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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really search. Years on I still tend to stick to the forums and I've been lucky to connect and even meet some great people.
Some connections are fleeting and some keep me going back for more.
All are great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones I have connected with most found me. Not other way round, which is sort of flattering I guess . They were able to make something tremble in my mind with easiness and the connection happened without overthinking. Just a joyous 'oh and ah' whilst stepping into each others desire closets.
T. |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't really search. Years on I still tend to stick to the forums and I've been lucky to connect and even meet some great people.
Some connections are fleeting and some keep me going back for more.
All are great. "
I’ve been lucky with the forums too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just the forum. People will usually interact with us once they figure out our humour. And it's not very humorous so the other person but actually just be bored... Huh 
F |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you most often find people to connect with on here?
Are you a searcher? A chat room person? Do you mostly look at local updates? Or other methods?"
Mostly message, or receive them.
It's like waling through quicksand tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look for people through search, forums, chat, local updates etc. But I generally only successfully connect through forums. I’ve met people from other parts of the site like search or local updates and chat room but generally don’t get replies that way. |
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The connections find me.
Some stay for longer, some don’t but I’m equally grateful for every single one of them.
They all teach me different things, and most importantly, I get to know myself better through them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never used the search thing, only clicked on the who's near to see if I recognise anyone  that's about it!"
I knew it was you in Morrisons the other week!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never used the search thing, only clicked on the who's near to see if I recognise anyone that's about it!
I knew it was you in Morrisons the other week!!"
Knew there was a trail   |
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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago
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"How do you most often find people to connect with on here?
Are you a searcher? A chat room person? Do you mostly look at local updates? Or other methods?"
im trying my hardest to get kicked off this site |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"How do you most often find people to connect with on here?
Are you a searcher? A chat room person? Do you mostly look at local updates? Or other methods?
im trying my hardest to get kicked off this site "
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best.
That is pretty much me, but being a man on fab, I think I disappear like a fart in the wind"
It hasn’t been working out very well for me either so I wouldn’t worry  |
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"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best.
That is pretty much me, but being a man on fab, I think I disappear like a fart in the wind
It hasn’t been working out very well for me either so I wouldn’t worry "
I’m just in the wind somewhere  |
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I liberally sprayed DMs via search before I found the forum.
As *SOON* as I found the forum I had a ... what are they called, when you're suddenly struck by something... not an apocalypse, the other one.
Well anyway, I had one of them, deleted all the DMs I'd sent, and from here on it's forum and socials for me.
That said, I do LOVE a good chat and when I do get my profile in public view if anyone ever wants a chat, please don't hesitate to DM me. |
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"I liberally sprayed DMs via search before I found the forum.
As *SOON* as I found the forum I had a ... what are they called, when you're suddenly struck by something... not an apocalypse, the other one.
Well anyway, I had one of them, deleted all the DMs I'd sent, and from here on it's forum and socials for me.
That said, I do LOVE a good chat and when I do get my profile in public view if anyone ever wants a chat, please don't hesitate to DM me."
Epiphany.
I had an epiphany. |
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"They message me because I've opened my filters.
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Bad Nanna I want to look at your profile (it's your own fault. You challenged me by saying you doubted I would be interested in another forum chat  )
When I've had time to do/launch my own profile, please can I look at yours please?
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I'm not a searcher.
I'm not a local updates 'gazer', unless I'm feeling languid and need to focus on the local absurdity for amusement.
I don't do chatrooms.
In the last 2½ years my connections have been made on the back of messages landing in my inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not just the forums! There are some hot guys out there.
I reckon I know straight off if they're my type.
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I've told you many time the closest you're getting to me is with F, but we can still be "friends" (banter in the fora) |
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