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Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!
Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.
You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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Yeah it's tough being me. Get accused of having shit tan lines. I think men look better tanned because they don't have the obvious boob white part as well but ya know, women are in charge! 
Everything else is pretty sweet though |
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over a year ago
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"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!
Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.
You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "
You get lost in the shuffle because you don't stand out.
Others do just fine. Ask why. Or not, blame someone else, thats super attractive.
The girls don't have all the power, they unfortunately have the task of wading through the ample nonsense here to find the rare few.
Still, here's one less to figure out.
Oh and usual, it's easy innit, I gets all the girls...
Blah blah blah I'm so great. |
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Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ?"
I'm down for that. It's not unreasonable, no need to make a big deal out of a simple request. |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey.. sorry darling, I don’t understand your comment.. what d’ya mean?? "
None of the men on this thread are going to know who you are talking to, use the reply and quote button  |
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"Hey.. sorry darling, I don’t understand your comment.. what d’ya mean??
None of the men on this thread are going to know who you are talking to, use the reply and quote button "
Thank you, my lovely!  |
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"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!
Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.
You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "
Girls? Power? Please explain further. |
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"...The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men..."
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My dear OP - bring a map, a compass, a sextent and a GPS receiver. You'll be back on track in no time. Good luck. X  |
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"Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ?
I'm down for that. It's not unreasonable, no need to make a big deal out of a simple request."
I feel like this is a trap....  |
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You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "
Nice detective work there. |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.
Nice detective work there."
Just a habit now as I get the same cock photos sent to me by so many different guys and see the same pics on a lot of profiles, I always check now as it literally takes 5 seconds to do so. |
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"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!
Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.
You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "
With respect, you have been on here 4 months and have already had a meet. Some of us have been here for over a year and not got anywhere near a meet. |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "
And yet I read he’s getting to meet women this way…. ?…. 
*someone mentioned he’s got verifications |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.
And yet I read he’s getting to meet women this way…. ?….
*someone mentioned he’s got verifications "
Only one now. Maybe one left because of the fake pics?! Also veris can be faked easily by having two accounts or by asking a "friend" to verify. |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.
And yet I read he’s getting to meet women this way…. ?….
*someone mentioned he’s got verifications
Only one now. Maybe one left because of the fake pics?! Also veris can be faked easily by having two accounts or by asking a "friend" to verify. "
Op's getting called out, not going the way he thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site "
For the record the status update has subsequently changed!  |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "
Well spotted |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.
Well spotted "
To be fair, unless I’m using it wrong, it’s not 100% accurate - just tried it on some of my photos and adverts came up |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.
Well spotted
To be fair, unless I’m using it wrong, it’s not 100% accurate - just tried it on some of my photos and adverts came up"
It’s accurate. It will find adverts sometimes (clothing usually) but if the pic itself is elsewhere on the internet it will usually find it |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "
And puff as if by magic the pic from the 24th has disappeared |
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Guys totally don't feel sorry.Here we all have to really sell ourselves and work hard.Check bio look at pictures put new ones up.Read bios fully before messaging! Get out there go to socialises and events get to clubs.
Even for couples it's hard.  |
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"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site
For the record the status update has subsequently changed! "
I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then |
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"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site
For the record the status update has subsequently changed!
I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww "
Leg end |
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"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then "
Noted |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then
Noted "
And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery! |
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"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then
Noted
And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery! "
I just need to get a meet, and I've heard so many glorious things about the club seen. It's riveting. |
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Being a single male that's closed minded wouldn't be great on here however I've had some success on here I've been a member for years thing is I'm in no rush and not desperate you need to find the people that match your preferences, they are here trust me be patient |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then
Noted
And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery!
I just need to get a meet, and I've heard so many glorious things about the club seen. It's riveting."
I heard all the women were after you?! |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Being a single male that's closed minded wouldn't be great on here however I've had some success on here I've been a member for years thing is I'm in no rush and not desperate you need to find the people that match your preferences, they are here trust me be patient "
Can I steal your username for my new band name? |
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"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then
Noted
And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery!
I just need to get a meet, and I've heard so many glorious things about the club seen. It's riveting.
I heard all the women were after you?! "
Only the ones on the 'who's near me' |
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Your post sounds rather bitter to me.
Everyone on here has put some effort in. Women may get tons of messages but how many of them are actually decent guys.
So many are pushy, want explicit pictures and then fail to show. So no wonder women are cautious on here.
As others have said go out and socialise, the best things often happen spontaneously.
If you want a quick shag, try a different site. |
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"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site
For the record the status update has subsequently changed!
I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww "
Euww |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH BUUURN SONNNN
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Women don't have an imbalance of power here. What you are experiencing is equity.
Kind of refreshing, no? To find a corner of the world where single men aren't able to dictate the terms.
I like it. |
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"Women don't have an imbalance of power here. What you are experiencing is equity.
Kind of refreshing, no? To find a corner of the world where single men aren't able to dictate the terms.
I like it."
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"Women don't have an imbalance of power here. What you are experiencing is equity.
Kind of refreshing, no? To find a corner of the world where single men aren't able to dictate the terms.
I like it."
Absofuckinglutely |
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"Yeah it's tough being me. Get accused of having shit tan lines. I think men look better tanned because they don't have the obvious boob white part as well but ya know, women are in charge!
Everything else is pretty sweet though "
Christ on a bike...rejected for tanlines?
I'm getting too old.  |
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"...The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men...
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My dear OP - bring a map, a compass, a sextent and a GPS receiver. You'll be back on track in no time. Good luck. X "
Lol!
Darling Nero I do not think the OP knows what any of those things are....I'm not even sure he can find the clitoris. |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH BUUURN SONNNN
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The plot and not the cock thickens. |
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"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site
For the record the status update has subsequently changed!
I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww
Euww"
I'm happy to not be part of the Daddy scene....
I have Daddy issues but not that type. |
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"Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ?"
Don't think he suggested the second bit at all. |
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"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "
Well said, We do this too, it's a shame more don't. |
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? "
It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it.. |
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"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site
For the record the status update has subsequently changed!
I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww "
Changing it has absolutely nothing to do with whatever it is the reason that’s in your head and nobody mentioned the term “daddy” in my previous status. Must be the Mandela effect kicking in.. (look it up)
As for half my age - yes she was 22.. I am 43. Shock horror. |
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Yes that's correct however it's a double ended sword as men just continue not to put in the effort with their profile or be genuine and actually want to meet, therefore we really struggle to find good meets. Do definitely works both ways here |
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I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?  |
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It’s tough being a single guy on here! But as long as you’re genuine and open minded you’ll get there. I was a single bloke on here before and did well but I went to clubs and socials a lot as well as this place
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"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself? "
I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?
This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw
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By *Bag69Man
over a year ago
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"If you think it's bad being male and single on here, you should try being fat AND ugly on top of that!
It's quite hard to find bigger guys in this neck of the woods unfortunately  "
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"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?
I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?
This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw
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Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!
As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.
We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself? "
Boys just mature a lot later in life than girls , although to be honest , by 40 most have done and figured out how to interact with women. Clearly not all |
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"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?
I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?
This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw
Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!
As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.
We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.
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It's a great site to showcase your talents in some respect but single men do run the risk of "cockblocking themselves by their own conquests" if they post graphic photos. Much the same for women I guess. There will be some happy to wank over photos but not willing going to meet a woman who's been cocked more times than John Wayne's gun. As time goes on I find less liberated thinkers in this liberated lifestyle x |
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it.. "
Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though |
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"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself? "
It's a massive turn off for me. I don't need to see where you've been. |
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..
Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though"
Well nahhhh.. not everything’s gonna please everyone, is it?.. don’t really understand why people complain. There’s plenty of whatever it is that you & the majority of women like to see.. look further into those profiles. (Respectfully) |
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"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?
I hear you.
I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?
This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw
Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!
As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.
We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.
It's a great site to showcase your talents in some respect but single men do run the risk of "cockblocking themselves by their own conquests" if they post graphic photos. Much the same for women I guess. There will be some happy to wank over photos but not willing going to meet a woman who's been cocked more times than John Wayne's gun. As time goes on I find less liberated thinkers in this liberated lifestyle x "
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..
Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though
Well nahhhh.. not everything’s gonna please everyone, is it?.. don’t really understand why people complain. There’s plenty of whatever it is that you & the majority of women like to see.. look further into those profiles. (Respectfully) "
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"Op it's a womans world and we are just here trying to survive, but enjoying the ride, don't waste your time trying to figure it out, just enjoy "
You’re right. I am thoroughly enjoying the site and I was simply trying to get people talking and interacting in a positive a manner as possible..
Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it. |
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over a year ago
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I don't particularly like overtly sexually graphic images myself, or profiles regardless of gender. First impressions count but you won't please everyone anyway.
If your happy with how you come across then keep doing what you're doing. Men outnumber women on fab so it can be harder for some men to meet. They don't always help themselves though.
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..
Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though
Well nahhhh.. not everything’s gonna please everyone, is it?.. don’t really understand why people complain. There’s plenty of whatever it is that you & the majority of women like to see.. look further into those profiles. (Respectfully)
But if you're looking to do better, then there's advice to be taken. "
Oh absolutely! I’ve been listening and learning .. |
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"I don't particularly like overtly sexually graphic images myself, or profiles regardless of gender. First impressions count but you won't please everyone anyway.
If your happy with how you come across then keep doing what you're doing. Men outnumber women on fab so it can be harder for some men to meet. They don't always help themselves though.
Good luck."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..
Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though"
I just always assume consent was not given.
They usually claim it was an ex anyway. What woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics on a sex site. |
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..
Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though
I just always assume consent was not given.
They usually claim it was an ex anyway. What woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics on a sex site. "
Assume what you like, I don’t care. |
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"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?
I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?
This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw
Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!
As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.
We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.
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But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.
Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me. |
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"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!
Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..
Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though
I just always assume consent was not given.
They usually claim it was an ex anyway. What woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics on a sex site. "
Some people claimed that photo is taken from a professional site as it doesn't really match with other photos in the album. I think it's pointless using fake photos as if they ever a get a meet, the truth come out then |
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"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!
Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.
You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "
Yeah same here mate. The struggle is real. Then when you ask in forums I’ve had all kinds of abuse. Just keep being you mate. Pickings are slim but enjoy what you can |
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I've been on and off fab for years. Approach it with few expectations and you will have no disappointments. Respect the people you admire and build relationships with them. It's a swinging site mate. Not a sex site.
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Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!
As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.
We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.
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"us men" yes but then that's all you will attract...men....
You don't try to catch a pussy with a dog bone(r)
I understand that if I want to attract men then I can't talk to men about the things that women like generally. Unless he has a fetish for women's clothing, makeup and high heels, I find out what interests him specifically or what interests men generally.
I think it's vaguely called interpersonal effectiveness.. A meeting of minds....and bodies... |
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"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!
Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.
You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol
Yeah same here mate. The struggle is real. Then when you ask in forums I’ve had all kinds of abuse. Just keep being you mate. Pickings are slim but enjoy what you can "
Slim pickings? but you have 20 meets...Why would you have to ask on the forums when you could ask any of your previous meets?
Unless you fell out with all of your previous 20 meets?
Speculation not abuse. |
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"I've been on and off fab for years. Approach it with few expectations and you will have no disappointments. Respect the people you admire and build relationships with them. It's a swinging site mate. Not a sex site.
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Oh plenty treat it like a sex site and have no intention of building any kind of interpersonal relationship or respect or admiration.
They just want as many one-night stands as possible on their own time. They basically want a human blow-up doll that they don't actually have to deal with emotions and thoughts and needs and preferences.
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah it's tough being me. Get accused of having shit tan lines. I think men look better tanned because they don't have the obvious boob white part as well but ya know, women are in charge!
Everything else is pretty sweet though
Christ on a bike...rejected for tanlines?
I'm getting too old. "
No no no, rejected for being a dick WITH shit tan lines! |
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"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!
Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.
You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "
It's about damn time ... |
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"Of men actually saw the kind of messages women receive on here I doubt that they would throw this 'power' word around the way they do"
A good indicator of this is that men regularly prevent men from clogging up their inbox with messages. The quality of those messages is likely not any better than what women get. And ofc it’s fair to assume some women get worse, more abusive messages way more often too. |
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I don’t care.
^ That might be your biggest problem right there.
Doesn’t care but created a thread to complain. Explain that one to me "
It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ?? |
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I don’t care.
^ That might be your biggest problem right there.
Doesn’t care but created a thread to complain. Explain that one to me
It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ?? "
It doesn’t really seem that you’ve been open to exploring other’s opinions given that you’ve either argued with or ignored any that don’t align with yours. But whatever you say.. |
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"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ?? "
The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"
Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?
Genuine question. |
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I don’t care.
^ That might be your biggest problem right there.
Doesn’t care but created a thread to complain. Explain that one to me
It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??
It doesn’t really seem that you’ve been open to exploring other’s opinions given that you’ve either argued with or ignored any that don’t align with yours. But whatever you say.."
I simply choose to ignore toxicity.
Also, I’m mostly interested in reading others opinions and comments. This is a forum for likeminded people to chat and discuss their thoughts amongst themselves.. I only got the ball rolling.. because it is true that single male members have the least chances of “scoring” any kind of success via a swingers group online.
I am certainly not complaining as some of you are keen to put across.. yeah it sucks. But in the grand scheme of things - I don’t care too much about it.
Only interested in posting my first forum topic and already - there are plenty who’ll try and bring you down.. maybe it makes them feel better. Good luck to them. |
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"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??
The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"
Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?
Genuine question."
Dude.
As for the subject line - I had to think of something, because it was a requirement. I knew what the topic would be, however I spent much less time thinking about the subject line. So yeah.. perhaps I could’ve worded that differently/better.. I can only apologise for my ignorance. It’s my very first time posting in this forum or any forum for that matter.
I hope this helps clarify things up for some of you. |
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But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.
Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me. "
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"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??
The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"
Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?
Genuine question.
Dude.
As for the subject line - I had to think of something, because it was a requirement. I knew what the topic would be, however I spent much less time thinking about the subject line. So yeah.. perhaps I could’ve worded that differently/better.. I can only apologise for my ignorance. It’s my very first time posting in this forum or any forum for that matter.
I hope this helps clarify things up for some of you. "
It seems you didn't think too much about the title then.
Oddly, for a flippant, spontaneous title, it seems to match the post below it very well.
It has the tone of the sulking boy who picks his football up and takes it home because nobody will let him score.
I don't want to labour the point, or to seem like I'm having a go at you... I'm here for a good time only. But I also don't feel I can stand by while you complain that you're not getting enough attention because the women here hold the power, and they are withholding their "favours" from you, and that it isn't fair.
It *all* smacks of entitlement in my mind. And I just can't pretend that's not happening. |
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But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.
Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me.
Well said"
Most single women have photos and videos of a verity of dicks inserted into various holes.
I don’t judge them based on where they’ve been with other men. This is a sex based site as far as I can tell. So I’ll save the photos of my charming side for Facebook, POF, Tinder etc..
Thanks for the advice though. I do appreciate it. And I’ll work on charming the knickers off those more open minded site members .. |
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But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.
Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me.
Well said"
I know how to turn a woman on thankfully… polish the headlights….feed the horse….. |
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"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??
The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"
Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?
Genuine question.
Dude.
As for the subject line - I had to think of something, because it was a requirement. I knew what the topic would be, however I spent much less time thinking about the subject line. So yeah.. perhaps I could’ve worded that differently/better.. I can only apologise for my ignorance. It’s my very first time posting in this forum or any forum for that matter.
I hope this helps clarify things up for some of you.
It seems you didn't think too much about the title then.
Oddly, for a flippant, spontaneous title, it seems to match the post below it very well.
It has the tone of the sulking boy who picks his football up and takes it home because nobody will let him score.
I don't want to labour the point, or to seem like I'm having a go at you... I'm here for a good time only. But I also don't feel I can stand by while you complain that you're not getting enough attention because the women here hold the power, and they are withholding their "favours" from you, and that it isn't fair.
It *all* smacks of entitlement in my mind. And I just can't pretend that's not happening."
My post is lighthearted and no where near complaining. My point is that single male members find it very difficult to stand out from the crowd.
Some insights can help not only myself - but others.. my post is intended to be helpful and informative.. positively matters. You are focusing on the negative aspects of my post and admittedly misleading subject line.
Btw, I don’t necessarily feel that you’re having a go at me. It’s cool. I understand why you’re asking me these questions. It’s my own ignorance which is the problem I guess mate.
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"I've been on and off fab for years. Approach it with few expectations and you will have no disappointments. Respect the people you admire and build relationships with them. It's a swinging site mate. Not a sex site.
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My point is that single male members find it very difficult to stand out from the crowd
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Stand out from the crowd.
Competitive advantage.
How can you gain a competitive advantage over all the other single males here... of which I am one.
You're not asking the couples and the single women here "what makes a good profile on here?" You're asking "how can I ensure that I get the most attention?".
I could be wrong about this but I don't see much competitiveness here.
So I am curious about why you have a desire to stand out from the crowd.
Maybe the secret to success is to simply be a part of the crowd? |
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My point is that single male members find it very difficult to stand out from the crowd
Stand out from the crowd.
Competitive advantage.
How can you gain a competitive advantage over all the other single males here... of which I am one.
You're not asking the couples and the single women here "what makes a good profile on here?" You're asking "how can I ensure that I get the most attention?".
I could be wrong about this but I don't see much competitiveness here.
So I am curious about why you have a desire to stand out from the crowd.
Maybe the secret to success is to simply be a part of the crowd?"
Hey. I don’t claim to be an expert. I am new here, so please forgive my ignorance.
Happy to take your advice. It’ll be nice to be noticed. Not after attention. Just to be noticed. D’ya understand? |
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"Just to be noticed. D’ya understand? "
I do understand that, yes.
If you want to be noticed, be noticed for all the right reasons, not all the wrong ones.
But also, accept that for once single men are not the highest valued assets in here. You have very little capital here other than an ability to be a nice guy, respectful, worthy of some interest and attention.
If you do that you will maximise your potential for seeming attractive whilst also raising yourself to a point no higher than merely being a welcome member of the community.
Some people will take a shine to you, others won't. You can't cheat the chemistry. |
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"Just to be noticed. D’ya understand?
I do understand that, yes.
If you want to be noticed, be noticed for all the right reasons, not all the wrong ones.
But also, accept that for once single men are not the highest valued assets in here. You have very little capital here other than an ability to be a nice guy, respectful, worthy of some interest and attention.
If you do that you will maximise your potential for seeming attractive whilst also raising yourself to a point no higher than merely being a welcome member of the community.
Some people will take a shine to you, others won't. You can't cheat the chemistry."
A welcome member is good enough for me, personally. Sage advice right there - so thank you.
Sincerely appreciate that. And so glad we’ve finally understood each other.
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