t get responses if you’re not someone people are looking for.

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank"

To you maybe

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By *ris GrayMan  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

who knows keep plugging away

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

To you maybe "

Here we go

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

To you maybe

Here we go

Frank"

Well you can’t expect to make sweeping statements like that and have no one pull you up on it

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

To you maybe

Here we go

Frank

Well you can’t expect to make sweeping statements like that and have no one pull you up on it "

Is it a sweeping statement though? How many threads have been devoted to Asians (I know the OP isn't Asian) finding it difficult to find someone in here? Loads.

Just because you may not turn anyone down based on their culture or colour of their skin, there are many many of your fellow fabsters that do, the vast majority even.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

To you maybe

Here we go

Frank

Well you can’t expect to make sweeping statements like that and have no one pull you up on it

Is it a sweeping statement though? How many threads have been devoted to Asians (I know the OP isn't Asian) finding it difficult to find someone in here? Loads.

Just because you may not turn anyone down based on their culture or colour of their skin, there are many many of your fellow fabsters that do, the vast majority even.

Frank"

About the same amount as sex starved middle aged white guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

To you maybe

Here we go

Frank

Well you can’t expect to make sweeping statements like that and have no one pull you up on it

Is it a sweeping statement though? How many threads have been devoted to Asians (I know the OP isn't Asian) finding it difficult to find someone in here? Loads.

Just because you may not turn anyone down based on their culture or colour of their skin, there are many many of your fellow fabsters that do, the vast majority even.

Frank"

‘Most folks…it matters if you’re [sic] Asian or Asian looking’ is a sweeping statement. As is the vast majority.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't need to look at you profile to know you're problem. This thread appears at least 3 or 4 times a week from different newbies who think "Hey why not me?" without really knowing the amount of messages each lady gets here. I regularly see female messages say on my home page, "Sorry people, mass delete as I've over 700 messages and can't read them all"

The site has a high proportion of men here. Just get used to that fact and try to make your profile the best it can be."

The people that write that as a status are really saying “Everyone look at me. I’m popular”.

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By *eally_RosieWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Because Fab is now absolutely saturated with entitled quick fix single guys who think the terms ‘swinger’ and ‘easy-lay’ are interchangeable, and it doesn’t matter whether that describes you or not, a lot of women/couples find it exhausting, so if your profile is generic and doesn’t stand out, which it doesn’t, why would they bother?

Honestly; look at it and ask yourself ‘would I be interested in letting this person into the intimate and personal side of my life?’ Chances are… absolutely not.

On a side note, you have 2 verifications, so are already more successful than most guys on here x

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester

Look, I know I may offend your liberal perspectives with the truth but I go to clubs. I see what goes on in the clubs. I read the threads in here. It's an undeniable truth, Asian men are the least desirable on the swinging scene.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

To you maybe

Here we go

Frank

Well you can’t expect to make sweeping statements like that and have no one pull you up on it

Is it a sweeping statement though? How many threads have been devoted to Asians (I know the OP isn't Asian) finding it difficult to find someone in here? Loads.

Just because you may not turn anyone down based on their culture or colour of their skin, there are many many of your fellow fabsters that do, the vast majority even.

Frank"

All day long on here!! Glad you stepped up so.

The forum is littered with it,every one to to to to two weeks.

But everytime is raises,it gets Dummed down and pushed out!

" like say, " oh Disability " he looks just fine!! Ffs.

Formed Bias and deep memory storage is from childhood, at every glance we take esp at humans like us or otherwise, we form and Bracket them in Boxes of sterotype and Bias!!

More so on the net,apps even in the frigging work place!

I was at a placement near the Shard in london. All suited and booted to the Nine's my style Daily!

They all looked and assumed,whenci opened my mouth,and diaolgue,chat,eye contact,laughs versatile flow.

Oh your different Adam!

My heart and scorpio mind so wants to spank them mentally! But i just give a look of i see into your soul.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple  over a year ago

Merseyside

There isn’t anything wrong with us just lacking some Substance and more pics - need to say more likes and dislikes … comedy goes a long way too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look, I know I may offend your liberal perspectives with the truth but I go to clubs. I see what goes on in the clubs. I read the threads in here. It's an undeniable truth, Asian men are the least desirable on the swinging scene.

Frank"

Thank you for being honest and shareing your real live facts from observation on here and in the field!'

All this stems from the 50's the south east asians came over like the Carribean to work hard etc.

Many put their heads down,and were seen and viewed as Smell of curry. And the " P " word and no Role models to be taken,so not viewd as Vogue on here or wider.

And the shite from the top slides downwards.

I keep saying this stench will not go away. Until its stamped out!

But the causers of it,wont let it go! All by design!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

Says nothing about your personality just you want a blow job, what's unique about that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank"

110% on the button,fuck bitcoin! The truth has been spoken on 2023!!'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Apart from others have already said, it’s generally difficult for single men on here.

You can have the best of the best profiles but you won’t get responses if you’re not someone people are looking for.

"

Many aint got a clue what they are looking for. Ask and a blank return!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because Fab is now absolutely saturated with entitled quick fix single guys who think the terms ‘swinger’ and ‘easy-lay’ are interchangeable, and it doesn’t matter whether that describes you or not, a lot of women/couples find it exhausting, so if your profile is generic and doesn’t stand out, which it doesn’t, why would they bother?

Honestly; look at it and ask yourself ‘would I be interested in letting this person into the intimate and personal side of my life?’ Chances are… absolutely not.

On a side note, you have 2 verifications, so are already more successful than most guys on here x"

:

" the worlds saturated,mentally,spiritually snd otherwise.

Dog eat dog culture and the Bubble will Burst soon!

Preasure tactics used so the masses do a spill out on themselves with devision as the driver!

Many cant see the end of their noses,even though thinkng bending over is flexable!! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because Fab is now absolutely saturated with entitled quick fix single guys who think the terms ‘swinger’ and ‘easy-lay’ are interchangeable, and it doesn’t matter whether that describes you or not, a lot of women/couples find it exhausting, so if your profile is generic and doesn’t stand out, which it doesn’t, why would they bother?

Honestly; look at it and ask yourself ‘would I be interested in letting this person into the intimate and personal side of my life?’ Chances are… absolutely not.

On a side note, you have 2 verifications, so are already more successful than most guys on here x"

..so single women on fab dont see it as a quik fix shag. Beyond Swinging,social,dateing etc. Wtf.

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By *imply DeeWoman  over a year ago

Wherever


"Apart from others have already said, it’s generally difficult for single men on here.

You can have the best of the best profiles but you won’t get responses if you’re not someone people are looking for.

Many aint got a clue what they are looking for. Ask and a blank return!! "

If you could read between the lines, that’s the whole response in that.

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By *orksRockerMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"I don't need to look at you profile to know you're problem. This thread appears at least 3 or 4 times a week from different newbies who think "Hey why not me?" without really knowing the amount of messages each lady gets here. I regularly see female messages say on my home page, "Sorry people, mass delete as I've over 700 messages and can't read them all"

The site has a high proportion of men here. Just get used to that fact and try to make your profile the best it can be.

The people that write that as a status are really saying “Everyone look at me. I’m popular”. "

No they're not. I talk to a couple and it's because they get abuse from a good % who again feel entitled to get a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't need to look at you profile to know you're problem. This thread appears at least 3 or 4 times a week from different newbies who think "Hey why not me?" without really knowing the amount of messages each lady gets here. I regularly see female messages say on my home page, "Sorry people, mass delete as I've over 700 messages and can't read them all"

The site has a high proportion of men here. Just get used to that fact and try to make your profile the best it can be.

The people that write that as a status are really saying “Everyone look at me. I’m popular”.

No they're not. I talk to a couple and it's because they get abuse from a good % who again feel entitled to get a reply!"

So they draw more attention to themselves to invite more messages from the same people who they’ve blanked. It doesn’t seem like a good strategy to me.

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By *eally_RosieWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Look, I know I may offend your liberal perspectives with the truth but I go to clubs. I see what goes on in the clubs. I read the threads in here. It's an undeniable truth, Asian men are the least desirable on the swinging scene.

Frank"

Frank,

From my own experience, what I’ve seen in the swinging world and being amongst other people in the lifestyle, you are absolutely correct.

The terms ‘most people’ and ‘vast majority’ are generalisations (sweeping statements), but that’s just grammar and open to being nit-picked unfortunately.

People are biased. I myself, am biased. Some call it preference, others will call it phobic, some bitter people will go as far as calling it racist or bigoted.

I find it best to like what I like, stay away from what I don’t, be kind to people in my own life, and not give a flying fuck whether people like what I say or not.

Keep doing what you do xx

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By *orksRockerMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"I don't need to look at you profile to know you're problem. This thread appears at least 3 or 4 times a week from different newbies who think "Hey why not me?" without really knowing the amount of messages each lady gets here. I regularly see female messages say on my home page, "Sorry people, mass delete as I've over 700 messages and can't read them all"

The site has a high proportion of men here. Just get used to that fact and try to make your profile the best it can be.

The people that write that as a status are really saying “Everyone look at me. I’m popular”.

No they're not. I talk to a couple and it's because they get abuse from a good % who again feel entitled to get a reply!

So they draw more attention to themselves to invite more messages from the same people who they’ve blanked. It doesn’t seem like a good strategy to me."

Blanked!!!! That's a harsh term for being unable or unwilling to reply to every message!!!!

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By *r SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

Let’s not get sidetracked.

This poor fucker needs help !

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Your profile seems ok maybe add more photos and remember what you're interested in maybe not what someone else is whom you message so make sure you read their bio carefully and see if you have similar interests. Be creative within your bio leaving something for others to wanting to explore

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't need to look at you profile to know you're problem. This thread appears at least 3 or 4 times a week from different newbies who think "Hey why not me?" without really knowing the amount of messages each lady gets here. I regularly see female messages say on my home page, "Sorry people, mass delete as I've over 700 messages and can't read them all"

The site has a high proportion of men here. Just get used to that fact and try to make your profile the best it can be.

The people that write that as a status are really saying “Everyone look at me. I’m popular”.

No they're not. I talk to a couple and it's because they get abuse from a good % who again feel entitled to get a reply!

So they draw more attention to themselves to invite more messages from the same people who they’ve blanked. It doesn’t seem like a good strategy to me.

Blanked!!!! That's a harsh term for being unable or unwilling to reply to every message!!!!"

Yes, blanked.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"Let’s not get sidetracked.

This poor fucker needs help !"

To be fair, he isn't the only one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!

You're short and middle eastern, close enough to being Asian in here. Most folk on these pages will tell you your race doesn't matter, but it does if your Asian or Asian looking.

Frank

To you maybe

Here we go

Frank

Well you can’t expect to make sweeping statements like that and have no one pull you up on it

Is it a sweeping statement though? How many threads have been devoted to Asians (I know the OP isn't Asian) finding it difficult to find someone in here? Loads.

Just because you may not turn anyone down based on their culture or colour of their skin, there are many many of your fellow fabsters that do, the vast majority even.

Frank

About the same amount as sex starved middle aged white guys.

"

Yeah really! You see on here daily " BBC/ BWC " oh what about BBC =Brown !! Oh the tans good enough from Egypt,and Kebap from turkey/ Greece,and the Carribeen Cruise, but the Natives are not! Sick deep rooted ideolgy!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Let’s not get sidetracked.

This poor fucker needs help !

To be fair, he isn't the only one "

how do you mean?? Releave us all of the confusions we are in 8n here daily!'

We was born yesterday!

We know about every other subject topic,and liveing organ!

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Op

Their is the alternative option if you have the courage attend one of the clubs when they hold social events I'm sure they maybe a few near you and possibly a game changer

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

So....... assumption being that your profile is stopping you getting your messages answered.

Do you then assume that with an improved profile your messages will be answered or at least answered more often ?

Maybe consider a few more possibilities.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've read what advice others have given and agree with most of it BUT bear in mind this ......

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've read what advice others have given and agree with most of it BUT bear in mind this ......

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically. "

What do you mean by if the picture is good enough? For what?

And the best ptofile,spoken written word wont get anybody laid!

So looks,out weigh a toxic,dire,shite Egotistical personality. And would and does get many laid in here and the whole world at large.??

A mediocre or not so look,that the masses percieve as good looks,attractive,pretty,handsome! Wont get anybody Laid!!

The word " Type" is thrown around alott by women on here!

So they have a type? What ,how a type is it??

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By *eally_RosieWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I've read what advice others have given and agree with most of it BUT bear in mind this ......

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically.

What do you mean by if the picture is good enough? For what?

And the best ptofile,spoken written word wont get anybody laid!

So looks,out weigh a toxic,dire,shite Egotistical personality. And would and does get many laid in here and the whole world at large.??

A mediocre or not so look,that the masses percieve as good looks,attractive,pretty,handsome! Wont get anybody Laid!!

The word " Type" is thrown around alott by women on here!

So they have a type? What ,how a type is it??

"

Yes x

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

You'll never appeal to everyone, so have your profile to suit you

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By *ent in BlackMan  over a year ago

Silsden

It’s a swingers site mate, not insta shag. That’s most peoples issue.

Swingers are not sex crazed maniacs willing to jump into bed with anyone.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I'm a middle eastern living in Manchester. I would love to meet couples and ladies!"

The above comes across as standard boilerplate. Remove any references to "middle eastern" as this is irrelevant. Remove "living in Manchester" because this is already stated in your profile details.


"I would love to get to know new people and have a great time together."

That appears to be the case with thousands of others on Fab. Again, nothing truly specific about you.

·

Dear OP, I think you need more substance and originality in your profile narrative. Take on board some of the good advice given by the posters above, add a few more photos, insert something unique about you, a little humour, join in with the forums, attend a few Fab-organised socials...

Good luck!

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By *lansmanMan  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hello everyone!

Tell me what's wrong with my profile! I don't know why people keep ignoring my messages!

I would really appreciate your your comments!"

It's the usual, too many guys too few women situation. Stick to what works for you .. your veris suggest socials work well. I stopped sending messages as very few got read. Found updates and new photos generated more responses.

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By *agpie and RavenMan  over a year ago

Leicester


"Look, I know I may offend your liberal perspectives with the truth but I go to clubs. I see what goes on in the clubs. I read the threads in here. It's an undeniable truth, Asian men are the least desirable on the swinging scene.

Frank

Frank,

From my own experience, what I’ve seen in the swinging world and being amongst other people in the lifestyle, you are absolutely correct.

The terms ‘most people’ and ‘vast majority’ are generalisations (sweeping statements), but that’s just grammar and open to being nit-picked unfortunately.

People are biased. I myself, am biased. Some call it preference, others will call it phobic, some bitter people will go as far as calling it racist or bigoted.

I find it best to like what I like, stay away from what I don’t, be kind to people in my own life, and not give a flying fuck whether people like what I say or not.

Keep doing what you do xx"

Thanks for your honesty Rosie, though I have to disagree with the bit about bitter people calling preferences bigoted or racist. Surely you can acknowledge that a site such as this with its wide variety of folk from every demographic must include racists? No?

Oh, referring to an earlier post of yours on this thread, the OP's two verifications are only from attending socials so don't count as an exchange of bodily fluids.

Frank

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By *ruceyyMan  over a year ago

London

You need to put your penis beside a sky remote and take a picture.

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By *ent in BlackMan  over a year ago

Silsden


"You need to put your penis beside a sky remote and take a picture."

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I've read what advice others have given and agree with most of it BUT bear in mind this ......

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically.

What do you mean by if the picture is good enough? For what?

And the best ptofile,spoken written word wont get anybody laid!

So looks,out weigh a toxic,dire,shite Egotistical personality. And would and does get many laid in here and the whole world at large.??

A mediocre or not so look,that the masses percieve as good looks,attractive,pretty,handsome! Wont get anybody Laid!!

The word " Type" is thrown around alott by women on here!

So they have a type? What ,how a type is it??

"

You need to answer that yourself. Cos I sure as hell never said any of it .....

This is the bit I said ..

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've read what advice others have given and agree with most of it BUT bear in mind this ......

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically.

What do you mean by if the picture is good enough? For what?

And the best ptofile,spoken written word wont get anybody laid!

So looks,out weigh a toxic,dire,shite Egotistical personality. And would and does get many laid in here and the whole world at large.??

A mediocre or not so look,that the masses percieve as good looks,attractive,pretty,handsome! Wont get anybody Laid!!

The word " Type" is thrown around alott by women on here!

So they have a type? What ,how a type is it??

You need to answer that yourself. Cos I sure as hell never said any of it .....

This is the bit I said ..

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically.

"

The this show will carry on.

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By *.L.0460.Woman  over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I've read what advice others have given and agree with most of it BUT bear in mind this ......

Not one single word is needed on a profile if the picture is good enough.

And the best profile in the world will not get anyone laid automatically.

What do you mean by if the picture is good enough? For what?

And the best ptofile,spoken written word wont get anybody laid!

So looks,out weigh a toxic,dire,shite Egotistical personality. And would and does get many laid in here and the whole world at large.??

A mediocre or not so look,that the masses percieve as good looks,attractive,pretty,handsome! Wont get anybody Laid!!

The word " Type" is thrown around alott by women on here!

So they have a type? What ,how a type is it??

"

You're beginning to sound very bitter. Everyone has the choice to engage with whoever they want & if someone doesn't appeal for whatever reason, they have the right not to.

We all have a 'type', even if we can't exactly quantify that.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

You really wouldn’t want me to go there OP

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman  over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Because Fab is now absolutely saturated with entitled quick fix single guys who think the terms ‘swinger’ and ‘easy-lay’ are interchangeable, and it doesn’t matter whether that describes you or not, a lot of women/couples find it exhausting, so if your profile is generic and doesn’t stand out, which it doesn’t, why would they bother?

Honestly; look at it and ask yourself ‘would I be interested in letting this person into the intimate and personal side of my life?’ Chances are… absolutely not.

On a side note, you have 2 verifications, so are already more successful than most guys on here x"

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