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Am I classed as attractive!
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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago
Bristol |
Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?
Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same?  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.
To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.
Am I attracted personally? No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.
To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.
Am I attracted personally? No"
What he said. |
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Nah, I know I wasn't beaten too hard with the ugly stick 
I also know that nobody is attractive to everybody...I don't find every single person I come into contact with attractive, so why would I think that every person that lays eyes on me finds me attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?
Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same? "
sounds to me that you like to hear women say it to you or something like that! Bit of a strange question to ask at your age mate, because surely you know the answer to that at 41 years old? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab. "
Bruvvvvvv, you are fire  |
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"That's obviously it then. I honestly thought I had more recent uploads "
It doesn't really matter how recent your uploads are...some will find you attractive, some won't...its what makes the world go around...everyone likes different things |
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"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?
Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same? "
Unfortunately people will blow smoke up your arse and tell you they think you're gorgeous etc.... when in reality they are talking shit....and have no intention of meeting... and yes I know that sounds cynical but it's my experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?
Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same? "
Is what's gonna be said here gonna make any difference ? ..the question you're asking is on par with the player who said to another player " you played brilliant...How did l play ? "..tbh l don't think any guy ..of any age .. should be asking that kind of question..but hey ..each to their own . |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.
To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.
Am I attracted personally? No
What he said."
What they both said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.
To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.
Am I attracted personally? No
What he said.
What they both said"
Tart  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.
To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.
Am I attracted personally? No
What he said.
What they both said
Tart "
Now... normally I'd take that... but I was being so untarty!!
Bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's 5 people in the world who I care what they think of me.
My parents and my kids.
Ahem! I'm not calling you daddy 
6 then
Well fine  "
7 then
Fuck sake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab.
Bruvvvvvv, you are fire "
Takes one to know one brudda |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab.
Bruvvvvvv, you are fire
Takes one to know one brudda "
Ohhh touche  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab. "
That's rubbish pickle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your all beautiful people to me. In one way or another. Does I mean I want to naked wrestle with you. No. Does it mean I want to practise the sex with you. No. Does it mean.... i don't know what it means. But I'm sure you all have at least 1 attractive abbribtue.
Unless one of you is Vlmadimir Putin he can suck a cactus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your all beautiful people to me. In one way or another. Does I mean I want to naked wrestle with you. No. Does it mean I want to practise the sex with you. No. Does it mean.... i don't know what it means. But I'm sure you all have at least 1 attractive abbribtue.
Unless one of you is Vlmadimir Putin he can suck a cactus."
I apologise now the absolute boat of gibberish I've written above. You get the point.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?
Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same? "
Everyone has different variations on what they find Attractive (no matter how liberated). It's just the way it is and People "tastes" also change over time.
Newer Pics will help you find the ones who're attracted to You now!
Am I attractive? hell no, I'm just me |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Attractive is something different to everyone - you could be a 10 to someone and equally not on someone else’s scale at all - love the skin you’re in.
I find I am attracted to people with self confidence, who carry themselves well and have there own thing going on!
Those break the mold type of folks xx |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
You’ve got a great body, OP. So yes, you are attractive. I am personally attracted to men over 6’2” but it’s not a dealbreaker.
Would I be attracted to you? Visually yes, but I’d definitely need a conversation to define whether I am attracted *enough* to take things further.
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You’re a good looking guy but my immediate thought is wondering why you are asking…
If it’s a look at me thread then I’d have put more recent pics of yourself up…years old pics don’t show you now.
If it’s to genuinely ask, then you’ll get so many different answers you’d still wouldn’t know.
If it’s to get attention and start conversations then good luck 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having hardly changed physically from my early photos is probally why didnt I think I updated them. I guess newly updated is needed "
Fresh new Pics will always be preferred over years old (unless it's a good shot) |
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"Having hardly changed physically from my early photos is probally why didnt I think I updated them. I guess newly updated is needed "
From previous discussions that have happened in these forums, people might assume you've changed for the worse and are trying to hide it, if you don't update your pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could be one persons heaven and another’s hell. And why does it matter, as long as you like what you see when you look in the mirror it shouldn’t matter. But for the record, yes I’d say you are attractive, TO ME, I can only speak for myself. Your face in particular x (her) |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
Do I think I'm attractive? No.
Do other people think I'm attractive? Occasionally.
I've learned that my opinion of myself isn't necessarily the same as what others think & if I kept critiquing myself, I'd go mad!! I just consider myself as ordinary & that's absolutely fine with me |
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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Do I think I'm attractive? No.
Do other people think I'm attractive? Occasionally.
I've learned that my opinion of myself isn't necessarily the same as what others think & if I kept critiquing myself, I'd go mad!! I just consider myself as ordinary & that's absolutely fine with me "
Well said. Perhaps that's a perspective we should all take! |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"Do I think I'm attractive? No.
Do other people think I'm attractive? Occasionally.
I've learned that my opinion of myself isn't necessarily the same as what others think & if I kept critiquing myself, I'd go mad!! I just consider myself as ordinary & that's absolutely fine with me
Well said. Perhaps that's a perspective we should all take! "
I've got to an age where I don't give a shit about alot of stuff!! It's very liberating |
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