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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today  |
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today "
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies."
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here. |
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here. "
I know the feeling, people are very quick to point fingers at others on here. You say one thing and your told your stereotyping and passive aggressive  rather silly to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here. "
Be yourself!
Threads don't have to be inclusive. That would be boring as hell. People have likes and dislikes. Nothing will please everyone.
If 'your people' aren't on here that's just how it is. Not a reflection on you or Fab.
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here. "
Of course it's your right but a sizeable portion of the users won't understand. So if your intention is to deliberately exclude that sizeable portion then you are going to get pushback. You are the only regular thread starter to do this except for the occasional nostalgia thread which must go right over your head. So in the end you get to choose - do you want to be your authentic self or do you want to be more inclusive? It would be kinda like Shag starting threads in his native language. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes! I'm going to add a song to the playlist for this very reason shortly. 
Share it and I'll have a go, but my hips ain't what they used to be.
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Oh I won't share that one! But Hold Yuh - Gyptian ft Nicki Minaj is great for it.
You should do some hip opening moves! My friend has been sending me a lot of them this morning because they think they're hilarious. It's great for stress relief, dancing and sex. :D |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes! I'm going to add a song to the playlist for this very reason shortly.
Share it and I'll have a go, but my hips ain't what they used to be.
Oh I won't share that one! But Hold Yuh - Gyptian ft Nicki Minaj is great for it.
You should do some hip opening moves! My friend has been sending me a lot of them this morning because they think they're hilarious. It's great for stress relief, dancing and sex. :D"
Thank you, I'm gonna give it a go  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Oh wait I'll change it!
Fever - Vybz Cartel.
I miss those nights in a club dancing with random men. :D"
Those days are way, way in the past for me.
A choon would come on and a random dude would grab you as they walked past and spin you onto the dance floor.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh wait I'll change it!
Fever - Vybz Cartel.
I miss those nights in a club dancing with random men. :D
Those days are way, way in the past for me.
A choon would come on and a random dude would grab you as they walked past and spin you onto the dance floor.
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Yes! And some of the dancing I used to do. Effectively dry humping in the middle of the dance floor. It was a lot of fun, you know to not give a fuck, not know their name, just enjoy that feeling of someone moving close to you.
Oh the overwhelming halcyon.  |
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"Oh wait I'll change it!
Fever - Vybz Cartel.
I miss those nights in a club dancing with random men. :D
Those days are way, way in the past for me.
A choon would come on and a random dude would grab you as they walked past and spin you onto the dance floor.
Yes! And some of the dancing I used to do. Effectively dry humping in the middle of the dance floor. It was a lot of fun, you know to not give a fuck, not know their name, just enjoy that feeling of someone moving close to you.
Oh the overwhelming halcyon. "
Sounds awful...  
LvM |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here.
Of course it's your right but a sizeable portion of the users won't understand. So if your intention is to deliberately exclude that sizeable portion then you are going to get pushback. You are the only regular thread starter to do this except for the occasional nostalgia thread which must go right over your head. So in the end you get to choose - do you want to be your authentic self or do you want to be more inclusive? It would be kinda like Shag starting threads in his native language."
I don’t think it would be like Shag starting threads in his native language at all. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh wait I'll change it!
Fever - Vybz Cartel.
I miss those nights in a club dancing with random men. :D
Those days are way, way in the past for me.
A choon would come on and a random dude would grab you as they walked past and spin you onto the dance floor.
Yes! And some of the dancing I used to do. Effectively dry humping in the middle of the dance floor. It was a lot of fun, you know to not give a fuck, not know their name, just enjoy that feeling of someone moving close to you.
Oh the overwhelming halcyon.
Sounds awful...
LvM"
Get yourself to a social so I can relive my wildly inappropriate dancing days. Thank you Lorenzo. |
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here.
Of course it's your right but a sizeable portion of the users won't understand. So if your intention is to deliberately exclude that sizeable portion then you are going to get pushback. You are the only regular thread starter to do this except for the occasional nostalgia thread which must go right over your head. So in the end you get to choose - do you want to be your authentic self or do you want to be more inclusive? It would be kinda like Shag starting threads in his native language."
Can't change people who are who they are. You either accept them or leave them be
Choice is yours x |
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here. "
You won't find me whining, despite my Shakira-like hips. But I came to say you should wear whatever mask you want to wear.
Your threads are as inclusive as anyone else's, and I think you personally are inclusive in how you respond to people, from what I've seen (I think the lounge is pretty inclusive, by and large, actually. I know not everyone does). We can all choose to comment on the threads we want to. I couldn't think of a famous Ben, but have spent ages talking about football, which some would feel excluded by. Inclusive doesn't mean universal, to me anyway.
Anyway, far too serious a point on a non-serious thread, so get yourself back on the dancefloor... |
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here.
You won't find me whining, despite my Shakira-like hips. But I came to say you should wear whatever mask you want to wear.
Your threads are as inclusive as anyone else's, and I think you personally are inclusive in how you respond to people, from what I've seen (I think the lounge is pretty inclusive, by and large, actually. I know not everyone does). We can all choose to comment on the threads we want to. I couldn't think of a famous Ben, but have spent ages talking about football, which some would feel excluded by. Inclusive doesn't mean universal, to me anyway.
Anyway, far too serious a point on a non-serious thread, so get yourself back on the dancefloor..."
That's right  well said xx |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I feel incredibly old reading about 75% of Mr Pickles threads as I have NO IDEA what they’re ever on about most of the time .. I’m way past understanding the youth of today
It's a personal mission of his to confuse the oldies.
As I’ve recently learned that my threads can feel not inclusive I should stress that it’s not my intention(I’m really grateful for hearing that perspective also). Actually it’s more an effort to find ‘my people’. It would be nice to be able to be myself in the lounge as everyone tells us we should be. But I genuinely feel like it’s better to just accept the fact that I can’t wear my preferred masks in here.
Of course it's your right but a sizeable portion of the users won't understand. So if your intention is to deliberately exclude that sizeable portion then you are going to get pushback. You are the only regular thread starter to do this except for the occasional nostalgia thread which must go right over your head. So in the end you get to choose - do you want to be your authentic self or do you want to be more inclusive? It would be kinda like Shag starting threads in his native language."
It's not his fault some of us are old and don't open our minds to new stuff.
Do you feel excluded when a man starts a football thread, or a thread asking for bumhole pics.
Should we all just talk about cake and old people stuff?
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