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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man  over a year ago

Bolton

If someone was to ask you "How come you're still single and haven't settled down yet?", would you be honest and give them a reason or would you tell them that's none of their business?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

Depends on whether you want to shut down the conversation or not. It's like any question really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't get asked. They know.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Depends who it is really x

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By *agerMorganMan  over a year ago

Canvey Island

I’d be honest with them. They may not like the answer but that’s on them for asking in the first place.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

I tell them the truth. I'm a widow and now I've found I enjoy my independence.

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By *hortarseWoman  over a year ago

Norfolk

I tell them who going to be in relationship with this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tell them the truth…… I’m much happier being single to do as I please

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man  over a year ago

Bolton

After a think, I'd probably be honest about it. I've had too many heartbreaks in the past and just gave up on relationships out of fear of it happening again.

What I do find ridiculous is how society, the media or even social media seems to paint a negative picture on singledom by making it look like there's something wrong with person for staying single.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd probably just shrug my shoulders and hold back my tears because I wouldn't have a fucking clue!

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm not single, but in the times I was I wouldn't have a problem saying that I haven't met anybody yet who has made a decision with me to get together like that. Until then I'm happy being single.

What I would have a problem with is their assumption that I ought to behave the way they expect me to.

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i

It depends who is asking, if it’s a friend I’d simply be honest, if it’s a not friend being challenging I’d challenge the reasoning of the question and turn it back on them, if they want to make me feel a way I’ll return their energy

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"If someone was to ask you "How come you're still single and haven't settled down yet?", would you be honest and give them a reason or would you tell them that's none of their business?"

I'd probably tell them where to go. Just because a lot of people 'settle down' doesn't make it a prerequisite for a fulfilling life

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I just tell them I'm not exactly single, and I'm as settled down as I intend to ever be

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends whos asking and why they want to know. Much of the time im open.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whilst there are always some exceptions, in my not inconsiderable experience, most people are single because they choose to be…..

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I tell them I like being single. I was with someone for 30 years though.

I wouldn't do that again.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

Most people who ask why I'm not seeing anyone say it because they think I'm too beautiful to be on my own

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do people still ask this? Would be my reply.

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