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We all go through peaks and troughs
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.
So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you 
Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've dug a trough in the trough and I'm not coming out. "
Wouldn't that be considered entering the trolls community areas? Or are you one of them now?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've dug a trough in the trough and I'm not coming out.
Wouldn't that be considered entering the trolls community areas? Or are you one of them now?
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I've always been one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.
So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you
Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different
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Mostly I’m uninterested right now. The only person that interested me is hundreds of miles away.
I think im practically a virgin again. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Peak. Definitely.
I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years..... 
A"
Full. Not fill.
Ducking autocarrot...... 
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"Peak. Definitely.
I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....
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Full. Not fill.
Ducking autocarrot......
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I mean it still works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Peak. Definitely.
I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....
A"
Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Peak. Definitely.
I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....
A
Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship "
Thanks Joe.
Never easy but things are working out fine and the future beckons for us both.  
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Peak. Definitely.
I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....
A
Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship
Thanks Joe.
Never easy but things are working out fine and the future beckons for us both.
A"
Oh shit I didn't realize you were one of Obi Fox! Really sorry to hear that but checked your profile and good to hear you're still friends. Breakups are never easy, but you're still a sexy bastard and will be back in the swing in no time! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Peak. Definitely.
I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....
A
Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship
Thanks Joe.
Never easy but things are working out fine and the future beckons for us both.
A
Oh shit I didn't realize you were one of Obi Fox! Really sorry to hear that but checked your profile and good to hear you're still friends. Breakups are never easy, but you're still a sexy bastard and will be back in the swing in no time!"
Keep up Brucey!
Maybe I should have got Tom to start a thread about it so it was 'all over the news'.....
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm at a gentle peak. The base of a peak. Not troughing it, more getting ready slowly to start exploring the landscape ahead of me.
Fuck that's so poetic. Where do I come up with this bollocks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A deep trough. I thought I was ready to start getting back out there and meeting people again but clearly not.
*Googles next train to Fife*"
Well, would you look at that. It’s just peaked again  |
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Perhaps you might say something of a trough right now, but that's through personal choice. I've kinda put swinging on the back burner for the moment because, I have opted to be my mum's carer who has vascular dementia and athrites in both knees leaving her virtually wheelchair bound, and there's no way I'm going to be having her hived off into a care home to vegetate, nor am I contributing to the funding of some care home owners next BMW or Mer_edes Benz, I will buy a care home before that day dawns. So for now distance romances are a non starter. |
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I don't know if it's just the temporarily imbalanced hormones, the stress of the kids being home 24/7 and literally doing and being responsible for EVERYTHING because Hubby rudely decided to have an accident which has put him out of commission, but I am well and truly fucking set up in the trough, am building a roof and have made it comfy down here.
Sex is literally just another chore right now. |
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"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.
So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you
Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different
F"
Well I’ve been going through a barren spell since the break up with the ex last November lol, not had sex since February, not hugely missing it but it niggles lol
Any volunteers to help end the drought are welcome btw hahaha |
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"Perhaps you might say something of a trough right now, but that's through personal choice. I've kinda put swinging on the back burner for the moment because, I have opted to be my mum's carer who has vascular dementia and athrites in both knees leaving her virtually wheelchair bound, and there's no way I'm going to be having her hived off into a care home to vegetate, nor am I contributing to the funding of some care home owners next BMW or Mer_edes Benz, I will buy a care home before that day dawns. So for now distance romances are a non starter."
You sir, are a legend. Well done. Sometimes life just takes over and you do the right thing. Take care |
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"I don't know if it's just the temporarily imbalanced hormones, the stress of the kids being home 24/7 and literally doing and being responsible for EVERYTHING because Hubby rudely decided to have an accident which has put him out of commission, but I am well and truly fucking set up in the trough, am building a roof and have made it comfy down here.
Sex is literally just another chore right now."
Likewise, you are a legend as well. Life takes over, and you just crack on. Well done. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.
So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you
Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different
F"
I like the water in a trough on a hot day  |
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Right now I’m definitely going into a peak. I’ve had a hell of a year with very little time to meet anyone sadly but things are settling very nicely, my sex drive is as high as ever and I finally have a bit of free time to explore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A deep trough. I thought I was ready to start getting back out there and meeting people again but clearly not.
*Googles next train to Fife*
Well, would you look at that. It’s just peaked again "
For both of us  but seriously, I hope it does pick up for you soon and you're able to get out more |
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"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.
So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you
Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different
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On the cusp of mothballing Fab and swinging, been on a break since April and now just about in a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm well and truly in a trough right now, but if I keep on digging won't I pop out the other side?
I'm actively working on getting myself out of it, and throwing myself into fab a little more than I have been is certainly helping. |
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I think I'm at the peak of my libidinous summit. There are some smelting irons in the fire of opportunities...but I am required to continuously stoke that fire to keep the flames of desire burning.
Failing that I may just bonk Brucey. |
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"I think I'm at the peak of my libidinous summit. There are some smelting irons in the fire of opportunities...but I am required to continuously stoke that fire to keep the flames of desire burning.
Failing that I may just bonk Brucey."
You’ve been after him for ages… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re in a bit of a weird place. We’re not feeling one offs but don’t want a regular. Love clubs but 99% of club goers aren’t really our target audience. We’ll probably stick with clubs because it’s a good night out but the sex just isn’t happening right now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely in a trough.
To the point where I've even ended things with others.
I can't stand the way some people are on here ATM. The disrespect, the messing about and game playing and the two faced men that are all nice until the moment you don't do what they want how they want it. Yet call you a time waster when you say no. I mean what the fuck, it's such a turn off. They can fuck right off.
And I want sex....very much so....but I'm not that desperate!!
Oh that felt cathartic
I'm also not feeling fab and the forums much either. Same shit, different day, drama upon drama.
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Definitely in a trough.
To the point where I've even ended things with others.
I can't stand the way some people are on here ATM. The disrespect, the messing about and game playing and the two faced men that are all nice until the moment you don't do what they want how they want it. Yet call you a time waster when you say no. I mean what the fuck, it's such a turn off. They can fuck right off.
And I want sex....very much so....but I'm not that desperate!!
Oh that felt cathartic
I'm also not feeling fab and the forums much either. Same shit, different day, drama upon drama.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am in a funny place where I actually don't care either way. Happens sometimes. I need a partner to be honest. Cuddles and movie nights with a Poly friend would be bliss! |
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Oooo wooow. I've read a lot of posts on this thread, there are so many not getting or not wanting sex. I fit in perfectly, not want and not getting, it's been going on for over 2 years.
As hard as I try to climb out of the trough I never succeed. I must be sending messages to all the other members not want or getting sex.
Maybe Fabswingers should be renamed sadwingers.  |
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