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I don't meet people for just a fuck. I have to actually be into them for there to be a desire to fuck them. If I just want sex I have plenty of excellent options on call already, so why waste my time on maybes I don't have a genuine interest in? |
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over a year ago
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"On here, we can talk for hours and get on super well, it will always be just sex though.
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Yep. This exactly. I've no desire or capacity to get involved in any other way. I'm still getting my life back on track. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That depends on what sex the person is
Like likes off woman no got to be more
For couples I understand I am the 3rd wheel the play toy kind off is and isn’t
For guys not in to dateing guys or anything so yes it’s just sex I use them as a dildo they use me as a flashlight everyone’s happy out the door thanks for the one off or till next time one off us needs that scratch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say ‘fuck me  ! “ when I’m reading the forums!
If I meet ANYONE new face to face, it’s without expectations. Anyone can quickly change minds when it comes to sex, so if it even gets that far, it might never happen again. I get it.
So if I meet in fab, it’s never with the hope of more… but a connection can happen, and I then want to stick around.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful |
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If its a mutual thing between you then it's all good for I to be just that...however a couple of friends are a wee bit more than that with chatting and such so it's a little bit more without being too much . |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful "
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I don't want to have "just a fuck" without connection. Sex is so much better when you actually know and like the person, and the spark is about more than just what they look like.
There's a lot of grey area between a fuck and a relationship... in the "relationship" way I mean. I wouldn't be having "just a fuck" with a friend, there is more to it. I'm a naturally tactile and physically intimate person so sex with a friend would mean kissing, stroking (affectionately, not in a groping way), snuggling. I wouldn't think those things are covered in the terms of "just a fuck".
But I'm neither expecting nor offering more. Because I'm happy in my relationship, thanks.
And yes. I say "fuck me". I sometimes beg "fuck me". |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex. "
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No; it's never "just a fuck" for me. It doesn't mean I want to date the person after but it does mean I have to have a certain level of friendship before I find myself sexually attracted to someone.
I want a connection. Friendship. I've never failed to find that on here. Nor struggled.
I think there's a scale - one end you'd have the just a fuck, the other, there'd be the full on relationship. I'm comfortable somewhere in the middle. A friendship. With good fucking. :D |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?"
I say I have a connection with her. She doesn't like it  |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex. "
I’m sorry you have that outlook, I wonder if it works both ways, or is it only men that “deceive” to get what they want so you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?"
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ultimately it’s just sex. I don’t meet with them for anything other than that. Sure there has to be some sort of connection there, I want to be able to have a normal conversation and a laugh with them when we’re together but it’s never going to be anything more. |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this. "
Can I watch?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Can I watch? "
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this. "
You're both kinda right in my opinion in that if I'm neutral with someone, would I still meet them if they were hot, yes.
But if anyone no matter how hot they are acts like a total asshole or all over the place I wouldn't meet with them for fear of awful chat or scary behaviour |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex. "
I'm really hoping that isn't true Lilith! But I guess if I put stuff on my profile then it's fair game I suppose! |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ultimately it’s just sex. I don’t meet with them for anything other than that. Sure there has to be some sort of connection there, I want to be able to have a normal conversation and a laugh with them when we’re together but it’s never going to be anything more. "
We have a laugh don't we?
As soon as you call me bestie I'm out of that door though. Unless it's during. Taboo best friends hooking up role play sounds hot  |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this. "
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy. |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex. "
Such a cynic but unfortunately probably correct. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
Such a cynic but unfortunately probably correct."
tut |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy."
Are we still having to say #notallmen? I did say many. Same with FWB "oh yeah that's what I want too". Lol. |
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In the grand scheme of things it's just a fuck. We like to be friendly and welcoming but we're not going to ask anyone to feed the cat when we're on holiday.
Our youth was dating and one night stands. We learned early on to differentiate between serious, longer term stuff and brief, fun encounters while having respect for all |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy.
Are we still having to say #notallmen? I did say many. Same with FWB "oh yeah that's what I want too". Lol."
Followed by what's wrong with tall men HAHAHA how we chuckle! |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"In the grand scheme of things it's just a fuck. We like to be friendly and welcoming but we're not going to ask anyone to feed the cat when we're on holiday.
Our youth was dating and one night stands. We learned early on to differentiate between serious, longer term stuff and brief, fun encounters while having respect for all"
That's a shame I was only interested in feeding your cat! |
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Even with the couples I meet, I like to see their dynamic, how they play off each other and how I can best interact and position myself (mentally) into that, as they are being quite brave inviting someone (especially someone like me  ) into their relationship if even for a fleeting time.
I think motivations change with age and experience, I certainly get more out of fab interactions when a degree of emotional/mental intimacy is achieved. The more connected you are, the better you “perform” all round. Perhaps for women who have more choice there is less inclination to know the person as they can afford the whole menu (that my be controversial), but thinking men just say stuff to get stuff is a thing (as it is for all genders). and well cynicism comes from personal experience which cannot be disputed. |
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"Ultimately it’s just sex. I don’t meet with them for anything other than that. Sure there has to be some sort of connection there, I want to be able to have a normal conversation and a laugh with them when we’re together but it’s never going to be anything more.
We have a laugh don't we?
As soon as you call me bestie I'm out of that door though. Unless it's during. Taboo best friends hooking up role play sounds hot "
Stop itttt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy.
Are we still having to say #notallmen? I did say many. Same with FWB "oh yeah that's what I want too". Lol.
Followed by what's wrong with tall men HAHAHA how we chuckle! "
Monogamy MAHOGANY!
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ultimately it’s just sex. I don’t meet with them for anything other than that. Sure there has to be some sort of connection there, I want to be able to have a normal conversation and a laugh with them when we’re together but it’s never going to be anything more.
We have a laugh don't we?
As soon as you call me bestie I'm out of that door though. Unless it's during. Taboo best friends hooking up role play sounds hot
Stop itttt "
What are we doingggg bestieee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy.
Are we still having to say #notallmen? I did say many. Same with FWB "oh yeah that's what I want too". Lol."
Maybe. Because Lilith didn’t…..
Look. I’m not starting a new thread for this but I’ve wanted to say this for ages.
Women on here make other women unattractive and unappealing also. if I viewed you all the same way as how a lot of woman are. Just my opinion, I’d never talk to any of you.
And that’s how us men #notallmen see it.
Men just get bundled into a collection of quotes.
Men are this, men are that, men do this etc.
well, and I guess some do and some don’t.
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"In the grand scheme of things it's just a fuck. We like to be friendly and welcoming but we're not going to ask anyone to feed the cat when we're on holiday.
Our youth was dating and one night stands. We learned early on to differentiate between serious, longer term stuff and brief, fun encounters while having respect for all
That's a shame I was only interested in feeding your cat! "
Harsh but truthful! |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"In the grand scheme of things it's just a fuck. We like to be friendly and welcoming but we're not going to ask anyone to feed the cat when we're on holiday.
Our youth was dating and one night stands. We learned early on to differentiate between serious, longer term stuff and brief, fun encounters while having respect for all
That's a shame I was only interested in feeding your cat!
Harsh but truthful! "
Don't take it personally, I really fucking love cats! |
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"In the grand scheme of things it's just a fuck. We like to be friendly and welcoming but we're not going to ask anyone to feed the cat when we're on holiday.
Our youth was dating and one night stands. We learned early on to differentiate between serious, longer term stuff and brief, fun encounters while having respect for all
That's a shame I was only interested in feeding your cat!
Harsh but truthful!
Don't take it personally, I really fucking love cats!"
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy.
Are we still having to say #notallmen? I did say many. Same with FWB "oh yeah that's what I want too". Lol.
Maybe. Because Lilith didn’t…..
Look. I’m not starting a new thread for this but I’ve wanted to say this for ages.
Women on here make other women unattractive and unappealing also. if I viewed you all the same way as how a lot of woman are. Just my opinion, I’d never talk to any of you.
And that’s how us men #notallmen see it.
Men just get bundled into a collection of quotes.
Men are this, men are that, men do this etc.
well, and I guess some do and some don’t.
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy.
Are we still having to say #notallmen? I did say many. Same with FWB "oh yeah that's what I want too". Lol.
Maybe. Because Lilith didn’t…..
Look. I’m not starting a new thread for this but I’ve wanted to say this for ages.
Women on here make other women unattractive and unappealing also. if I viewed you all the same way as how a lot of woman are. Just my opinion, I’d never talk to any of you.
And that’s how us men #notallmen see it.
Men just get bundled into a collection of quotes.
Men are this, men are that, men do this etc.
well, and I guess some do and some don’t.
You won’t win this battle but I admire you digging the trenches "
Trust me, I’ve dug bigger holes than this that I can’t get out of. |
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex.
What, all of them? Hopefully that’s cynicism or a little disingenuous rather than what you really believe?
Many of them here. I'm with Lilith on this.
Many of them, I’d agree, but not all. Many of them also think sending a cock pic and a “fuk 2nite?” message is a valid form of communication so it’s definitely not easy.
Are we still having to say #notallmen? I did say many. Same with FWB "oh yeah that's what I want too". Lol.
Maybe. Because Lilith didn’t…..
Look. I’m not starting a new thread for this but I’ve wanted to say this for ages.
Women on here make other women unattractive and unappealing also. if I viewed you all the same way as how a lot of woman are. Just my opinion, I’d never talk to any of you.
And that’s how us men #notallmen see it.
Men just get bundled into a collection of quotes.
Men are this, men are that, men do this etc.
well, and I guess some do and some don’t.
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I'm quite careful with my language and avoid sweeping statements. Tend to use some and many/most. I try not to come across as a woman who thinks all men are anything, but I'm honest about my cynicism which comes from multiple bad experiences from multiple sites. Can't speak for everyone else. It kinda depends how hurt you've been, and how recently. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I'm quite careful with my language and avoid sweeping statements. Tend to use some and many/most. I try not to come across as a woman who thinks all men are anything, but I'm honest about my cynicism which comes from multiple bad experiences from multiple sites. Can't speak for everyone else. It kinda depends how hurt you've been, and how recently. "
I think it also depends how willing you are to let things go, to not hold onto the hurt and to not allow your past experience to colour your future ones.
Being aware doesn't mean you have to be cynical. |
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I dnt just fuck. I need to feel a connection with someone. May aswel just use a toy . I need to fancy the person too. Iv had fellas say its not a dating site which true fab isn't. But we all still hav feelings n Wen I'm having sex I need a connection with the person I'm fucking. And yes I can say fuck me now Wen with someone |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm quite careful with my language and avoid sweeping statements. Tend to use some and many/most. I try not to come across as a woman who thinks all men are anything, but I'm honest about my cynicism which comes from multiple bad experiences from multiple sites. Can't speak for everyone else. It kinda depends how hurt you've been, and how recently.
I think it also depends how willing you are to let things go, to not hold onto the hurt and to not allow your past experience to colour your future ones.
Being aware doesn't mean you have to be cynical."
Exactly this - I couldn't have worded it any better.
Everyone has been hurt at some point or another. If it keeps happening, I can understand why you'd be guarded and cynical to a certain extent. I also think you have to find a way to move past that (if you want to etc) because you shouldn't allow your past to dictate your future interactions.
I know, I know #notallmen bleurgh. There are men on here who do want a connection. |
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I'm quite careful with my language and avoid sweeping statements. Tend to use some and many/most. I try not to come across as a woman who thinks all men are anything, but I'm honest about my cynicism which comes from multiple bad experiences from multiple sites. Can't speak for everyone else. It kinda depends how hurt you've been, and how recently.
I think it also depends how willing you are to let things go, to not hold onto the hurt and to not allow your past experience to colour your future ones.
Being aware doesn't mean you have to be cynical."
I'm in "can't let go of the hurt" phase. Several hurts one after the other. I recognise that's where I am, but not able to let go yet as it's too recent. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's so nice to see so many guys on here talk about needing some sort of connection. I made the assumption that it was purely mechanical for most men.
I've done fuck and go! Now I crave the connection! It definitely makes sex wonderful
Ah men have cottoned on to the fact saying they want a "connection" gets them more sex. "
Penis in vagina is a connection  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I don't need a friendship; I need to feel desired.
The sex with my long term partner has been perfect over the 13 years I've known him.
We don't pillow talk, we've never been out for a drink, we don't socialise at mine or his.
He's drank a second cup of tea a couple of times and we've had a little chat, but we aren't friends.
I'd say we're lovers, and it works.
Would that work with anyone else? Probably not.
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"When you meet with someone here?
Or do you see it as something more if there's even a hint of connection?
Also who says 'fuck me' during sex? Cause I'll hotlist you if you do "
Initially, it’s just a fuck. If they’re good enough for a repeat performance, then I start building a connection.
I have a suggestion for those that want to criticise the other sex for anything. Instead of using either the term men or women, perhaps we should just say people.
All genders are equally capable of good or bad behaviour. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Interesting. I do like to have a laugh but I LOVE WOMEN that can see it as just a fuck with no 'hey shall we go to xxx together' needed.
Meet for sex, have a laugh between having sex - leave until next time. Beautiful! |
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I have no interest in mechanical sex, in fact, I have no interest in sex whatsoever at this moment.
I am starved of human touch on a cellular level though so if I feel connection to someone, sex will happen.
And it will be that of “fuck me now” kind of sex. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have no interest in mechanical sex, in fact, I have no interest in sex whatsoever at this moment.
I am starved of human touch on a cellular level though so if I feel connection to someone, sex will happen.
And it will be that of “fuck me now” kind of sex."
Fancy connecting? |
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"I have no interest in mechanical sex, in fact, I have no interest in sex whatsoever at this moment.
I am starved of human touch on a cellular level though so if I feel connection to someone, sex will happen.
And it will be that of “fuck me now” kind of sex.
Fancy connecting? "
Are you trying to FAF me, fancy style?
FC, anyone? |
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over a year ago
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Everyone has their own way of fabbing it. As long as we all get along nicely and have fun
A desire to be with someone on just physical level.
For me its not smash n grab what I can.
Meaningful conversation about everything and getting on with each other is key.
Yes?
Bargain hunt.. Finding treasure that can satisfy on and at all levels. Is hard to get. We are human after all.. Good song that. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I have no interest in mechanical sex, in fact, I have no interest in sex whatsoever at this moment.
I am starved of human touch on a cellular level though so if I feel connection to someone, sex will happen.
And it will be that of “fuck me now” kind of sex.
Fancy connecting?
Are you trying to FAF me, fancy style?
FC, anyone? "
I mean it's worth a shot isn't it? FC, less letters and more charming. I've cracked it |
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"I have no interest in mechanical sex, in fact, I have no interest in sex whatsoever at this moment.
I am starved of human touch on a cellular level though so if I feel connection to someone, sex will happen.
And it will be that of “fuck me now” kind of sex.
Fancy connecting?
Are you trying to FAF me, fancy style?
FC, anyone?
I mean it's worth a shot isn't it? FC, less letters and more charming. I've cracked it "
That’s because you’re genius, Brucey. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I have no interest in mechanical sex, in fact, I have no interest in sex whatsoever at this moment.
I am starved of human touch on a cellular level though so if I feel connection to someone, sex will happen.
And it will be that of “fuck me now” kind of sex.
Fancy connecting?
Are you trying to FAF me, fancy style?
FC, anyone?
I mean it's worth a shot isn't it? FC, less letters and more charming. I've cracked it
That’s because you’re genius, Brucey. "
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"No; it's never "just a fuck" for me. It doesn't mean I want to date the person after but it does mean I have to have a certain level of friendship before I find myself sexually attracted to someone.
I want a connection. Friendship. I've never failed to find that on here. Nor struggled.
I think there's a scale - one end you'd have the just a fuck, the other, there'd be the full on relationship. I'm comfortable somewhere in the middle. A friendship. With good fucking. :D"
This. Thanks Meli for saving me their internet ink
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