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 . It's just my opinion but there would have to be a connection and trust built as its a delicate area.
(B4 anyone moans, I'm hidden as very unwell right now)
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"As I said to the others I never mention it in my first message, I just say hello, introduce myself and compliment on there profile. I also send a face photo." I'm not talking about your first message, I'm talking about including what you seek on your profile, that is the whole point of a profile. | |||
"Don't attach the face picture and don't talk about pegging in a 1st message. " | |||
"I don't understand why you don't even mention it on your profile if you are focused on it ? If a man messages me and asks if I would let him do things to my feet as he worships feet, I would check his profile. If he didn't have anything specific in his bio, I would wonder why." But people might be into or up for many things so don't necessarily write specifics. | |||
"I don't understand why you don't even mention it on your profile if you are focused on it ? If a man messages me and asks if I would let him do things to my feet as he worships feet, I would check his profile. If he didn't have anything specific in his bio, I would wonder why. But people might be into or up for many things so don't necessarily write specifics. " Pegging isn't on the interests list but as it's something the op wants he should mention it on his profile | |||
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"I don't understand why you don't even mention it on your profile if you are focused on it ? If a man messages me and asks if I would let him do things to my feet as he worships feet, I would check his profile. If he didn't have anything specific in his bio, I would wonder why. But people might be into or up for many things so don't necessarily write specifics. " But if you specifically want pegging, why not mention it on your profile, the profile that is supposed to reflect what you offer and seek ? | |||
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"That's for all the help and advice people, really appreciate it. I've made a few changes to my profile, hopefully it's a bit more informative." Better, but why could you not add a line that says that you woul love to find someone who was open to helping you explore pegging ? | |||
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"A W if you want a specific kinky experience. " ?? | |||
"A W if you want a specific kinky experience. ??" Another site | |||
"A W if you want a specific kinky experience. ?? Another site " Ah right  | |||
"Pegging provides the female part with next to no physical stimulation, the only joy I find in it is sharing in a partners joy at the experience. Anyone I don't know who mentions it in a first message is immediately considered a selfish prick and deleted. But I have thoroughly enjoyed it with the right people and intend to do so again "Unless you are using a duel vibrator strapless strapon. We both get off using mine but they are quite expensive. Mrs | |||
"So the problem is just that you're not getting a positive response from the women you're messaging?" Mostly no response or a reply to my first message then no response after the 2nd or 3rd. | |||
"So the problem is just that you're not getting a positive response from the women you're messaging? Mostly no response or a reply to my first message then no response after the 2nd or 3rd." So what does that have to do with pegging problems? | |||
"So the problem is just that you're not getting a positive response from the women you're messaging? Mostly no response or a reply to my first message then no response after the 2nd or 3rd. So what does that have to do with pegging problems?" | |||
"So the problem is just that you're not getting a positive response from the women you're messaging? Mostly no response or a reply to my first message then no response after the 2nd or 3rd. So what does that have to do with pegging problems?" Because I'd like to get to the subject of pegging when in the talking stage  | |||
"Because I'd like to get to the subject of pegging when in the talking stage "But you're not getting that far? Feels like calling it plumbing problems because the shower doesn't work while living in a cardboard box is more of the problem. | |||
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"Because I'd like to get to the subject of pegging when in the talking stage
But you're not getting that far?
Feels like calling it plumbing problems because the shower doesn't work while living in a cardboard box is more of the problem."You know what you're right in hindsight I should of worded this whole post differently as its kind of a two part problem. What I should of posted is... Im having an issue with getting responses from people from my initial message. I normally message people that show an interest in sub/dom play that also includes pegging/strap-on play. Any tips or advice on 1# my profile and 2# what's the best way about constructing my first message to someone so i stand out and sound genuine. | |||
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"You know what you're right in hindsight I should of worded this whole post differently as its kind of a two part problem. What I should of posted is... Im having an issue with getting responses from people from my initial message. I normally message people that show an interest in sub/dom play that also includes pegging/strap-on play. Any tips or advice on 1# my profile and 2# what's the best way about constructing my first message to someone so i stand out and sound genuine." Being genuine is usually a good way to sound genuine. There's no perfect one size fits all message. If you can send it to any available orifice, it's not going to feel like an honest attempt to connect with the whole human on the other side. If you feel your profile is a reflection of yourself and what you want, that's what matters, more than what's commonly liked. Although, as has been suggested, there are much more effective routes to get what you want, most pros I know offer it. But the people I know who do it entirely for their own pleasure, do so with people they really connect with. | |||
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"You know what you're right in hindsight I should of worded this whole post differently as its kind of a two part problem. What I should of posted is... Im having an issue with getting responses from people from my initial message. I normally message people that show an interest in sub/dom play that also includes pegging/strap-on play. Any tips or advice on 1# my profile and 2# what's the best way about constructing my first message to someone so i stand out and sound genuine. Being genuine is usually a good way to sound genuine. There's no perfect one size fits all message. If you can send it to any available orifice, it's not going to feel like an honest attempt to connect with the whole human on the other side. If you feel your profile is a reflection of yourself and what you want, that's what matters, more than what's commonly liked. Although, as has been suggested, there are much more effective routes to get what you want, most pros I know offer it. But the people I know who do it entirely for their own pleasure, do so with people they really connect with." I think your last paragraph hits the nail on the head (no pun intended). It seems like an evolution of trust and connection and not a transaction, in a fab/relationship sense | |||
"Because I'd like to get to the subject of pegging when in the talking stage
But you're not getting that far?
Feels like calling it plumbing problems because the shower doesn't work while living in a cardboard box is more of the problem.
You know what you're right in hindsight I should of worded this whole post differently as its kind of a two part problem.
What I should of posted is...
Im having an issue with getting responses from people from my initial message.
I normally message people that show an interest in sub/dom play that also includes pegging/strap-on play.
Any tips or advice on 1# my profile and 2# what's the best way about constructing my first message to someone so i stand out and sound genuine."So in this case even in your intro message you'd mention that it was exciting to read on their profile that they were into this and that it's something you are keen to explore (ie. reference what made you get in touch, no need to wait till you are deep in convo to establish you have a common interest). Still, I agree with the few that mentioned you'd have to charm them or attract them in some way. | |||
"Seems really difficult for guys like me to find genuine girls in to pegging on the site. I understand how many messages girls get off of guys on here but I struggle to even get a response to anyone that shows interest in pegging on there profile. I always send a decent message being polite, saying a little about myself and I always attach a face photo. Any advice on where I'm going wrong? Thanks all " Does it have to be pegging or would a cock do the trick?  | |||
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