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Straight but gay.. but what!??
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Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. "
Some men are what they term "Fab straight". They are perhaps bi or bi curious but have their profiles set to straight to not deter women and couples who don't play with bi men. |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling.
Some men are what they term "Fab straight". They are perhaps bi or bi curious but have their profiles set to straight to not deter women and couples who don't play with bi men. "
Yeah.. makes sense. |
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It's called male solidarity or exhibiting brethren gestures of goodwill and respect.
I do it sometimes — Fab another man's profile because I've appreciated the artistic qualities of his photographic montages. It doesn't make him gay (or gayer) and it doesn't make me gay either, nor does it infer that I wish to dip my wick up his rectum. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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There is fab straight yes.
But it is entirely possible to appreciate another man's body, and their pics without being sexually attracted to men.
9/10 yes a straight man fabbing another man's pics will be fab straight, but some just like good pics or throw some appreciation around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a bi guy, if you look yummy I don't want to forget. I'm not trying to change you. Should you ever feel a shift if your orientation then I would very much like to be at the front of the queue to experience the blow job of your lifetime.
#justsaying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s this thing called fab straight it’s whare bi guys lie on they profile and say they straight as they under the impression that woman don’t meet bi guys
Or they in hideing that they bi
It makes it difficult to know who’s stright and who’s bi
So they fab your picture hopeing your fab straight also
Take it as a compliment and just take no notice off if |
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"Read your bio! You kind of contradict yourself with this post. 
No it doesn’t. What’re you talking about?
Read it again and tell me how you came to this conclusion.. "
No transgenders you don't swing that way? You not realise trans people are women or men. But your post says you understand why they do? What you talking about. |
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"Read your bio! You kind of contradict yourself with this post.
No it doesn’t. What’re you talking about?
Read it again and tell me how you came to this conclusion.. No transgenders you don't swing that way? You not realise trans people are women or men. But your post says you understand why they do? What you talking about. "
Hey. I’m not here to decipher gender identity. All I know is men and women. I fancy women.. end of story.
I’m sorry if you feel attacked or offended in any way whatsoever. It’s really not my aim.
You do you. |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. "
I get it all thw time!, and even many pretending to be part of a couple. I had 3 this whole week when i memtioned i want to chat to the women!
" dead silent " and slowly the messages dryed up.
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"Read your bio! You kind of contradict yourself with this post.
No it doesn’t. What’re you talking about?
Read it again and tell me how you came to this conclusion.. No transgenders you don't swing that way? You not realise trans people are women or men. But your post says you understand why they do? What you talking about.
Hey. I’m not here to decipher gender identity. All I know is men and women. I fancy women.. end of story.
I’m sorry if you feel attacked or offended in any way whatsoever. It’s really not my aim.
You do you. "
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Not everything is about sex. You can show some love to another person of the same sex you know. I sometimes fab if I think the picture looks nice or want to recreate whatever is going on or I just like the attire. There are so many reasons. This also applies to ladies. I do like pretty feet and a good dress. I'll let you know and keep it moving. |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. "
Maybe they like the picture, doesn't make them gay
One thing I've found on here is men always interpret people liking their pictures as something so much more, it's so strange |
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I fabbed someone's pic once and the messaged me to say I wasn't their type
I had to kindly advise them that they weren't mine either I would of messaged them instead of just fabbing a pic |
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I'm a straight woman and I sometimes fab women's pictures because I appreciate the photography or the outfit or just how she looks. People fab our photos who have filters that mean we can't contact them or their profile explicitly excludes us. So people do fab with no agenda other than to show appreciation
I know there are a lot of men who conceal their bisexuality too. |
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"I'm a straight woman and I sometimes fab women's pictures because I appreciate the photography or the outfit or just how she looks. People fab our photos who have filters that mean we can't contact them or their profile explicitly excludes us. So people do fab with no agenda other than to show appreciation
I know there are a lot of men who conceal their bisexuality too. "
Are you sure it's not because you want to munch them like a kabab after a night out?  |
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"I'm a straight woman and I sometimes fab women's pictures because I appreciate the photography or the outfit or just how she looks. People fab our photos who have filters that mean we can't contact them or their profile explicitly excludes us. So people do fab with no agenda other than to show appreciation
I know there are a lot of men who conceal their bisexuality too. "
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"I fabbed someone's pic once and the messaged me to say I wasn't their type
I had to kindly advise them that they weren't mine either I would of messaged them instead of just fabbing a pic"
Why do some saddoes go out of their way to be jerks? |
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"I fabbed someone's pic once and the messaged me to say I wasn't their type
I had to kindly advise them that they weren't mine either I would of messaged them instead of just fabbing a pic
Why do some saddoes go out of their way to be jerks?"
Or assume someone finds them attractive because they fabbed something |
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"I fabbed someone's pic once and the messaged me to say I wasn't their type
I had to kindly advise them that they weren't mine either I would of messaged them instead of just fabbing a pic"
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. "
If you Fab a pic you can look at a page with all the pics you Fabbed. Nice easy wank fodder all in one place.  |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. "
Why, are your photos crap? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling.
Maybe they like the picture, doesn't make them gay
One thing I've found on here is men always interpret people liking their pictures as something so much more, it's so strange "
Not so comfortable in their own sexuality maybe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it the case that straight men can’t accept a compliment on their appearance from another straight man? Surely it’s a positive thing, especially on here.
(And don’t get me started on the whole gay men fancy every straight man thing). |
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I'm not straight.
I Fab pictures that other guys put up sometimes.
I even Fab pictures that straight men put up sometimes.
Because they are great pictures. Nothing more.
Answers other than mine which probably unfairly stereotype people are also available if you feel a need to be shocked this morning.
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"Was just musing why I've never seen a thread like this by a woman.
Because most women understand a Fab isn't a demand for a fuck.
Reworded!
I was thinking that if women do get fabbed by other women, they don't get worried/offended about the ghey.
Perhaps because bisexual women are gold dust whereas bisexual men often feel they have to hide it because of various prejudices against them. (Yeah I know, can of worms...)"
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"Was just musing why I've never seen a thread like this by a woman.
Because most women understand a Fab isn't a demand for a fuck. "
Or most women are used to being viewed in that way and take it in their stride. Seems it scares the life out of some blokes to be in the spotlight. |
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"Was just musing why I've never seen a thread like this by a woman.
Because most women understand a Fab isn't a demand for a fuck.
Or most women are used to being viewed in that way and take it in their stride. Seems it scares the life out of some blokes to be in the spotlight."
Hmm. But if 30 women fabbed the OP - would he struggle being viewed that way? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Was just musing why I've never seen a thread like this by a woman.
Because most women understand a Fab isn't a demand for a fuck. "
Also a case that some men and to be honest some women too (not all men and women!) just can't get past the whole gay/bi men thing.
Gay/bi women
Gay/bi men 
It is like it is needed to be stated on a public stage that they are immune to the ghay despite getting male attention on their pics. Like the GenPop are here to reassure the "complainer" that they themselves are in fact straight. |
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"Imagine this paranoia played out in your own living room.
John. Nice pic of you there Tom.
Tom to Sally. I think John wants to fuck me. I think he's gay."
Deja vu |
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"Was just musing why I've never seen a thread like this by a woman.
Because most women understand a Fab isn't a demand for a fuck.
Also a case that some men and to be honest some women too (not all men and women!) just can't get past the whole gay/bi men thing.
Gay/bi women
Gay/bi men
It is like it is needed to be stated on a public stage that they are immune to the ghay despite getting male attention on their pics. Like the GenPop are here to reassure the "complainer" that they themselves are in fact straight. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was just musing why I've never seen a thread like this by a woman.
Women value the fabs like green shield stamps... You can get a free mirror for every 1000 fabs or something "
Do better |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd.
Why, are your photos crap? "
I think his pics look great  |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. "
I fab women's photos if I think they look good. I'm comfortable enough with my sexuality to know that liking a picture of a woman and thinking she looks amazing in it, doesn't make me bi or gay in anyway, just means I like the picture |
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"Its how the ghey starts.
One minute a guy fabs your pic, the next you are looking at cushions on Amazon! "
The next thing you know you are in full regalia with your chunk tucked tight between your legs , mascara streaming cos the straight guys STILL message .... vicious circle. |
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"Its how the ghey starts.
One minute a guy fabs your pic, the next you are looking at cushions on Amazon!
The next thing you know you are in full regalia with your chunk tucked tight between your legs , mascara streaming cos the straight guys STILL message .... vicious circle."
Fuck my life  |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. "
Take it as a compliment ..I don’t even check peoples sexuality when I fab pictures it’s purely because I like the picture.. |
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"I'm a straight woman and I sometimes fab women's pictures because I appreciate the photography or the outfit or just how she looks. People fab our photos who have filters that mean we can't contact them or their profile explicitly excludes us. So people do fab with no agenda other than to show appreciation
I know there are a lot of men who conceal their bisexuality too.
Are you sure it's not because you want to munch them like a kabab after a night out? "
Now you put it like that I think I might be tempted |
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"I'm a straight woman and I sometimes fab women's pictures because I appreciate the photography or the outfit or just how she looks. People fab our photos who have filters that mean we can't contact them or their profile explicitly excludes us. So people do fab with no agenda other than to show appreciation
I know there are a lot of men who conceal their bisexuality too.
Are you sure it's not because you want to munch them like a kabab after a night out?
Now you put it like that I think I might be tempted "
Makes it appealing  |
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"I'm a straight woman and I sometimes fab women's pictures because I appreciate the photography or the outfit or just how she looks. People fab our photos who have filters that mean we can't contact them or their profile explicitly excludes us. So people do fab with no agenda other than to show appreciation
I know there are a lot of men who conceal their bisexuality too.
Are you sure it's not because you want to munch them like a kabab after a night out?
Now you put it like that I think I might be tempted
Makes it appealing "
Would there be chilli sauce? |
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"I'm a straight woman and I sometimes fab women's pictures because I appreciate the photography or the outfit or just how she looks. People fab our photos who have filters that mean we can't contact them or their profile explicitly excludes us. So people do fab with no agenda other than to show appreciation
I know there are a lot of men who conceal their bisexuality too.
Are you sure it's not because you want to munch them like a kabab after a night out?
Now you put it like that I think I might be tempted
Makes it appealing
Would there be chilli sauce? "
Garlic mayo |
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Sexual orientation isn't simple and universally known from puberty, with total clarity.
Guys could fab for any of the reasons above. Including being straight but liking cock sexually. There are straight men who like sex with men. There are also people who take years to develop an understanding of their sexual orientation, it didn't just reveal itself fully from puberty, instead becoming apparent years later.
This can be harder for people with a black and white outlook, who just had the short straw option of 100% single gendered interest.
Human personality isn't simple, including sexuality. We're all unique and the better for it |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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Cause you're....urgghh you're just too frickin sexy! You make me want to roar like a lion! Beat my chest like a gorilla, you make me feel like a MAN. And yet, I've never wanted to part my cheeks so much in my life. It's YOU. It's just YOU. You, complete me. |
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"Cause you're....urgghh you're just too frickin sexy! You make me want to roar like a lion! Beat my chest like a gorilla, you make me feel like a MAN. And yet, I've never wanted to part my cheeks so much in my life. It's YOU. It's just YOU. You, complete me."
See?
Soft furnishings next! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not straight.
I Fab pictures that other guys put up sometimes.
I even Fab pictures that straight men put up sometimes.
Because they are great pictures. Nothing more.
Answers other than mine which probably unfairly stereotype people are also available if you feel a need to be shocked this morning.
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You never fab me though do you you ass!  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Cause you're....urgghh you're just too frickin sexy! You make me want to roar like a lion! Beat my chest like a gorilla, you make me feel like a MAN. And yet, I've never wanted to part my cheeks so much in my life. It's YOU. It's just YOU. You, complete me.
See?
Soft furnishings next! "
A bit of a deescalation really |
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"Sexual orientation isn't simple and universally known from puberty, with total clarity.
Guys could fab for any of the reasons above. Including being straight but liking cock sexually. There are straight men who like sex with men. There are also people who take years to develop an understanding of their sexual orientation, it didn't just reveal itself fully from puberty, instead becoming apparent years later.
This can be harder for people with a black and white outlook, who just had the short straw option of 100% single gendered interest.
Human personality isn't simple, including sexuality. We're all unique and the better for it "
There's no straight men that like sex with men, there's men who say they're straight that like sex with men. I know this being a straight man that doesn't like cock or want to have sex with men because I'm well you know, straight |
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By *ruceyyMan
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"Sexual orientation isn't simple and universally known from puberty, with total clarity.
Guys could fab for any of the reasons above. Including being straight but liking cock sexually. There are straight men who like sex with men. There are also people who take years to develop an understanding of their sexual orientation, it didn't just reveal itself fully from puberty, instead becoming apparent years later.
This can be harder for people with a black and white outlook, who just had the short straw option of 100% single gendered interest.
Human personality isn't simple, including sexuality. We're all unique and the better for it
There's no straight men that like sex with men, there's men who say they're straight that like sex with men. I know this being a straight man that doesn't like cock or want to have sex with men because I'm well you know, straight "
Not even a suck for the road? |
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"I'm not straight.
I Fab pictures that other guys put up sometimes.
I even Fab pictures that straight men put up sometimes.
Because they are great pictures. Nothing more.
Answers other than mine which probably unfairly stereotype people are also available if you feel a need to be shocked this morning.
You never fab me though do you you ass! "
...up your game then, babe.  |
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"I'm not straight.
I Fab pictures that other guys put up sometimes.
I even Fab pictures that straight men put up sometimes.
Because they are great pictures. Nothing more.
Answers other than mine which probably unfairly stereotype people are also available if you feel a need to be shocked this morning.
You never fab me though do you you ass! "
Do you want a fab from a straight guy Brucey? I'll give ya one but don't go thinking I want to suck you off behind Tesco |
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"Sexual orientation isn't simple and universally known from puberty, with total clarity.
Guys could fab for any of the reasons above. Including being straight but liking cock sexually. There are straight men who like sex with men. There are also people who take years to develop an understanding of their sexual orientation, it didn't just reveal itself fully from puberty, instead becoming apparent years later.
This can be harder for people with a black and white outlook, who just had the short straw option of 100% single gendered interest.
Human personality isn't simple, including sexuality. We're all unique and the better for it
There's no straight men that like sex with men, there's men who say they're straight that like sex with men. I know this being a straight man that doesn't like cock or want to have sex with men because I'm well you know, straight
Not even a suck for the road?"
No, sorry Brucey but I'll give you a fist bump and wish you luck |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not straight.
I Fab pictures that other guys put up sometimes.
I even Fab pictures that straight men put up sometimes.
Because they are great pictures. Nothing more.
Answers other than mine which probably unfairly stereotype people are also available if you feel a need to be shocked this morning.
You never fab me though do you you ass!
...up your game then, babe. "
Ffs I really need one of those tripods |
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"I'm not straight.
I Fab pictures that other guys put up sometimes.
I even Fab pictures that straight men put up sometimes.
Because they are great pictures. Nothing more.
Answers other than mine which probably unfairly stereotype people are also available if you feel a need to be shocked this morning.
You never fab me though do you you ass!
...up your game then, babe.
Ffs I really need one of those tripods"
...oh this?
That's not a tripod, it's just my cock.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not straight.
I Fab pictures that other guys put up sometimes.
I even Fab pictures that straight men put up sometimes.
Because they are great pictures. Nothing more.
Answers other than mine which probably unfairly stereotype people are also available if you feel a need to be shocked this morning.
You never fab me though do you you ass!
...up your game then, babe.
Ffs I really need one of those tripods
...oh this?
That's not a tripod, it's just my cock.
"
I mean I didn't think superheroes existed but if your cock helps you take the pics you have on your profile I'm pretty sure you could use that to help the police force... |
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"Sexual orientation isn't simple and universally known from puberty, with total clarity.
Guys could fab for any of the reasons above. Including being straight but liking cock sexually. There are straight men who like sex with men. There are also people who take years to develop an understanding of their sexual orientation, it didn't just reveal itself fully from puberty, instead becoming apparent years later.
This can be harder for people with a black and white outlook, who just had the short straw option of 100% single gendered interest.
Human personality isn't simple, including sexuality. We're all unique and the better for it "
It's really not that complicated. Men who have sex with men aren't straight. Claiming they are is a bit gaslighty tbh. And I understand why men often skirt around it and it's not a fixed line journey for many. I am supportive and encouraging if men I talk to or have slept with want to explore their sexuality. I find it sexy tbh. But I will not go along with "men who have sex with men can be straight". |
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If I’m correct, it’s been noted on your previous thread, OP (green arrow) that a few of these pictures men are supposedly fabbing are pinched from internet but you decided not to mention that minor detail and keep those pictures on regardless, and then decided to complain.
Am I missing something here? |
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"Why do straight men “fab” mine or indeed other straight men’s photos?.. please don’t get ms wrong, I really don’t mind. I’ll never abuse anyone for whatever floats their boat. However, it is still odd. I realise that I can block it, but it’s really not necessary. Like I said I don’t mind at all. Plus I totally understand gay and trans people doing so.
Straight men though? Just a little puzzling. "
Who cares? And why do men get criticised and over analysed so much for that kind of thing, whereas if a woman liked another woman’s photo nobody would bat an eye lid. |
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"Sexual orientation isn't simple and universally known from puberty, with total clarity.
Guys could fab for any of the reasons above. Including being straight but liking cock sexually. There are straight men who like sex with men. There are also people who take years to develop an understanding of their sexual orientation, it didn't just reveal itself fully from puberty, instead becoming apparent years later.
This can be harder for people with a black and white outlook, who just had the short straw option of 100% single gendered interest.
Human personality isn't simple, including sexuality. We're all unique and the better for it
It's really not that complicated. Men who have sex with men aren't straight. Claiming they are is a bit gaslighty tbh. And I understand why men often skirt around it and it's not a fixed line journey for many. I am supportive and encouraging if men I talk to or have slept with want to explore their sexuality. I find it sexy tbh. But I will not go along with "men who have sex with men can be straight"."
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I've been crossdressing now for over a decade in public and when I have went out to 'gay' places (bars etc); very few people have shown me any (sexual) interest. Many gay guys (I find) are very 'orthodox' about their 'gayhood'... They are 'gay' and 'that's that'. Pussys are 'loose bacon strips' and 'ewwwww' and all that. - So anything even remotely feminine has them (fake) spewing as they defend their 'religion'!? In trans places/bars I meet all sorts... Pretty much anything goes. But in straight places/bars (which I go to regularly); that's where I get most attention. Men/women/couples and people who are otherwise 'straight'.
My current thoughts on this matter is that if someone tells me they are straight then (to me) they 'are' straight. Fair enough a 'straight' guy might sleep with TV's or trans-women; but if his 'preference' is for cis-gendered (natural born) women; then he is straight to me... I think it's all about their preferred preference rather than who they have sex with. |
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I can look at a man or in fact anyone and think that they look good or it’s a well taken photo.
Does that make me gay or bi…no
You can like the aesthetics of someone without wanting to have sex with them |
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"I can look at a man or in fact anyone and think that they look good or it’s a well taken photo.
Does that make me gay or bi…no
You can like the aesthetics of someone without wanting to have sex with them "
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I get a lot of interest from Str8 men, not that I mind.
On the other hand I fab pics that I like or find appealing. I understand the person, male or female, won't want to meet me. Im not trying to instigate a meet i just appreciate their efforts x |
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"Which photos are they fabbing
I see you've some with women in them."
Usually ones with just me and my cock out.
Obviously Women featured in a picture will garner attention from men, but they’re besides the point. |
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I don’t consider myself gay or bisexual as such. However when with other couples, I have had my cock sucked and licked by other men and returned the favour. However I don’t give or receive anal from males, and have no desire to suck a man’s cock in any other scenario. I don’t kiss men.
We used to call it just swinging!!!
It’s just having fun !
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I don't consider fab on a picture an expression of attraction on its own. More like a pleasant nod - oh I appreciate the effort in the photo or you look really good in it. Or you need a lift today, let's give you a fab.
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