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"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.  "
Talk about dangling a carrott……. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy. "
What happened to you Meli? You used to be cool |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.
Talk about dangling a carrott……."
Ha! Not deliberately. Look, I talk quite openly about sex and things I adore on here. I'm just being... mindful for once and not going to write several paragraphs on why I like particular things and how sexy I find them. It's not so much about the pain for me it's more... different people bring out different responses in me. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.
What happened to you Meli? You used to be cool "
I know Brucey, I know.  |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions
As in...good reactions or...
Fun reactions  "
You know at a meet with consent and laughs (you'll be laughing let's face it) I'll be like, let me nibble your neck. And you'd let me right? |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
We both like it at different points.
"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy. "
Ahh sensory play.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We both like it at different points.
I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.
Ahh sensory play.
C"
Love sensory play. No, I mean I don't always see pain as pain if that makes sense? Just a different sensation, a more intense one. It helps that I have a high pain threshold. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions
As in...good reactions or...
Fun reactions
You know at a meet with consent and laughs (you'll be laughing let's face it) I'll be like, let me nibble your neck. And you'd let me right?"
Aww Brucey I'm sure you could nibble whatever you like |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions
As in...good reactions or...
Fun reactions
You know at a meet with consent and laughs (you'll be laughing let's face it) I'll be like, let me nibble your neck. And you'd let me right?
Aww Brucey I'm sure you could nibble whatever you like "
Aww. I know. Bring on your reaction |
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I enjoy pain in a variety of ways.
I enjoy the battle with my brain, I know I have a really high pain threshold (I didn't go into hospital even though I was severely ill and nearly died thinking I was ok, so it can be a right pain). But I enjoy the battle between my brain saying this is hurting and the actual reality where it doesn't as such. And as someone whose brain runs at a hundred miles per hour it's really really good grounding for me.
I enjoy the afterglow of pain that lasts into the following day. I enjoy the hypersensitivity of the skin following pain, the slightest touch is heightened so much.
And sometimes I just enjoy the primal aspect of it all.
So yeah I guess you could say I enjoy a bit of pain |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I enjoy pain in a variety of ways.
I enjoy the battle with my brain, I know I have a really high pain threshold (I didn't go into hospital even though I was severely ill and nearly died thinking I was ok, so it can be a right pain). But I enjoy the battle between my brain saying this is hurting and the actual reality where it doesn't as such. And as someone whose brain runs at a hundred miles per hour it's really really good grounding for me.
I enjoy the afterglow of pain that lasts into the following day. I enjoy the hypersensitivity of the skin following pain, the slightest touch is heightened so much.
And sometimes I just enjoy the primal aspect of it all.
So yeah I guess you could say I enjoy a bit of pain "
That's it Frida! Me too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work "
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is... |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is..."
Exactly. Especially as no one would ever believe I'd done anything  |
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is..."
Not roleplay as such but I can wind the other up knowing where it will end because I have an itch to scratch. We find it fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...
Not roleplay as such but I can wind the other up knowing where it will end because I have an itch to scratch. We find it fun "
Oh I don't see that as roleplay...that's just feeding if each others energy. I'm totally with that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...
Exactly. Especially as no one would ever believe I'd done anything "
Hahahahahaha |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is..."
Oh I don't know. Maybe people aren't confident enough to say yeah, I'd love for you to flog my breasts and spit in my face, calling me your slut as you do it. If it helps them feel comfortable enough to explore it, that's great. I'm not one for roleplay (bar one particular thing) but I get why people use it in relation to pain. |
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...
Not roleplay as such but I can wind the other up knowing where it will end because I have an itch to scratch. We find it fun
Oh I don't see that as roleplay...that's just feeding if each others energy. I'm totally with that..."
I think is a kind of roleplay. I wind him up acting all brattish. He then gives me a warning and if I don't quit it there will be consequences. I then decide to push the limits and then a scenario is laid out in front of us. Where I'm definitely a brat and he's the brat tamer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...
Oh I don't know. Maybe people aren't confident enough to say yeah, I'd love for you to flog my breasts and spit in my face, calling me your slut as you do it. If it helps them feel comfortable enough to explore it, that's great. I'm not one for roleplay (bar one particular thing) but I get why people use it in relation to pain."
I can see your point. If they need that then fair enough. But definitely not for me ... |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...
Oh I don't know. Maybe people aren't confident enough to say yeah, I'd love for you to flog my breasts and spit in my face, calling me your slut as you do it. If it helps them feel comfortable enough to explore it, that's great. I'm not one for roleplay (bar one particular thing) but I get why people use it in relation to pain."
See you say things like this and then I really want to have sex with you |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...
Oh I don't know. Maybe people aren't confident enough to say yeah, I'd love for you to flog my breasts and spit in my face, calling me your slut as you do it. If it helps them feel comfortable enough to explore it, that's great. I'm not one for roleplay (bar one particular thing) but I get why people use it in relation to pain.
See you say things like this and then I really want to have sex with you "
Oh Brucey. This is me being mindfully rather tame. :D |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.
Roleplay is far too much like hard work
Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...
Oh I don't know. Maybe people aren't confident enough to say yeah, I'd love for you to flog my breasts and spit in my face, calling me your slut as you do it. If it helps them feel comfortable enough to explore it, that's great. I'm not one for roleplay (bar one particular thing) but I get why people use it in relation to pain.
See you say things like this and then I really want to have sex with you
Oh Brucey. This is me being mindfully rather tame. :D"
I know! Imagine the scenes when I'm with you! Crazy! |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
"We both like it at different points.
I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.
Ahh sensory play.
C"
beat us too it sensory play can be so much fun get the vampire gloves out for a good tease and test. pin wheels nails sharps nipple clamps heighten the senses before hot wax coverage mmmmmmm |
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