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I am not like you!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What makes you stand apart? Here and/or in reality. 
For both this place and actual life I'd say - keeping things close to my heart. I don't 'do' emotional exhibitionism.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others. Although I have toned it down to stop forum holidays."
Say things others won’t** |
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others. Although I have toned it down to stop forum holidays.
Say things others won’t**"
Keep that voice, holidays are a par for thr course for being outspoken, I've had a few holidays myself...no passport stamps though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others. Although I have toned it down to stop forum holidays.
Say things others won’t**
Keep that voice, holidays are a par for thr course for being outspoken, I've had a few holidays myself...no passport stamps though "
Sometimes it’s worth it, sometimes it’s easier to scroll on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others. Although I have toned it down to stop forum holidays.
Say things others won’t**
Keep that voice, holidays are a par for thr course for being outspoken, I've had a few holidays myself...no passport stamps though
Sometimes it’s worth it, sometimes it’s easier to scroll on."
I'm in worth it camp too  |
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others. Although I have toned it down to stop forum holidays.
Say things others won’t**
Keep that voice, holidays are a par for thr course for being outspoken, I've had a few holidays myself...no passport stamps though
Sometimes it’s worth it, sometimes it’s easier to scroll on."
Fuck tell me the secrets to this....I hear ya sometimes I just can't be arsed with it so do scroll on by... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It isn't actually worth courting forum bans. Too many and you'll find there's a permanent ban. Just saying..."
Still waiting for the day when we are told what particular comments cause the issues. Especially those who get permanently banned based on vendetta reports reports/subjective decisions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don’t think I can answer this myself. If there’s anything that makes me stand out I don’t know it. I think I stand it here and in other parts of my life for being a bit eccentric which doesn’t fit most people’s first impressions or pre conceived ideas of me. That’s about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t think I can answer this myself. If there’s anything that makes me stand out I don’t know it. I think I stand it here and in other parts of my life for being a bit eccentric which doesn’t fit most people’s first impressions or pre conceived ideas of me. That’s about it. "
Just stand tall. That's all we can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others. Although I have toned it down to stop forum holidays.
Say things others won’t**
Keep that voice, holidays are a par for thr course for being outspoken, I've had a few holidays myself...no passport stamps though
Sometimes it’s worth it, sometimes it’s easier to scroll on.
Fuck tell me the secrets to this....I hear ya sometimes I just can't be arsed with it so do scroll on by..."
I promised when I came back I’d stay away from the controversial or more serious threads. I have slipped a couple of times but i tend to just post if I can make a joke or have something to add to a conversation. |
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"I don’t think I can answer this myself. If there’s anything that makes me stand out I don’t know it. I think I stand it here and in other parts of my life for being a bit eccentric which doesn’t fit most people’s first impressions or pre conceived ideas of me. That’s about it. "
Just do you Pickles, and be true to that as you is enough  |
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others. Although I have toned it down to stop forum holidays.
Say things others won’t**
Keep that voice, holidays are a par for thr course for being outspoken, I've had a few holidays myself...no passport stamps though
Sometimes it’s worth it, sometimes it’s easier to scroll on.
Fuck tell me the secrets to this....I hear ya sometimes I just can't be arsed with it so do scroll on by...
I promised when I came back I’d stay away from the controversial or more serious threads. I have slipped a couple of times but i tend to just post if I can make a joke or have something to add to a conversation."
I tend to stay away from serious threads, every now and again I get drawn in....which is on me |
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"I just love being me. I can only be me and I’m cool with that
So boob naming is a standard dull activity ? 
Isn’t it? I thought it was pretty normal "
Bert and Ernie look like a couple I'd like to get to know better  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I can answer this myself. If there’s anything that makes me stand out I don’t know it. I think I stand it here and in other parts of my life for being a bit eccentric which doesn’t fit most people’s first impressions or pre conceived ideas of me. That’s about it.
Just do you Pickles, and be true to that as you is enough "
Very much this Pickle.  I'd have probably answered in a similar fashion to you.
We're all different, like said above about us being a unique pattern. I like that idea a lot.
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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I stand out, can’t explain why. I suppose not being native to this land is one thing.
I was having a shit day yesterday. Really bad. I was invited to a (very vanilla-work related) night out and every single person there commented on my smile. So I think that distinguishes me as I get that comment quite often.
But apart from that, I am a middle-aged woman who is desperately holding on to the last dregs of youth. |
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"I don’t think I can answer this myself. If there’s anything that makes me stand out I don’t know it. I think I stand it here and in other parts of my life for being a bit eccentric which doesn’t fit most people’s first impressions or pre conceived ideas of me. That’s about it.
Just do you Pickles, and be true to that as you is enough
Very much this Pickle. I'd have probably answered in a similar fashion to you.
We're all different, like said above about us being a unique pattern. I like that idea a lot.
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I have many many clichés for things Meli....there's some wisdom behind this sexy face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I stand out, can’t explain why. I suppose not being native to this land is one thing.
I was having a shit day yesterday. Really bad. I was invited to a (very vanilla-work related) night out and every single person there commented on my smile. So I think that distinguishes me as I get that comment quite often.
But apart from that, I am a middle-aged woman who is desperately holding on to the last dregs of youth. "
Having accent and not holding back much helps me out there too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As I'm the only one made in this pattern......we may all be all cut from the same cloth but we're all made in our own unique pattern never to be replicated "
No square stands out in a patchwork duvet. Not really what I meant but OK |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others won't."
Isn't it liberating not needing to alter responses based on others potential 'faf' or 'get the fuck away from me' reaction? |
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"I don’t think I can answer this myself. If there’s anything that makes me stand out I don’t know it. I think I stand it here and in other parts of my life for being a bit eccentric which doesn’t fit most people’s first impressions or pre conceived ideas of me. That’s about it. "
You stand out because you’re you. And you love a takeaway  |
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"I just love being me. I can only be me and I’m cool with that
So boob naming is a standard dull activity ?
Isn’t it? I thought it was pretty normal
Bert and Ernie look like a couple I'd like to get to know better "
They’re here all week |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t actually want to shag anyone on here so I will say things others won't.
Isn't it liberating not needing to alter responses based on others potential 'faf' or 'get the fuck away from me' reaction? "
I only alter them on levels of offence it may cause. Sometimes I just post a pray for the best |
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"It isn't actually worth courting forum bans. Too many and you'll find there's a permanent ban. Just saying...
Still waiting for the day when we are told what particular comments cause the issues. Especially those who get permanently banned based on vendetta reports reports/subjective decisions. "
Nobody gets banned based on vendetta reports. The rules are available to everyone and admin can be contacted if anyone feels a mod has made an incorrect decision. |
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Definitely my honesty. My friends in my social group comment on it all the time. It’s cost me the occasional friend but I really think the people I’m close to really appreciate it.
It also means true communication when it comes to kink and relationships. |
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"As I'm the only one made in this pattern......we may all be all cut from the same cloth but we're all made in our own unique pattern never to be replicated
No square stands out in a patchwork duvet. Not really what I meant but OK "
Some times the square is only visible to those who are meant to see it, the square is absolutely cool with that, as it has no real desire to stand out...expect to those who are meant to see...
Fuck I confuse myself at times, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It isn't actually worth courting forum bans. Too many and you'll find there's a permanent ban. Just saying...
Still waiting for the day when we are told what particular comments cause the issues. Especially those who get permanently banned based on vendetta reports reports/subjective decisions.
Nobody gets banned based on vendetta reports. The rules are available to everyone and admin can be contacted if anyone feels a mod has made an incorrect decision. "
Serious question. Has anyone ever received feedback after complaining about an unfair ban? |
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"It isn't actually worth courting forum bans. Too many and you'll find there's a permanent ban. Just saying...
Still waiting for the day when we are told what particular comments cause the issues. Especially those who get permanently banned based on vendetta reports reports/subjective decisions.
Nobody gets banned based on vendetta reports. The rules are available to everyone and admin can be contacted if anyone feels a mod has made an incorrect decision. "
However admin never responds back to questions or queries about this matter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It isn't actually worth courting forum bans. Too many and you'll find there's a permanent ban. Just saying...
Still waiting for the day when we are told what particular comments cause the issues. Especially those who get permanently banned based on vendetta reports reports/subjective decisions.
Nobody gets banned based on vendetta reports. The rules are available to everyone and admin can be contacted if anyone feels a mod has made an incorrect decision.
Serious question. Has anyone ever received feedback after complaining about an unfair ban?"
I don't know anyone who did! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think many people truly stand out. Not really. When we seek someone out it's usually because we've noticed a shared quality, whether that's a similar sense of humour, interests, life experiences etc. I think truly standing out would be a lonely place.
Nell |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think many people truly stand out. Not really. When we seek someone out it's usually because we've noticed a shared quality, whether that's a similar sense of humour, interests, life experiences etc. I think truly standing out would be a lonely place.
Nell"
I said stand apart aka doing something what others don't. Standing out I understand as doing better than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think many people truly stand out. Not really. When we seek someone out it's usually because we've noticed a shared quality, whether that's a similar sense of humour, interests, life experiences etc. I think truly standing out would be a lonely place.
Nell
I said stand apart aka doing something what others don't. Standing out I understand as doing better than others. "
Yeah, I got it. My comment still stands. There are 7.88 billion people on the planet. I'm pretty sure there's nothing that most of us do better than anyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think many people truly stand out. Not really. When we seek someone out it's usually because we've noticed a shared quality, whether that's a similar sense of humour, interests, life experiences etc. I think truly standing out would be a lonely place.
Nell
I said stand apart aka doing something what others don't. Standing out I understand as doing better than others.
Yeah, I got it. My comment still stands. There are 7.88 billion people on the planet. I'm pretty sure there's nothing that most of us do better than anyone else."
Again my post wasn't about doing things better than other people. |
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"It isn't actually worth courting forum bans. Too many and you'll find there's a permanent ban. Just saying...
Still waiting for the day when we are told what particular comments cause the issues. Especially those who get permanently banned based on vendetta reports reports/subjective decisions.
Nobody gets banned based on vendetta reports. The rules are available to everyone and admin can be contacted if anyone feels a mod has made an incorrect decision.
Serious question. Has anyone ever received feedback after complaining about an unfair ban?"
I can't answer that because I'm not admin. They have said that they rescind bans if they can see they were unwarranted |
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"What makes you stand apart? Here and/or in reality.
For both this place and actual life I'd say - keeping things close to my heart. I don't 'do' emotional exhibitionism.
Tones"
I'm just an individual, when i believe something is ballocks i stand up for it, I'm not vulgar in any shape or form i have great respect for women but not to the point of creeping up their anal cavities, i love to travel, i love the sun, i love my life and don't waste it |
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