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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
What do you deem as explicit?
I told a friend last night about my new swingy life and was explaining Fab.
I was describing my profile and said I didn't really post anything explicit in it. Which I meant as there are no close up pics of my vulva on here. She took that as I am fully clothed and just a little more cleavage than perhaps I would normally show on a normal dating app.
What does explicit mean to you?
Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.   |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"For me explicit is sex acts or graphic close ups. My photo yesterday felt quite a lot ruder than what I normally post. It's nothing by fab standards but I don't usually show that much.
J"
Oh you know I went straight to look.  |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
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Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.
FFS   "
Describe what you would send and I will decide if I want it. Preferably describe it in a voice note please I find it easier to visualise when listening over reading.  |
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over a year ago
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Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.
FFS
Describe what you would send and I will decide if I want it. Preferably describe it in a voice note please I find it easier to visualise when listening over reading. "
As soon as I’m done with my shower   I will do just that. |
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I don’t really find the human body or the act of coitus explicit. It’s a construct of laws made back in the day for reasons I’ve never quite fathomed. David Attenborough can show a 10 minute sequence of elephants or Pygmy shrews going at it and we all marvel, but show two human beings in the same act and the world implodes, what a magnificently strange world we live in |
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By *ixenitedWoman
over a year ago
Here or There abouts |
Explicit to me would be full on sex act pics, cocks in holes and creampies. I like a good old perv at those type of pics but in my public & freinds only gallery my pussy/ass is concealed with an emojii, some things are better left to the imagination  |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"From a Fab perspective – and from my personal point of view - I would interpret explicit as bodily fluids juxtaposed with the cervical innards and so forth.
Anything else would be relatively tame."
I am fab tame then
But I like to say 'Ta da' when I display my innards to someone for the first time and it doesn't work if they have already seen them. |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"I don’t really find the human body or the act of coitus explicit. It’s a construct of laws made back in the day for reasons I’ve never quite fathomed. David Attenborough can show a 10 minute sequence of elephants or Pygmy shrews going at it and we all marvel, but show two human beings in the same act and the world implodes, what a magnificently strange world we live in "
It is strange. I suppose I am a little more detached from the pygmy shrew though. If the pygmy shrew was going at it on you would that be explicit? |
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"I don’t really find the human body or the act of coitus explicit. It’s a construct of laws made back in the day for reasons I’ve never quite fathomed. David Attenborough can show a 10 minute sequence of elephants or Pygmy shrews going at it and we all marvel, but show two human beings in the same act and the world implodes, what a magnificently strange world we live in
It is strange. I suppose I am a little more detached from the pygmy shrew though. If the pygmy shrew was going at it on you would that be explicit? "
Illegal, regardless of explicit lol |
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"From a Fab perspective – and from my personal point of view - I would interpret explicit as bodily fluids juxtaposed with the cervical innards and so forth.
Anything else would be relatively tame.
I am fab tame then
But I like to say 'Ta da' when I display my innards to someone for the first time and it doesn't work if they have already seen them. "
I'll have to try the ta da when I get my cock out for a lady next time |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"My view on what’s explicit is full on sex pics, bodily fluids etc.
Some are done tastefully, but there’s some I look at and think “maybe that needs a category higher than explicit”  "
Yes! And sometimes I want message just to see if someone has saught medical advice.
Maybe as well as hot pics there should also be a way to vote on encouraging someone to see a GP?
Hot pics and Sick pics? Hmmm maybe not.  |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"I don’t really find the human body or the act of coitus explicit. It’s a construct of laws made back in the day for reasons I’ve never quite fathomed. David Attenborough can show a 10 minute sequence of elephants or Pygmy shrews going at it and we all marvel, but show two human beings in the same act and the world implodes, what a magnificently strange world we live in
It is strange. I suppose I am a little more detached from the pygmy shrew though. If the pygmy shrew was going at it on you would that be explicit?
Illegal, regardless of explicit lol"
Buuuuuuut if you are consenting...? No. No I refuse to take this thread that way. |
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Back to the OPS question though. There's a fine line between erotic acts and explicit! Which some don't seem to think of. The one that I don't like is open pussy shots with cum dripping from it. Yuk |
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"Explicit has probably changed from when I joined FAB to now.
Action shots, gaping pics, hard cocks, pussy pics, cum pics I’d say are all explicit, to me.
K"
I have to agree with BeyondPurity. Genitals and fluids!
Mrs xx |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"Explicit to me is getting my foof out or action photos. Though some of them can be really quite artistic.
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Based on your profile picture then I suspect that your foof shots would be very artistic.
I got an A in Higher Level art if you ever need some one to appraise future shots... |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "
I am finding it like that too..
People are free to post whatever photos they like as long as they don’t break any of Fab’s rules and they are legal.
I don’t have explicit photos but have explicit videos. I love them and think they are hot. happily many people agree with me lol. |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "
Oh that was certainly not my intention. And I am sorry if it comes across like that.
I certainly don't judge people who have different photo preferences to me and wouldn't want people to feel shamed. I like many images that I deem as explicit. I suppose the word explicit might come across as judgemental because of how society often uses it. I certainly don't view it that way personally.
We all choose what we want to show. My friend and I found it interesting that we had such different views on it and we wondered how much it varied on somewhere like fab where we are all clearly more used to seeing bodies. |
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"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "
I don’t think the OP meant it that way but threads often run out of control. But I agree with your comment and always find the judgements of the “liberated” bewildering |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
I think that my definition of explicit has probably changed as I have got used to posting nude pics of myself over the years, so that a regular nude I don’t consider explicit, but anything more overtly sexual would now fall into that category, so pics with an erection, or vids of wanking/cumming for a guy, or masturbation vids and open pussy shots from a woman and with couples, anything sexual they are doing to each other. I keep my explicit pics just for private consumption when asked for as I know many people here get sick of dick pics on profiles. |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads.
I am finding it like that too..
People are free to post whatever photos they like as long as they don’t break any of Fab’s rules and they are legal.
I don’t have explicit photos but have explicit videos. I love them and think they are hot. happily many people agree with me lol. "
That was certainly not my intention. I was more interested in what different people view as explicit than passing judgement on people's pictures or videos.
My definition of explicit certainly does not = bad.
Also there are plenty of explicit pics I find hot. And plenty of pics that I don't think are explicit that I personally really don't find hot. |
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"Dick erect, pussy exposed, acts with others
Is that your image description for one of your friends only photos? "
Are you guessing i guess you are , I'm not at all shy so explicit to me has no bearing but to the Op she was asking our interpretation of explicit and i gave mine |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
So... definition of explicit (with regards to sex)... "describing or representing sexual activity in a graphic fashion".
That's what I'd call explicit. And I'm kinda happy I agree with the dictionary.
I don't object to explicit pictures, people should rock on with what they want to show. And some explicit photos can be kinda sexy 
For me, I like to keep my fanangulator for in person. The surprise on their face when they see the tattoo is rather fun
I also don't think "action shots" of me could ever be sexy... and wouldn't have added anything to my profile for when I was looking to meet anyone. |
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"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "
Apologies if my comment came across that way. I have explicit photos and videos. I just wouldn't post them on here for a couple of reasons. I'm still accepting/exploring this side of me as a sexual being. Also, I like to keep them between me and the people they were taken with and select trusted others (always with consent to share).
J |
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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago
Lives in Preston, Eng |
"Explicit has probably changed from when I joined FAB to now.
K"
Yeah I was trying to decide if my definition of explicit had changed in my 4 months being active on fab. I don't think it has too much but I certainly am more used to it.
I take a LOT more explicit photos and videos but I rarely share them. Give me another 4 months and who knows. |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
"What do you deem as explicit?
I told a friend last night about my new swingy life and was explaining Fab.
I was describing my profile and said I didn't really post anything explicit in it. Which I meant as there are no close up pics of my vulva on here. She took that as I am fully clothed and just a little more cleavage than perhaps I would normally show on a normal dating app.
What does explicit mean to you?
Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab. "
I’d class yours as tasteful and highly sexy rather than explicit. Wouldn’t be averse to seeing the latter though! Lol |
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"So... definition of explicit (with regards to sex)... "describing or representing sexual activity in a graphic fashion".
That's what I'd call explicit. And I'm kinda happy I agree with the dictionary.
I don't object to explicit pictures, people should rock on with what they want to show. And some explicit photos can be kinda sexy
For me, I like to keep my fanangulator for in person. The surprise on their face when they see the tattoo is rather fun
I also don't think "action shots" of me could ever be sexy... and wouldn't have added anything to my profile for when I was looking to meet anyone."
That could be another ta da moment! |
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"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "
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Totally disagree!
No one on this thread has been vehement in body shaming, ridiculing or stigmatising anyone or their beliefs. The topic is all about the visual appeal, aesthetics and general interest in 'erotic' profile photographs. It would be no different to a thread about people's selfies: smiles, resting bitch-face, deadpan looks, sullen etc etc. |
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"To be fair, based on our content the only way it could get more explicit is if I showed you my kidneys
I will show you my excised lump if you show me your kidney?"
Deal, next club meet we can compare internal organs x |
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"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads.
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Totally disagree!
No one on this thread has been vehement in body shaming, ridiculing or stigmatising anyone or their beliefs. The topic is all about the visual appeal, aesthetics and general interest in 'erotic' profile photographs. It would be no different to a thread about people's selfies: smiles, resting bitch-face, deadpan looks, sullen etc etc."
I think the shaming is quite subtle...cervical innards, artistic, erotic, tasteful, yuk at cum dripping, suggesting some need medical advice based on pics.
Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy.
Not some carefully staged sepia toned act |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....
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#SexShaming. 
Or sex reality? "
It might well be all those things sometimes but I don't want to show all those things.
I want the sepia fantasy. I don't want to think about my the clumsy and messy parts.
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"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....
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#SexShaming.
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Or sex reality? "
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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....
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#SexShaming.
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Or sex reality?
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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated."
With the merest hint of cinnamon... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's a big difference between revealing and explicit.
From what you say, OP, I'm wondering if your friend was thinking revealing, rather than explicit. |
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"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....
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#SexShaming.
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Or sex reality?
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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated.
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With the merest hint of cinnamon..."
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Lashings of cinnamon actually and not a single molecule resembling a foul Pumpkin Spice Latte. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....
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#SexShaming.
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Or sex reality?
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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated.
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With the merest hint of cinnamon...
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Lashings of cinnamon actually and not a single molecule resembling a foul Pumpkin Spice Latte."
I'd not dream of suggesting a Pumpkin Spice Latte, dear Nero! |
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