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Delete my message thread, please?
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So I do send a few messages to women and couples, I generally ask that if they aren't interested, could they just delete my thread and I'll get the hint.
I feel this is easier for them, than to reply to say nope, but if they are read and not deleted I have this faint glimmer of hope that maybe they've put me on the hotlist, and might come back one day.
So, could you just delete my message thread so I can have some closure?
Or a courtesy 'nope' reply?
Probably silly of me |
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I think most of the posts you get on this thread will tell you it's not up to you and they can do what they like. Personally I tjink it's odd keeping messages showing unread for ever if they have quite obviously read them. But, each to their own. Just don't let it bother you. It's not from people you really know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most men here face the same issues as you. As a couple, we get messages every time we appear online but we aren’t necessarily looking at them at that time. Our messages are managed by Tones because I simply don’t look at them. Sometimes, we just pop in to the Forum for some light relief and the messages go unchecked for a few weeks.
Don’t take it to heart that you aren’t getting responses just yet.
You might want to attend some organised socials.
Miles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, you can delete your sent messages. That'll solve the issue."
You know if you message yourself and read it, it stays unread.
*please don’t ask how I know that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, you can delete your sent messages. That'll solve the issue.
You know if you message yourself and read it, it stays unread.
*please don’t ask how I know that. "
I know. My message to get into my own knickers was successful. And here I am.  |
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"OP, you can delete your sent messages. That'll solve the issue.
You know if you message yourself and read it, it stays unread.
*please don’t ask how I know that. "
You’re the font of all knowledge Woody |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure expecting others to take responsibility for your messages is the right path. As suggested, delete your sent box and you'll have no further worries  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails. |
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"I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails. "
Omg. I’ve killed a puppy  |
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"I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails.
Omg. I’ve killed a puppy "
I thought better of you LittleBird.  |
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"I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails.
Omg. I’ve killed a puppy
I thought better of you LittleBird. "
I’m so sorry little puppy. And Woody obvs |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, you can delete your sent messages. That'll solve the issue.
You know if you message yourself and read it, it stays unread.
*please don’t ask how I know that. "
That's because you broke the matrix. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails. "
Guaranteed to ensure you get no reply from the Cruella de Vil's of this world. |
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By *XZRMan
over a year ago
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Add in the other torturous element of people reading your message and then marking it as 'unread'
Either way, as someone else said, if it bothers you that much give em a week and then block+delete the sent mail at your end and move on. |
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Honestly OP, your best bet is to just delete your sent messages. It doesn't delete them from the recipients inbox, but will stop you obsessing over the what ifs.
Women on here can easily get upwards of 100 messages a day, there is not the time to read each one's specific instructions on how they'd like you to respond, if there's even the time or inclination to read it at all. Send a message, delete your outbox, and let it fall from your mind.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails. "
Too many puppies in this world anyway. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails.
Too many puppies in this world anyway."
Even grumpy puppy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always put this as my last line.
If you reply to this message in 5 hrs you will receive good luck in the form of a lottery win, and if you don’t a puppy will die.
It never fails.
Too many puppies in this world anyway.
Even grumpy puppy? "
He can live |
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Don’t worry op. Pull up a chair. 
