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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always been more attracted to older women and that was one of the main reasons I joined fab. Does anyone have some advice about connecting with slightly older/more mature women Or from a women’s point of view how to go about it. |
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First thing to do is build a decent profile with a good selection of pics followed by sending well thought out messages to profiles who's age range includes your own. None of this will guarantee a meet but it won't do you any harm either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you say older, what sort of age do you mean op? Ps I'm not throwing my hat into the ring Op just incase you wondered x"
Between 50-52. No I’d probably say late 30s and older |
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"When you say older, what sort of age do you mean op? Ps I'm not throwing my hat into the ring Op just incase you wondered x
Between 50-52. No I’d probably say late 30s and older"
 am I an older lady already?! I need a brandy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you say older, what sort of age do you mean op? Ps I'm not throwing my hat into the ring Op just incase you wondered x
Between 50-52. No I’d probably say late 30s and older
am I an older lady already?! I need a brandy!"
You’re not an “older lady” but you are a lady that’s older than me. It’s all relative i guess. |
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OP... calling women their 30s "older" is certainly not going to do you any favours, nor is calling more mature women cougars. Not all ladies willing to meet younger men want to be fetishised, which the cougar label can suggest.
Other than that, you need a better profile and good messages to the right ladies.
However, fab is not easy for single guys in general, especially younger ones.
The best option is probably to look for a cubs and cougars night at a club, or just go to a club as your age will be less of a barrier.
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You could stop thinking of them as different from other age groups and more as individuals and come to that you stop thinking that older women are all one type and so you could 'catch' one or all with the same line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could stop thinking of them as different from other age groups and more as individuals and come to that you stop thinking that older women are all one type and so you could 'catch' one or all with the same line."
Too early for sensible talk. |
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"You could stop thinking of them as different from other age groups and more as individuals and come to that you stop thinking that older women are all one type and so you could 'catch' one or all with the same line.
Too early for sensible talk. "
You are right.
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I would perhaps, stop referring to them as older women and cougars and just stick to women.
People want to be treated as individuals and valued as such, not a niche specific novelty item.
Good luck though. Maybe try hanging around the women's institute, sugar craft clubs, retirement communities? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would perhaps, stop referring to them as older women and cougars and just stick to women.
People want to be treated as individuals and valued as such, not a niche specific novelty item.
Well said
Good luck though. Maybe try hanging around the women's institute, sugar craft clubs, retirement communities?"
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