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Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope
A special someone is out there waiting for you |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope
A special someone is out there waiting for you "
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "
Don't be...we all get played 'like a banjo' some times...some people know exactly what buttons to press to get their own way..age doesn't always make you aware of when it's happening either  Just have to hold your head up n move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope
A special someone is out there waiting for you thank you "
Your welcome anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am very sorry that has happened.
There’s nothing as weird as folk sometimes. thank you I don’t even why I’m crying "
You’re crying because you care and that person meant something to you or had the potential to
Do you know tears produce endorphins and that’s why people can feel better after a good cry |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I am very sorry that has happened.
There’s nothing as weird as folk sometimes. thank you I don’t even why I’m crying
You’re crying because you care and that person meant something to you or had the potential to
Do you know tears produce endorphins and that’s why people can feel better after a good cry "
I'm just so tired of giving people chances you know my think my picker is broken |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope
A special someone is out there waiting for you thank you
Your welcome anytime "
Honestly I don’t even wanna try any more I quite happy on my own |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time
So sorry you got hurt, there will be someone who loves you just for who you are out there "
honestly think I’m done |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "
Some people are just animals well actually worse than animals. No one should take advantage of anyone else. Hugs to you. |
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "
I have a really good friend that's constantly taking back her guy who is a complete narcissist breaking serious laws from harassing her, stalking her and going into her phone.
He has some serious issues to sort for himself which is clearly tormenting him and so he is tormenting her.
I would say OP know your worth and don't settle for less, you know what your good qualities and traits are and is for you to get acquainted with someone that has near to all or more of the same qualities you have as a person
Life is about what we choose to have in our lives we are never forced to be stuck with a person who doesn't uplift us.
We are also never forced to be stuck in jobs that serves no purpose or value in our lives its never too late to take steps towards changes as long as we have breath in our bodies it is always possible xxx
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"I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OPit sucks because you don’t want to even give any one a chance any more "
It takes time. There is an immediate reaction in us all. Take some real time for you. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time
Some people are just animals well actually worse than animals. No one should take advantage of anyone else. Hugs to you. "
thank you I think I’m just be by myself now |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OPit sucks because you don’t want to even give any one a chance any more
It takes time. There is an immediate reaction in us all. Take some real time for you. "
Definitely gonna do that |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time
I have a really good friend that's constantly taking back her guy who is a complete narcissist breaking serious laws from harassing her, stalking her and going into her phone.thank you very much for that definitely gonna put all that to good use x
He has some serious issues to sort for himself which is clearly tormenting him and so he is tormenting her.
I would say OP know your worth and don't settle for less, you know what your good qualities and traits are and is for you to get acquainted with someone that has near to all or more of the same qualities you have as a person
Life is about what we choose to have in our lives we are never forced to be stuck with a person who doesn't uplift us.
We are also never forced to be stuck in jobs that serves no purpose or value in our lives its never too late to take steps towards changes as long as we have breath in our bodies it is always possible xxx
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OP, I don't think you were a fool. You obviously had a connection with this person. And for whatever reason its not worked out. We would all become cold and emotionless if we didn't connect with people.
Experiences help us see the red flags, so that's all this was, an experience! It doesn't reflect who you are as a person!
I can tell you this as a 51yr old who has been through many similar experiences like you. It hurts, but you will dust yourself off, and importantly be okay! Sending love x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's on them, not you.
And there's no shame in shedding a tear when someone doesn't treat you well. Sometimes stepping away is needed until you feel ready again.  |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's on them, not you.
And there's no shame in shedding a tear when someone doesn't treat you well. Sometimes stepping away is needed until you feel ready again. "
most definitely I don’t know why I entertained it
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time
It happens a lot. People just use you to get what they want and then move onto something new. I know this all too well "
most definitely I don’t think he would have told me if I didn’t ask which my stupid fault |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"OP, I don't think you were a fool. You obviously had a connection with this person. And for whatever reason its not worked out. We would all become cold and emotionless if we didn't connect with people.
Experiences help us see the red flags, so that's all this was, an experience! It doesn't reflect who you are as a person!
I can tell you this as a 51yr old who has been through many similar experiences like you. It hurts, but you will dust yourself off, and importantly be okay! Sending love x"
yeah this why I don’t put my self out there much because I know this gonna happen |
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Sorry to hear this OP, its their loss not yours,like you've said, take your time. Surround yourself with your friends. Also their not a bad bunch on these forums if you ever need to vent or bend an ear.  |
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"It hapens to me more often than I'd like to admitit’s crap and I hate it just make me a bit more bitter "
Take that bitterness and use it to empower yourself, believe that you will find a good one and trust in your gut red flags, ask those questions early on to sieve through the soil and your diamond will shine through x |
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"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time
I have a really good friend that's constantly taking back her guy who is a complete narcissist breaking serious laws from harassing her, stalking her and going into her phone.thank you very much for that definitely gonna put all that to good use x
He has some serious issues to sort for himself which is clearly tormenting him and so he is tormenting her.
I would say OP know your worth and don't settle for less, you know what your good qualities and traits are and is for you to get acquainted with someone that has near to all or more of the same qualities you have as a person
Life is about what we choose to have in our lives we are never forced to be stuck with a person who doesn't uplift us.
We are also never forced to be stuck in jobs that serves no purpose or value in our lives its never too late to take steps towards changes as long as we have breath in our bodies it is always possible xxx
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