Have always like to meet single guys but tend to prefer to find one guy that we bond with and stick with him rather than meet loads of different single guys. However, over the yeats have noticed that they only ever seem to last about a year before either finding a girlfriend or moving away etc .. as the current guy we meet with is coming up for the '1 year mark', Im wondering if anyone has any tips on how to avoid the dreaded '1 year curse' I seem to have. Please dont suggest locking him in the basement as Ive already ruled this out as completely impractical !  |
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"Have always like to meet single guys but tend to prefer to find one guy that we bond with and stick with him rather than meet loads of different single guys. However, over the yeats have noticed that they only ever seem to last about a year before either finding a girlfriend or moving away etc .. as the current guy we meet with is coming up for the '1 year mark', Im wondering if
anyone has any tips on how to avoid
the dreaded '1 year curse' I seem to
have. Please dont suggest locking him
in the basement as Ive already ruled
this out as completely impractical ! :-
p"
Tell him how much you like having sex with him and make each time you meet make him feel special and be inventive and different and then back to the same a few meets later and good luck and well done for finding such a successful regular.  |
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"Have you mentioned this to your regular guy? If you want to keep him soley for yourselves do you save yourselves for him or is this a oneway street?  "
dont want to keep him for ourselves .. hes a single fella and does meet other people which isnt an issue but we choose not to meet other single fellas as we like the familiarity that comes with a regular guy |
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over a year ago
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Have you ever thought he might want to be part of a couple himself?
I think a year is good going might be time to move him in the spare room or set him free.
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I tend to find that my most regular single guys are the ones already married.. Thus avoiding the curse of them finding someone and moving on.. to be honest I find it a bit judgemental when I am with a single guy and he states there is no way that when he has a girl he would be sharing... yet expects others too..
But to be honest.. I don't let it worry me.. I take each meet as it comes..
but then I rarely now if ever meet one on one anyway. |
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single
nuff said
although..
what does a single guy normally get from a cpl he meets regular...fun and sex..I'd get pretty bored of that as I'm a bit more worth than a cpls regular plaything...I have actual wants and desires that wouldnt involve them |
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Yes I can understand that and speaking for myself Id rather have just a select few or even one for that added spice. Tell your regular guy that if he meets someone youd still like to meet up for regular fun. If I had a lush body like yours to play with Id keep cumin. Unless the new gf/partner turned out to be the real deal. Has others have said just keep it exciting and fingers crossed this ones a stayer  |
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I don't think there is a way you can guarantee that a regular single guy won't find himself in a vanilla relationship in 6 months or a year, maybe have 2 or 3 single regular men that you meet, that way if one does decide that swinging is no longer for him, your already familiar with the other 2!!
Or lock them in the cellar  |
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"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?"
can i send you a link to my hotlist !!?? |
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"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?"
That's what you'd all an escort agency  |
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"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?"
Im offering to look after them while they're *resting* |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?
can i send you a link to my hotlist !!??"
If they come ready vetted then that would be lovely. I don't ever seem to have anyone terribly regularly. I have friends and I see them infrequently. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
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"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?
Im offering to look after them while they're *resting* "
Does that mean I can wear them out first? |
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"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?
Im offering to look after them while they're *resting*
Does that mean I can wear them out first?"
All at once? we need a bigger store |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
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"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?
Im offering to look after them while they're *resting*
Does that mean I can wear them out first?
All at once? we need a bigger store "
On rotation perhaps? |
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Well there is no way of keeping the same guy is there, they aren't possessions. I'd imagine that most of the single guys on here will be off when they start a relationship.
I don't have a regular single guy because swinging is not about familiarity for me, its about different experiences, different bodies, different techniques.
But I guess you just have to accept that each time you play with the guy it could potentially be the last, so its just a case of accepting and getting used to that |
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