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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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Depends on the person.
Giving one is very arousing though so there's a high possibility. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
Take him by surprise and put him in a metal chastity cage  "
Ooh I like you're thinking!!!
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
Take him by surprise and put him in a metal chastity cage
Ooh I like you're thinking!!!
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Think about it  . My genius is flawless on this  |
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By *toobguyMan
over a year ago
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Well he'll definitely want to fuck you, but if he's an honest guy he'll respect any boundaries you set.
Just getting hands all over your body is a reward in itself, maybe that will be enough for him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.
Men are awesome aren't they?
Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please  "
So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others  |
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Oldest trick in the book
Where do people even learn these ancient techniques .. who are the [women] who will let themselves be rummaged to fruition by an vigorous enthusiast ..and who is observing and writing out their certificate of participation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.
Men are awesome aren't they?
Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please
So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others "
Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oldest trick in the book
Where do people even learn these ancient techniques .. who are the [women] who will let themselves be rummaged to fruition by an vigorous enthusiast ..and who is observing and writing out their certificate of participation "
I don't even like massages but.."rummaged to fruition" sounds quite beguiling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.
Men are awesome aren't they?
Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please
So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others
Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again "
I am now shocked, I have always seen the OP as pure as the driven snow. Do not besmirch the love of my life.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.
Men are awesome aren't they?
Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please
So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others
Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again "
That's not what you said mid orgasm! |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected "
Wise words,takes standing tall and firm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected "
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry. |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry."
But non consential sex is r-ape |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.
Men are awesome aren't they?
Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please
So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others
Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again
That's not what you said mid orgasm!"
I know, but your as addictive as .... Well I can't accurately describe but you get the gist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape "
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "
This is why I don't let women massage me for free. I know they'd go for the butthole |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
This is why I don't let women massage me for free. I know they'd go for the butthole "
I've heard it's good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate it when I take someone up on the offer of a nice massage and all of a sudden they're reaching under to tickle my bollocks. Those knots aren't going to sort themselves out! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "
Exactly this.
And I pay for mine..they put their prices up but she's brutal and I love it. Worth paying for. |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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You do know tgat a pro masseur will allow you to keep underwear on if you feel comfortable that way?
Towels should be covering areas not being worked on too if they know what they are doing.
You should feel safe and relaxed. |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "
You seem like a sane, rational woman...you have no place here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meet a guy who will fuck you and you'd like him to, so you can have the massage and a fuck "
Where do I find one of those?
Guy offers a massage, gets an erection seconds into massage, I like him so we start fucking, afterwards he's no longer in the mood to massage. Probably farted and rolled over 
No massage  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "
Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?"
All the responses assuming the random unnamed guy is a closet r@pist makes our skin crawl. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex. "
£30-£40.....where?
Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.
I'm too close to London clearly. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't know, maybe I'm a tad naive.
If someone says to me "Hey Meli, do you fancy a massage?", not only would I probably say yes to it (if I'd been talking to them and liked our conversations), I wouldn't think they're trying to have sex with me. It wouldn't cross my mind. Unless I know that's their modus operandi of course.
After a recent social I gave massages to two friends. I was wearing very little - a crop top and shorts. Nothing happened. I don't think either thought more would happen. Yes, they were both turned on, one evidently so. It didn't really matter because I was just enjoying the sensation of giving them a massage.
Maybe I'm weird. |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.
£30-£40.....where?
Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.
I'm too close to London clearly."
My friend sports masseur in Herts about £40 for half/hr and travels to clients |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have only asked for a massage and it's clear that's the only thing you want he should not try and veer off that agenda....however in reality, I think probability is that he will do something sexual to test your resolve!
I love giving massages whether it leads to more than just massage.
Is there any sexual tension, flirting beforehand? Do you find him attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
You seem like a sane, rational woman...you have no place here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I'm a trained, qualified masseur.
If they say non sexual then it should be that way.
Anything else should be discussed."
You may be trained and qualified. Another random bloke on Fab is unlikely to be, don't cha think? And that's not me accusing every man who offers a massage as a closet r@pist. That's me being a pragmatic woman. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Meet a guy who will fuck you and you'd like him to, so you can have the massage and a fuck
Where do I find one of those?
Guy offers a massage, gets an erection seconds into massage, I like him so we start fucking, afterwards he's no longer in the mood to massage. Probably farted and rolled over
No massage "
A good guy will be able to edge himself and enjoy touching you knowing that once your whole body has been done, then he will hopefully be able to crawl over you...
How long you get on each body parts though if he's super horny is up for question. 3 seconds each arm? |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "
Explained perfectly. You can't paint and tarnish all men with the same brush though. There are dickheads out there and there are also genuine men. Just saying x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
Explained perfectly. You can't paint and tarnish all men with the same brush though. There are dickheads out there and there are also genuine men. Just saying x"
I wasn't saying all men. I was simply explaining why women are justifiably wary at times. I haven't encountered many genuine guys in the last year, but I still think there are some. |
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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago
Hillsborough, NI |
I offered to give a woman a massage; we had met socially once before. She agree, but I think she knew she'd be getting sex though, and she was right, there was more sex than massage.
Fast forward 13 years, we're together and have a 9yo kid and moved country. So it ended up being a significant massage |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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I have often done proper massages without sex often though if it done right you might decide you want a fuck but l can resist l have even kept my clothes on and massaged a totally naked woman before with no sexual activity |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have often done proper massages without sex often though if it done right you might decide you want a fuck but l can resist l have even kept my clothes on and massaged a totally naked woman before with no sexual activity "
Absolutely impossible, you're horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will start off non sexual, then he'll start going in all your nooks and crannies and gauge your reaction. So you never know!"
Yep I reckon the same! Ahh just let your body react and go with it!  |
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"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you. "
It is.
Also a perfect opportunity to use that coconut oil going stale in your kitchen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 30 seconds before I get bored and try it on with you. "
I've altered it for you, to provide a more accurate portrayal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you.
No silly!
Back gets 30 seconds, back of thighs and butt gets 2 full minutes!"
Then, oh would you look at that! my finger seems to have slipped in by accident |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 30 seconds before I get bored and try it on with you.
I've altered it for you, to provide a more accurate portrayal "
Can’t even wait the full 2 minutes?! Shocking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's be honest, he wants to and you want him to.
Problem solved.
Fancy a massage
As long as you promise to stick your penis in me.
Oh where is my penis NOT gonna go?! "
My ear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a 'way in' in my experience - not that I've ever taken someone up on it. But if I wanted a massage I'd pay someone for it. On here, to me, it's very clearly a way of getting meets and getting their hands on your body. I'm not a fan of this approach and I definitely wouldn't trust that's what someone wanted from meeting on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know, maybe I'm a tad naive.
If someone says to me "Hey Meli, do you fancy a massage?", not only would I probably say yes to it (if I'd been talking to them and liked our conversations), I wouldn't think they're trying to have sex with me. It wouldn't cross my mind. Unless I know that's their modus operandi of course.
After a recent social I gave massages to two friends. I was wearing very little - a crop top and shorts. Nothing happened. I don't think either thought more would happen. Yes, they were both turned on, one evidently so. It didn't really matter because I was just enjoying the sensation of giving them a massage.
Maybe I'm weird. "
Not weird, but ye gods I want a massage now
I can, and have, given sexual and non-sexual massages in the past. The non-sexual did involve some intimate massaging, but never led to sex...so does that still class as non-sexual? |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you.
No silly!
Back gets 30 seconds, back of thighs and butt gets 2 full minutes!
Then, oh would you look at that! my finger seems to have slipped in by accident "
She gets it! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"It's a 'way in' in my experience - not that I've ever taken someone up on it. But if I wanted a massage I'd pay someone for it. On here, to me, it's very clearly a way of getting meets and getting their hands on your body. I'm not a fan of this approach and I definitely wouldn't trust that's what someone wanted from meeting on here."
I know right? People fault the faf but at least it's the cards on the table! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.
But non consential sex is r-ape
How to explain to you?
Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.
Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.
£30-£40.....where?
Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.
I'm too close to London clearly."
Maybe I look on Gumtree & Facebook , I have a couple local to Nottingham charge £35 for one hour. Over here it’s it a cheaper 25-30. But if I go to a spa or hotel it’s £100, so I use the Just Life App to book massage, haircuts, manicures etc and they come to you |
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over a year ago
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Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ?? |
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Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.
£30-£40.....where?
Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.
I'm too close to London clearly.
My friend sports masseur in Herts about £40 for half/hr and travels to clients "
I pay 30 for an hour, fully body massage and she comes to me. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ?? "
Oh boy he wasn't lying about the charming! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
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Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.
Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.
£30-£40.....where?
Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.
I'm too close to London clearly.
My friend sports masseur in Herts about £40 for half/hr and travels to clients
I pay 30 for an hour, fully body massage and she comes to me."
Plz send details x |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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He's probably shit at it!! There's loads on here who sell themselves on giving a great massage but I know from experience they generally can't & yes, it will most likely turn sexual in about 3.5 minutes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.
Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?
That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected
Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will start off non sexual, then he'll start going in all your nooks and crannies and gauge your reaction. So you never know!"
Yes I believe the same |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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His hypothalamus will kick in and he will go into either fight or flight mode.
Fight: He will fuck you to show dominance and that he has control of the massage.
Flight: He will feel threatened, and dig in trying to keep 3 points of contact with you. 2 hands and the third being his cock.He will fuck you.
You're welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ?? "
Sorry you don't fit what I'm looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ??
Sorry you don't fit what I'm looking for.
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No problem. Have fun anyways. |
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"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ??
Sorry you don't fit what I'm looking for.
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What a polite blow out lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm still trying to find out what happened? Did the op get the massage or a bit more!!!"
No, I've been too busy with life to try booking him in!
Might take a couple of weeks.... that's if I even accept his offer.
Everyone's still waiting for the outcome of my he wants me to pee on his cock thread.
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By *c12Man
over a year ago
South East |
i wish there were more opportunities like this on here, a one way/mutual massage is a perfect way to meet... if the chemistry is there then it will either wait until the next time or something will happen |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
So many men on here offer massage. Some of them are very good. Sometimes if they’re good at massage, the sex isn’t so great.
If I wanted a purely non sexual massage, I would pay a professional. In fact I have done!
I was horny afterwards though  |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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Many years ago, when I ran a gym, a client had an injury that massage would help so I said she should get one.
She said I should do it. I went round her house and got a coffee and started working on her hamstring and an oedema in her quad.
We chatted and nothing untoward happened. I started on her shoulders (prone from the head end) and suddenly, out of the blue, she reached up and pulled my cock out of my shorts, pulled me closer and just started sucking me. 
I was shocked but she was hot so a good time was had.
So PL, the question is, if he does stick to his word, will you ?
And how would it make you feel ?
As a point of order though, I would struggle with you |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I've had a few 'just massages' off here. A couple have tried it on, a couple have been as good as their word. I like skin contact and random people. The massages aren't usually that great though |
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"I've had a few 'just massages' off here. A couple have tried it on, a couple have been as good as their word. I like skin contact and random people. The massages aren't usually that great though "
The massage might not have been the important part of that deal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Update ....
He did it.
He didn't try to fuck me.
Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread
I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.
Bring it on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Update ....
He did it.
He didn't try to fuck me.
Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread
I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.
Bring it on! "
Winner winner chicken dinner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Update ....
He did it.
He didn't try to fuck me.
Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread
I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.
Bring it on! "
So now the question is....did you want him to try it on, was the massage horny? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Update ....
He did it.
He didn't try to fuck me.
Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread
I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.
Bring it on!
So now the question is....did you want him to try it on, was the massage horny? "
Oh I wanted to make sure he stuck to his word...I'm a bit of a cow like that. |
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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If this is a genuine offer and your having to ask tells me you have doubts and in that case if that is a firm boundary with this person then I strongly advise you to reconsider his offer. Safety comes first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That man’s got will power….did he need to crack the code to get that close?"
No.
It amuses me so much that the guys think that cracking the code will get them a social or more with me.
Given the context of the profile and what it is exactly it just proves a massive sarcastic point.
Forget the code and the message in my profile is lost anyway because no one on here seems gets my sense of humour at all. |
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"That man’s got will power….did he need to crack the code to get that close?
No.
It amuses me so much that the guys think that cracking the code will get them a social or more with me.
Given the context of the profile and what it is exactly it just proves a massive sarcastic point.
Forget the code and the message in my profile is lost anyway because no one on here seems gets my sense of humour at all."
Maybe but maybe not….and if there was a code I’m a lazy fucker so wouldn’t be arsed unless it was to gain access to food…..
Also I did pester you with a message once I think about confusing the confused regarding your profile….
Finally do you actually get people contacting you attempting the impossible ? |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?
Or will he try to fuck me?
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Depends on the guy I guess, he’s probably hoping you might want it to become sexual if he does a good enough job, but might just enjoy getting his hands all over your body anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That man’s got will power….
Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol
Would you trust a stranger in the first place or would you need to know than a bit?"
I've been in that situation and it was horny as fuck. I'm a go with the flow type, so if it feels right, why not! |
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"That man’s got will power….
Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol
Would you trust a stranger in the first place or would you need to know than a bit?
I've been in that situation and it was horny as fuck. I'm a go with the flow type, so if it feels right, why not!"
Would you expect him to try it on… would you feel pissed if he didn’t….would you feel kissed if he did.. |
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"That man’s got will power….
Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol
Would you trust a stranger in the first place or would you need to know than a bit?
I've been in that situation and it was horny as fuck. I'm a go with the flow type, so if it feels right, why not!
Would you expect him to try it on… would you feel pissed if he didn’t….would you feel kissed if he did.."
Pissed…. |
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I am not a professional (as per working massagist)
Yet when I give a tantric massage or yoni massage there is no sex after it
The only exception was with my partner and we would connect to tantric sex which is another world of it's own. Of it tantric sex and not a tantric massage with clear communication defined.
Same goes when I do OMing (orgasmic meditation) where I am clothed and the process is all made to release what is needed, or open up worlds long lost... Emotions, sensations, and being able to express everything she feels, with absolutely no reciprocity.
Both are connecting to the intimate zone, tantra to the whole body OM only 1 inch area.
If it brought up desire in both, I would offer to meet on another occasion, and move from there, but this session... Is this session, and it's non reciprocal when defined as such.
If it's sensual, we define boundaries and as in all tantra... The yes, the no, the safe word, the agreement to further based in what was spoken before.
If not spoken, and no agreement word, it is very clear.
Consent and communication
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