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I can't pull the trigger

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have a list of people who I want to meet.

I just can't pluck up the courage to do it

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By *tudentForFunMan over a year ago

Craigavon

Do they feel the same way?

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By *oofy321Man over a year ago

moon base zero

"I have a list of people who I want to meet.

I just can't pluck up the courage to do it "

Are you planning on shooting them winko?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shoot for the moon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do they feel the same way?"

No idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a list of people who I want to meet.

I just can't pluck up the courage to do it

Are you planning on shooting them winko?"

Only the ones that get my name wrong

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By *jekimMan over a year ago

Wigan

I know what you mean pal I'm exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they feel the same way?

No idea "

I think he was making a point that maybe they feel the same so it's a stalemate.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Just go for it.

Worse ways they say no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just go for it.

Worse ways they say no.

What if one says yes?

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Just go for it.

Worse ways they say no.

What if one says yes? "

Then you scrub yourself clean, trim your hair, and pack your bags.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just go for it.

Worse ways they say no.

What if one says yes?

Then you scrub yourself clean, trim your hair, and pack your bags."

I don't think he's moving in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's stopping you meeting wonko?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman over a year ago

Markfield

Put the list here and we can tell them for you …

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just go for it.

Worse ways they say no.

That belongs in the "sayings you can't understand thread". There are PLENTY of worse things they can say other than no

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By *urge72Man over a year ago

oxfordshire & Hull

"I have a list of people who I want to meet.

I just can't pluck up the courage to do it "

Assuming you are genuine and not a time waster, then go for it and ask for a social with no expectations. Once you meet them you may feel more comfortable and they may really like you. From that point if things progress, how about asking for just a soft swap to break you in? You can then go further if you mutually agree.

The first steps are always the hardest, in so many things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just ask?... I bang on a first date if I get along

It's not blind date... Nobody needs to buy a hat

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Just go for it.

Worse ways they say no.

What if one says yes?

Then you scrub yourself clean, trim your hair, and pack your bags.