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What is a slut anyway?!
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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I 'think' we are all sex positive here right and like to have it?
Theres some amazing women here with all the veris, all the statuses about wanting to meet MMMF or anonymous gangbangs etc...
So what is a slut? Do they exist? Is it just something people can call themselves if they are sex positive? Is it just dirty talk for the right person? |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"And why, under the context of mmmf/gangbangs etc is the woman the slut? Not the man/men attending?"
Well that's the question. But let's be honest, society usually gives that term to women and not men. |
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Perception is based on your own scale, what the pearl-clutching Muggles consider a slut might be wearing heels and a short skirt, where other people might think banging 20 guys and walking home with a face like a plasterers radio is perfect acceptable. Personally, I don't think it should be used at all as it's subjective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If used in a true derogatory sense calling someone a Slut is really disrespectful.
But we all have slutty moments, some pan out, most of mine lately have been really bad horny moments that should be regretted after haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And why, under the context of mmmf/gangbangs etc is the woman the slut? Not the man/men attending?"
Guessing because the woman is taking multiple cocks but the man's just fucking the woman? Unless it's a bi one. In which case, in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This reminds me of that famous Sir Bobby Robson quote…
What is a slut in any case? Not the lingerie or the short skirts or the people who are wanting to bang it. It's not the sex tapes, the 12” dildos, the lube or baggy vagina. It's the noise, the passion, the feeling of belonging, the pride in your sexuality. |
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I have this conversation a lot elsewhere. I consider myself a slut. I love sex. I love doing things with other guys I wouldn’t do every day. I love being called names during sex (but not outside of it). I’m proud of being hyper-sexual, and don’t hide it from anyone; friends and family included.
I do however, deal with a lot of interest from guys who get the wrong idea and completely miss the point…
Being a slut for me, means I’ll be depraved and do practically anything with the right person. It absolutely does not, however, mean I’ll do anyone.
Rosie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely sexually liberated and I would never judge anyone on their choices as long as they're legal choices.
I quite like being called names in certain scenarios, absolutely not outside of the bedroom. |
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"I'm a happy little slut.
But strangers calling me that can fuck right off  "
I think this is the point. People can themselves this but its really judgemental and inappropriate to call someone else this. Unless of course they ask you to... |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"This reminds me of that famous Sir Bobby Robson quote…
What is a slut in any case? Not the lingerie or the short skirts or the people who are wanting to bang it. It's not the sex tapes, the 12” dildos, the lube or baggy vagina. It's the noise, the passion, the feeling of belonging, the pride in your sexuality."
Sounds like one for the history books?  |
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"I have this conversation a lot elsewhere. I consider myself a slut. I love sex. I love doing things with other guys I wouldn’t do every day. I love being called names during sex (but not outside of it). I’m proud of being hyper-sexual, and don’t hide it from anyone; friends and family included.
I do however, deal with a lot of interest from guys who get the wrong idea and completely miss the point…
Being a slut for me, means I’ll be depraved and do practically anything with the right person. It absolutely does not, however, mean I’ll do anyone.
Rosie x"
...yeah, I like that. Well put. Good energy in the ol' 'I'm a slut; I'm not your slut'
Plus as a word, I love that it connects to the positives of sex and sexual identity. Because when that happens, it takes the power away from the older uses of words, when they were used to shame and control.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This reminds me of that famous Sir Bobby Robson quote…
What is a slut in any case? Not the lingerie or the short skirts or the people who are wanting to bang it. It's not the sex tapes, the 12” dildos, the lube or baggy vagina. It's the noise, the passion, the feeling of belonging, the pride in your sexuality.
Sounds like one for the history books? "
I may have paraphrased slightly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure. I just know if anyone calls me that they best get their running shoes on.
I was just planning on emotionally reminding you you're my best friend throughout "
I’d appreciate it |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not sure. I just know if anyone calls me that they best get their running shoes on.
I was just planning on emotionally reminding you you're my best friend throughout
I’d appreciate it"
If I orgasm while moaning 'beeeeeesssstiieee'
Remember that's on you  |
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I like meeting people with shared interests and passions. I'm a male slut and feel a better connection and desire for female versions of myself.
However a good connection has always been very important to me so I'm only interested in having fun with a slut I have some kind of emotional bond with. I find it intoxicationly horny and that quality time and aftercare after a shared adventure is the best. |
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"SLUT in my opinion is someone who's independent, confident, glories in their own sexuality and one who indulges their appetites guiltlessly."
I agree and from my perspective when a slut picks me out to have a more intimate connection with me I see it as the ultimate compliment. |
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It means different things to different people.
For me it's a word I'm happy to be called, it's a moniker I'm happy to live up too.
For others it's an insult.
It is a term still typically levelled at women, but as times move forward the word has become more encompassing to all.
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