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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
I’ve been sick this week. So it’s been non-stop life analysis and endless movies about love from within my duvet as I ruminate.
Are you good with your own company when it’s enforced?
Do you think love will find everyone and conquer all? |
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I'm fine with my own company, no I don't think love will find everyone and it certainly won't conquer all , humans are to selfish and stupid.... but that's just my jaded opinion lol... hope you feel better soon |
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Sorry to hear you’ve been ill 
As a general rule, ruminating on things isn’t a great idea. Hope you can get past it soon.
I’m ok with my own company, but perhaps it means I value good company when it’s there.
As for love, it takes opportunity, some luck and some work from both sides. That’s quite a lot of things to happen so no wonder it’s rare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Awww hugs beautiful let me put a smile back on your face you have wonderful eyes I could get lost in them over a nice dinner telling you your beautiful and special |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love my own company, I'm the only person that doesn't annoy me.
Does everyone find love? No. Some never will. And most will just settle.
And i don't believe it conquers all , that's what Macdonald's breakfasts are for. |
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Love is beautiful and wonderful, but it doesn't change the world. It isn't enough to love and be loved and just expect things to work out somehow 
I adore my own company. I also adore the company of select other people sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi op
Whilst I agree the world needs loving. Finding love here be like finding needle in haystack. It is not match.. But chick flicks either love loathe or despise.
Get better soon op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear you've been ill. I hope the worst is over and you are on the mend.
I love, love and I long for it but I've long since accepted that the happy ever after kind of love probably won't find me.
I'm OK with my own company but too much of it and I start to dwell and that's not a good thing for me.
I need interaction.
I like to think love could conquer all but really there needs to be kindness, compassion, understanding and respect too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im pretty good in my own company I think.
Not sure about the love finding us all. Im seeing being in love as just compromising on various things that you may not, in a rational mind want to compromise on, but loves blinds. 
I think the love that will or should find us is the love for ourself. We should all seek and find that.
(Cynical old bag mode activated)
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By *929Man
over a year ago
newcastle |
I don’t mind it took a lot of getting used to after living with someone for 15 years. Still struggle at times mainly after daughter goes home after she been staying a well as she takes up a lot of my time and attention and it feels so miserable and empty when she’s gone but most nights I love being alone |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I’ve been sick this week. So it’s been non-stop life analysis and endless movies about love from within my duvet as I ruminate.
Are you good with your own company when it’s enforced?
Do you think love will find everyone and conquer all?"
I used to. Recent events have slightly changed that for me.
As for enforced isolation? Never been food with that but it's something I'll soon be facing do hoping it's going to be easier than anticipated.
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I've got much better at being on my own over the last year. Before that I wouldn't stop still, stop home, stay alone. A day home alone doesn't leave me feeling great though.
As for love. I'm not a fan. I liked me more before I knew what love was. |
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"I’ve been sick this week. So it’s been non-stop life analysis and endless movies about love from within my duvet as I ruminate.
Are you good with your own company when it’s enforced?
Do you think love will find everyone and conquer all?"
I'm good with my own company though it's partly enforced and partly my own decision.
I had love a long time ago and that was my shot. Now I'm in a place of aftermath and coping best I can. It has highs and lows as does everyone after a messy separation. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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I'm not a massive fan of people. Very selective in whom I give my company and attention to.
I'm used to "lonely" and being on my own. Sometimes I do miss having somebody there.
Having dogs helps, bit not quite the same. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
Im of the mind that iv had it but as i wont have it the way i had it im good to leave that stuff well alone
Im good in my as is theres plenty of things to do that dont involve that level of emotion or physical contact i prefer to hold back in the end iv learned to live is to be alone regardless how many people are in your life eventually thru either choice or simple mortality people abandon you either way thats what the last few years have taught me anyway and so be it |
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