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So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
go to the party in the park play crazy golf get a hole in one and go crazy on sugar free drinks  |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
Do you have a local club? Go have yourself some fun there. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
,,, twat his loss |
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"Take yourself off for a coffee and a cake and forget him.
Or a zipwire and send him a middle finger pic
Ooo yes this^^^ cake  ...known to cure all evils   "
I do love cake. I’m going to have my cake and eat it! |
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After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!
Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
I'd probs use the time to go catch up with friends or try meet someone else for a social. |
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"After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!
Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least "
You had me at coffee and cake. I think cake is definitely in the running so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online?
Yeah he’s about.  "
Does he use the forum?
I always have a back up plan. Use the free time to do something nice and forget about him. Sunday movie afternoon. |
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"After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!
Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least
You had me at coffee and cake. I think cake is definitely in the running so far. "
I've a nice sponge cake and flapjacks. Shame you're a bit far away haha |
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"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online?
Yeah he’s about.
Does he use the forum?
I always have a back up plan. Use the free time to do something nice and forget about him. Sunday movie afternoon. "
No unfortunately. Or fortunately. Not quite decided on that one.
This is a good idea. Im thinking I should have had a back up plan. But it’s a lush day so that’s a silver lining! |
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"Hugs sorry to here you got stood up hopefully it dose not bother you too much beautiful x"
Aww thank you lovely. No he’s a little fish in a big pond, I don’t let anything like this bother me. I just need to get one up because I am petty like that x |
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"Sorry you got stood up gorgeous. Hope you put your lippy on and go and enjoy yourself with maybe a coffee, a cake and buy yourself something lovely. A bit of you time  "
Cake for the win. Thank you lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hugs sorry to here you got stood up hopefully it dose not bother you too much beautiful x
Aww thank you lovely. No he’s a little fish in a big pond, I don’t let anything like this bother me. I just need to get one up because I am petty like that x"
Your welcome anytime and yes he is the best way to get one up is to just don’t let it bother you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
I wouldn't chew over it, or influence my actions to retaliate. Forget and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.
Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online?
Yeah he’s about.
Does he use the forum?
I always have a back up plan. Use the free time to do something nice and forget about him. Sunday movie afternoon.
No unfortunately. Or fortunately. Not quite decided on that one.
This is a good idea. Im thinking I should have had a back up plan. But it’s a lush day so that’s a silver lining! "
Ok I don't feel sorry for you anymore, it's pissing it down here! x
Sometimes I fancy the back up plan more than the meet.  (Plan B is always something to do, never a person.) |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”
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,,, twat his loss"
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Why is it his loss? |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”
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,,, twat his loss
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Why is it his loss?"
Do you not tell yourself it's someone's loss if they turn you down or stand you up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
Fuck his dad!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”
Fuck his dad!!!"
Tell your son not to let down the OP again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to me on Friday (someone from a bar, not Fab).
Text me a few hours after we were supposed to meet and said she has to go out for her friends birthday instead but can get a taxi to mine after.
Nah, pass. |
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"See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.
Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over "
Ok this is definitely going down as an option. I don’t have gnomes, or a garden, but I do have loads of empty beer bottles and a passage! |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”
Fuck his dad!!!
Tell your son not to let down the OP again! "
I mean, that is an excellent idea!  |
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"See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.
Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over
Ok this is definitely going down as an option. I don’t have gnomes, or a garden, but I do have loads of empty beer bottles and a passage! "
I think you have just inveted an Olympic sport!
See this day hasn't been all bad! |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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"After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!
Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least
You had me at coffee and cake. I think cake is definitely in the running so far. "
A boudoir shoot of you having coffee and cake? |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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OP, the best response is no response, just keep them guessing; quite often people do this sort of thing for a reaction so when you react, they have you dancing to their tune.
You could just simple post something like "Wow, that was unexpected but a whole lot of fun" on your status; I'm sure it drive them nuts trying to guess what you got up to today.
Another thought, maybe the wonderful folk on this forum could send yo a verification saying how brilliant your are? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online? "
This is the kind of thing my daughter says, always thinking the best.
Personally, I think he is probably a douche bag and worth avoiding.
Time for a cake and then phone calls to friends and an evening of wine and banter. |
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"See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.
Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over
Ok this is definitely going down as an option. I don’t have gnomes, or a garden, but I do have loads of empty beer bottles and a passage! "
So what's this about your passage... |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
Wish I was closer! |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”
Fuck his dad!!!"
I would!!
And when i was finished with his dad, I'd be sorting his brother out next....
And then his best mate.... |
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It's a sad day when someone can waste an opportunity to be in your company - only option he could pleas is insanity.
As for suggestions - I see cake is winning - so head out to a nice coffee shop - grab a cake and coffee and flirt like mad with all and sundry sometimes the tease is half the fun.
Above all have fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should I do or what would you do instead?"
Do what we do, message every profile in the area that is showing online. Be upfront you were stood up and you want to meet for a social. Anyone who is willing to meet for a last minute social will at least be interesting and you'll have a laugh, socials don't have to stay just socials.... |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
I'd be ordering my favourite takeaway |
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"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.
What should I do or what would you do instead?
Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!” "
Post a veri on your profile from meeting me. That’ll make him think   |
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Ha I’ve had a giggle over these. Brilliant!
As to all the offers to come over and take pics with me, ummm, yes please!!!!
So in a nutshell,
Do his dad
Squirt up my passage
Eat fuck loads of cake
Coffee
Have a massive gang bang
Take pics and post them
Get verified
Order take away
Sounds like the perfect Sunday! |
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"Ha I’ve had a giggle over these. Brilliant!
As to all the offers to come over and take pics with me, ummm, yes please!!!!
So in a nutshell,
Do his dad
Squirt up my passage
Eat fuck loads of cake
Coffee
Have a massive gang bang
Take pics and post them
Get verified
Order take away
Sounds like the perfect Sunday! "
Brilliant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But you have to do them all
Oh I was just giving you an update on what I’ve done "
Well your comment made me smile - so hope that with the light hearted response it means that you have had a good day in the end, and that your evening is even better. |
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"Ha I’ve had a giggle over these. Brilliant!
As to all the offers to come over and take pics with me, ummm, yes please!!!!
So in a nutshell,
Do his dad
Squirt up my passage
Eat fuck loads of cake
Coffee
Have a massive gang bang
Take pics and post them
Get verified
Order take away
Sounds like the perfect Sunday! "
If you don't add that to you're bio as you're ideal meet you're not doing fab correctly. |
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