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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
I couldn’t think of a word for penis beginning with F so fabstick had to do.
Guys who have dick pics on their profiles nearly always seem to be erect. Is there something about guys not wanting to post pics of their dick if it is not hard? I was thinking of renaissance statues and how non of them seem to have a erect/hard marble made member.
Part of me wonders if guys want to show their maximum size and as flaccid dicks are usually smaller than when hard and so they want to “show their best” so to speak? Guys would you feel uncomfortable/insecure with posting such a picture?
For the ladies, what are your thoughts on flaccid dick pics?
No particular reason I’m asking. I do like to look at pictures of dicks so there is that… |
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I have it on good authority that even the ladies that like dick picks don't particularly like flaccid ones, well at least the close-ups. There are exceptions but generally they just don't look good. I guess if we all had a penis and body to match like Michel Angelos' David and took tasteful pictures of flaccid cock attached to hot body all would be fine but we don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get what you mean OP, I guess it's just something guys on here have been conditioned to think. It's a sex site* and sex requires a hard dick. Any time I post a photo in boxers or just a hint of penis, it will mostly be flaccid and can definitely see the art side of it.
*Disclaimer for anyone saying "it'S a swInGeR'S SiTE" |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"I have it on good authority that even the ladies that like dick picks don't particularly like flaccid ones, well at least the close-ups. There are exceptions but generally they just don't look good. I guess if we all had a penis and body to match like Michel Angelos' David and took tasteful pictures of flaccid cock attached to hot body all would be fine but we don't. "
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"I get what you mean OP, I guess it's just something guys on here have been conditioned to think. It's a sex site* and sex requires a hard dick. Any time I post a photo in boxers or just a hint of penis, it will mostly be flaccid and can definitely see the art side of it.
*Disclaimer for anyone saying "it'S a swInGeR'S SiTE" "
Yeah I get what you mean. In my mind that concept is there too! I also see the art side of it too which I’d like to see more of on here but doubt it! |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"My most fabbed pic is actually of my flaccid cock.
Well it’s got more of me than my cock but it’s there very not hard. "
Oh yes, I didn’t mean a zoomed in of soft cock only, but interestingly fab is flooded with zoomed in hard cock shots! You have a great body  |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I couldn’t think of a word for penis beginning with F so fabstick had to do.
Guys who have dick pics on their profiles nearly always seem to be erect. Is there something about guys not wanting to post pics of their dick if it is not hard? I was thinking of renaissance statues and how non of them seem to have a erect/hard marble made member.
Part of me wonders if guys want to show their maximum size and as flaccid dicks are usually smaller than when hard and so they want to “show their best” so to speak? Guys would you feel uncomfortable/insecure with posting such a picture?
For the ladies, what are your thoughts on flaccid dick pics?
No particular reason I’m asking. I do like to look at pictures of dicks so there is that…"
I've got both  |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see"
Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on! |
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If the main focus of the picture is the dick, and it's flaccid and unexcited, that really doesn't do anything for me. It feels very low effort and fuck it which is absolutely fine in general, but in pictures I don't like to feel like people just can't be arsed.
If its a picture where the focus is elsewhere and the penis is visible but not the focus, that's okay. |
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Consider the pics that ladies post as an alternative, generally in suggestive poses, lingerie, make up, smiling, etc.
People always want to put out their best view because advertising works.
I know, there are still the odd few that pose with a deathly scowl dressed like Nora Batty, but generally the ones with the highest Fab count are the ones that "subjectively" try to look their best. Men are no different. |
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"Someone just sent me 4 of them. With an added bush.
I did reply. I said “that dick is tiny. Looks like a sad little bird”.
He didn’t reply and removed them haha "
Ultimate irony would be when he gets hard it goes from 1 inch to 11 inch  |
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I think if it's not the main focus and the picture is tasteful then it can look really good actually.
Nobody has a horn all the time,it's more natural, focusing more on the person than just a penis with a name.
Em x |
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I'm actually a lover if a flaccid penis pic as a swinger it's a part of a gent we don't get to see or experience often, it's a privilege to be allowed to see a gent in this relaxed and dare I say vulnerable state, a flaccid Penis is usually a private or partner situation only, a gent comfortable enough to be seen flaccid is attractive in his self confidence.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are one or two hot forumites who have suggestive pics of just a little bit of cock showing! I have to admit that really does it for me!
But I admit, it's also nice to see what to expect also! So I guess my answer is I like to see both! |
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"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see
Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!"
What a cool idea   You got an art installation there somewhere.
I'm surprised at how accepting you are, surely you know how much pressure men are under re. penis size and hardness? Nobody wants to appear small on fabs unless they specifically get off on that instead!
For myself my fav to see is a semi, it's engorged so shows off the shape of it but still not entirely erect/in your face which can come across as a bit aggressive. A lot of the floppy dick pics posted are actually semis, it takes real balls to post pics showing a truly flaccid penis (which often actually a pic of balls  ) |
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"I love seeing a soft willy on a profile… I actually find them sexy and I think It’s cos it’s not often I get to see one
X T X "
My penis ain't gonna win a best in category award, having been operated on three times  |
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"I love seeing a soft willy on a profile… I actually find them sexy and I think It’s cos it’s not often I get to see one
X T X
My penis ain't gonna win a best in category award, having been operated on three times "
...and the award for "most operated on" goes to...!
xxx (kiss it better) |
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"I love seeing a soft willy on a profile… I actually find them sexy and I think It’s cos it’s not often I get to see one
X T X
My penis ain't gonna win a best in category award, having been operated on three times
...and the award for "most operated on" goes to...!
xxx (kiss it better)"
Madam, should you so wish |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see
Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!
What a cool idea You got an art installation there somewhere.
I'm surprised at how accepting you are, surely you know how much pressure men are under re. penis size and hardness? Nobody wants to appear small on fabs unless they specifically get off on that instead!
For myself my fav to see is a semi, it's engorged so shows off the shape of it but still not entirely erect/in your face which can come across as a bit aggressive. A lot of the floppy dick pics posted are actually semis, it takes real balls to post pics showing a truly flaccid penis (which often actually a pic of balls ) "
I meant the time-lapse as a joke but it could be done
Yeah of course I’m aware of the pressure for guys but it’s also interesting how it’s avoided as if it’s something that doesn’t exist and doesn’t get talked about.
As a grower I’m one third to one quarter of my erect size, when I’m flaccid. It would feel hard to be judged on that alone. At the same time, there is something freeing about just baring it all. I think I may be coming into my naturist phase. |
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"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see
Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!
What a cool idea You got an art installation there somewhere.
I'm surprised at how accepting you are, surely you know how much pressure men are under re. penis size and hardness? Nobody wants to appear small on fabs unless they specifically get off on that instead!
For myself my fav to see is a semi, it's engorged so shows off the shape of it but still not entirely erect/in your face which can come across as a bit aggressive. A lot of the floppy dick pics posted are actually semis, it takes real balls to post pics showing a truly flaccid penis (which often actually a pic of balls )
I meant the time-lapse as a joke but it could be done
Yeah of course I’m aware of the pressure for guys but it’s also interesting how it’s avoided as if it’s something that doesn’t exist and doesn’t get talked about.
As a grower I’m one third to one quarter of my erect size, when I’m flaccid. It would feel hard to be judged on that alone. At the same time, there is something freeing about just baring it all. I think I may be coming into my naturist phase. "
Oops humour fail, how typical of me!
You might be onto something there re. Naturism, it's a more laid back approach and more accepting of bodies whichever way they are. Which also makes it decidedly unsexy and therefore unsuitable for attracting attention here! Scan through any discussion about lingerie vs naked and you'll see what I mean!
Btw you mentioned renaissance statues and their miniscule penises - it's because of the ancient greek influence, when a raging hard-on in art symbolised unfettered desire, lack of restraint or discipline, typically seen on satyrs villains and fools; whereas in contrast the gods heroes and athletes had a dainty member to symbolise their power of intellect&virtue, literally in control of their animalistic urges. |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"Just for you then
I wanna play too 
Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.
Yesss
Down with erections!!!"
Hey, come on lets not be hasty about this, erections have there place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see
Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!
What a cool idea You got an art installation there somewhere.
I'm surprised at how accepting you are, surely you know how much pressure men are under re. penis size and hardness? Nobody wants to appear small on fabs unless they specifically get off on that instead!
For myself my fav to see is a semi, it's engorged so shows off the shape of it but still not entirely erect/in your face which can come across as a bit aggressive. A lot of the floppy dick pics posted are actually semis, it takes real balls to post pics showing a truly flaccid penis (which often actually a pic of balls ) "
Yeah, the reason for that is because it looks like a sad elephant  |
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"Just for you then
I wanna play too
Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.
Yesss
Down with erections!!!
Hey, come on let’s not be hasty about this, erections have there place."
You’re of course referring to my particular beautiful erection and your equally beautiful vagina ?
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
"Just for you then
I wanna play too
Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.
Yesss
Down with erections!!!
Hey, come on let’s not be hasty about this, erections have there place.
You’re of course referring to my particular beautiful erection and your equally beautiful vagina ?
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I was actually thinking of boing videos, but that is so eloquently put I'm going to say, of course thats what I was referring to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Renaissance statues would always be flaccid and small intentionally as a large penis was seen negatively. I tend not to post flaccid penis pics because my penis isn't worth looking at in that state. |
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My flaccid pictures have been fab nearly as much as my erect ones, and after doing a couple of live tributes, I would agree some women love to see a cock rising to the occasion and one lady actually enjoyed seeing it returned to being relaxed |
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"Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper 
Agreed. And let’s not neglect the lazy lob on. Magnificent in its alliterative almost-soft glory."
Oh who could neglect the lazy lob on, or the sleeping sausage  |
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"Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper
Agreed. And let’s not neglect the lazy lob on. Magnificent in its alliterative almost-soft glory.
Oh who could neglect the lazy lob on, or the sleeping sausage "
I’m now happily daydreaming about hearing you say exactly these things in that gorgeous accent of yours.
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"Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper
Agreed. And let’s not neglect the lazy lob on. Magnificent in its alliterative almost-soft glory.
Oh who could neglect the lazy lob on, or the sleeping sausage
I’m now happily daydreaming about hearing you say exactly these things in that gorgeous accent of yours.
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You charmer you! |
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I hate a flaccid dick pic. Why would I want to see a lifeless slug? I do however, love a hard cock photo, as sky pointing as possible! I would never imagine what it's like to bounce up and down on a soft sleepy dick, but a rock hard cock pointing right at me? YES!! |
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"I hate a flaccid dick pic. Why would I want to see a lifeless slug? I do however, love a hard cock photo, as sky pointing as possible! I would never imagine what it's like to bounce up and down on a soft sleepy dick, but a rock hard cock pointing right at me? YES!!"
I’m not going to argue with that amount of enthusiasm. Rock hard dick pics for this lady, as many as she likes! |
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"I couldn’t think of a word for penis beginning with F so fabstick had to do. "
I know it's not strictly an "F," but what about 'Phallic Friend'?
I haven't checked for a while, but I'm pretty sure we have some soft photos on our profile. |
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"I hate a flaccid dick pic. Why would I want to see a lifeless slug? I do however, love a hard cock photo, as sky pointing as possible! I would never imagine what it's like to bounce up and down on a soft sleepy dick, but a rock hard cock pointing right at me? YES!!
I’m not going to argue with that amount of enthusiasm. Rock hard dick pics for this lady, as many as she likes!"
My inbox remains disappointingly empty  |
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