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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My dearest forumsters
I come to you today to ask a question
What do you do about loss of libido?
It’s been about 3 weeks now since my libido went. It’s driving me insane. Absolutely nothing is getting my going.
All my usual avenues have failed and I tried some new things including new toys and new masturbation methods and yet nothing is working! Literally nothing!
I feel at a loss (quite literally), because I can’t stay sexually frustrated forever.
Anyone got any tips on bringing it back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything can affect it including worrying about lack of it or trying to find it again and the self pressure that gives.
It will come back, probably when you’re least expecting it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I lose my libido I'm not sexually frustrated - I'm just not interested.
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That's the bit that confuses me too.
Are you saying your wank bank is empty OP?
There's a dude with a perfect cock, maybe give him a bell  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I lose my libido I'm not sexually frustrated - I'm just not interested.
That's the bit that confuses me too.
Are you saying your wank bank is empty OP?
There's a dude with a perfect cock, maybe give him a bell "
It’s a bit of both - I can’t wank because I have no libido and then I’m sexually frustrated because I WANT to wank but I can’t…if that makes sense? |
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"If I lose my libido I'm not sexually frustrated - I'm just not interested.
That's the bit that confuses me too.
Are you saying your wank bank is empty OP?
There's a dude with a perfect cock, maybe give him a bell
It’s a bit of both - I can’t wank because I have no libido and then I’m sexually frustrated because I WANT to wank but I can’t…if that makes sense?"
I get this sometimes as well, it's can be 101 things for blokes from what I've read.
I try not to stress about it, the brain is a weird and wonderful thing, it plays tricks on you somtimes just for the bants. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Mine has been gone for ages but I’m just going with it. I’m not sexually frustrated, I’m just “meh” about it all, and my way of thinking is that it’s my body’s way of protecting my best interests for the present time.
It’ll come back when I’m in a better place I suspect, and that’ll do me.
If you’re concerned maybe have a chat with your GP. Have you started taking new medication or going through stresses that may have affected it? |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"My dearest forumsters
I come to you today to ask a question
What do you do about loss of libido?
It’s been about 3 weeks now since my libido went. It’s driving me insane. Absolutely nothing is getting my going.
All my usual avenues have failed and I tried some new things including new toys and new masturbation methods and yet nothing is working! Literally nothing!
I feel at a loss (quite literally), because I can’t stay sexually frustrated forever.
Anyone got any tips on bringing it back? "
You're just literally bored with sex its the same old same old i suggest another hobby like philately or train spotting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine's taken a dip too. It's been bouncing between half and zero for several months. It happens.
It's when it's 100% all the time that it's a problem - constantly thinking about sex isn't a good way to have a productive life! |
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"If I lose my libido I'm not sexually frustrated - I'm just not interested.
That's the bit that confuses me too.
Are you saying your wank bank is empty OP?
There's a dude with a perfect cock, maybe give him a bell
It’s a bit of both - I can’t wank because I have no libido and then I’m sexually frustrated because I WANT to wank but I can’t…if that makes sense?"
Oh ok. Yeah, I understand.
Work on other material needs for the moment. Give yourself the best background support for it to come back |
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"I know what it’s like, I lost my libido for about 3years. Turns out it was the long term pain relief I was taking. Now I am off the pain relief I feel horny all the time "
From one extreme to the other |
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