I was busy raising my son and didn't want a trail of broken relationships in his childhood, did try dating but no one stood out enough to take to bed.

It took me a long time to realise you could have sex without the social norm of a relationship, son grew up and I found fab

Jill x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Around a decade

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you are talking years please tell me you've had other means of getting off?!

Surely you can't last more than a month without cumming!!

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I do not even remember. That’s how long it’s been been been been… oh look a echooo….

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By *hrek101Man over a year ago

Herts

17-25 years old so 7 years

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I took a year of celibacy once, including no masturbation. But I rarely have to go long without through any decisions outside my own.

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

A year. It was a conscious choice. Didn't feel like that big of a deal in all honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A year so far through choice just wanted a break from guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Around 4 years. I got too focused on work, realized i should i probably focus on enjoying life a bit more. Cut the hours down. Made some changes that i normally considered outside of my box.

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By *antric_lover77Woman over a year ago

south east

Too long. Weirdly after all the million messages I don't get desperate just more fussy lol

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By *antric_lover77Woman over a year ago

south east

"A year so far through choice just wanted a break from guys

I know that feeling. Takes special someone to change that lol

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By *antric_lover77Woman over a year ago

south east

" 17-25 years old so 7 years"

Still a virgin? Wow

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By *onny boy cMan over a year ago

chorlton

6 years

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By *outhman15Man over a year ago

southampton

Been so long i cant even remember just how long

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"Wanted to add a variation on a theme.

So I've got a friend who is currently having a dry spell, 4 months and counting.

so prey tell what is the longest you or a friend of yours (like myself) has gone without sex since you popped you're cherry. "
12 days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 6 months when I was younger. I was awful! Never again!

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

A good year or so very early 20s - then I woke up one day thought what an I doing, realised my standards were crazy, and had sex later that week with a tinder date

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By *issolvedOrdersMan over a year ago

Bristol

There have been several long dry spells, one was well over a year, but the less you have the less fussed about it you are and stop actively seeking it after a while

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"There have been several long dry spells, one was well over a year, but the less you have the less fussed about it you are and stop actively seeking it after a while "

This is very true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over 2 years.

4 months is nothing!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan over a year ago

Bristol

"Over 2 years.

4 months is nothing!

4 months seems like a weekly occurrence currently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The longest dry spell I've had is 2 years.

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By *hrek101Man over a year ago

Herts

" 17-25 years old so 7 years

Still a virgin? Wow"

Lol no, lost it at 16 with gf, then just 7 years of not even a date..

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By *heelyAceWoman over a year ago

newport pagnell

7 years.

I was married, he was not a nice person.

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By *ack688Man over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Almost three years through covid

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By *art123Man over a year ago

Stoke

2 years and counting

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By *eartsmanMan over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I was married 12 years, the last 5 years we didn't have sex. We then divorced, people always ask me why did you stay together for so long if you weren't intimate with eachother, simple answer was, I loved her and I thought we could work things out.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

13 years x

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