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I would like an ex that gave a shit about anything but himself for 2 reasons...
If might improve the relationship between him and his son instead of having to persuade him to spend some time with him once a week.
It might allow me to have a bit of time to myself. Not necessarily to meet but even to just have some me time x |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I would like an ex that gave a shit about anything but himself for 2 reasons...
If might improve the relationship between him and his son instead of having to persuade him to spend some time with him once a week.
It might allow me to have a bit of time to myself. Not necessarily to meet but even to just have some me time x "
I feel for you - it is so important to have a good relationship between father and son, also you havea need for at least a little bit of me time. xx |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"New job. My boss and I really dont see eye to eye after he asked me to spank him and I told him to eff off.
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Not enough discipline in this world  "
That should be made legal! |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The only thing i would change in my life right now is to move, i dont like where i live but besides that im quite happy with my life at the mo "
At least most of your needs are met - good for you!  |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A new job would be good... Heart not in mine anymore after being told I shouldn't have time off  "
That sounds a bit unreasonable on your employer's part? What was the reason given? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A community cafe... and those of use that have been told that we don't have a job.. to get a job.. "
Job is important, serious stuff when that is not the case. Sounds like management were not particularly sensitive to employees?
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"A community cafe... and those of use that have been told that we don't have a job.. to get a job.. Job is important, serious stuff when that is not the case. Sounds like management were not particularly sensitive to employees? "
No I meant we found out yesterday we no longer have jobs... |
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"A new job would be good... Heart not in mine anymore after being told I shouldn't have time off That sounds a bit unreasonable on your employer's part? What was the reason given?"
That illness shouldn't be a reason to be off sick (I am still getting over a virus and sinusitis) all because noone else knows my job x |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A community cafe... and those of use that have been told that we don't have a job.. to get a job.. Job is important, serious stuff when that is not the case. Sounds like management were not particularly sensitive to employees?
No I meant we found out yesterday we no longer have jobs... "
Holy sh.... what will you do in the immediate future? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A new job would be good... Heart not in mine anymore after being told I shouldn't have time off That sounds a bit unreasonable on your employer's part? What was the reason given?
That illness shouldn't be a reason to be off sick (I am still getting over a virus and sinusitis) all because noone else knows my job x"
That is not a reason to bring back a sick employee... bad management if nobody else has the ability to cover for you when on sick leave! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A new job would be good... Heart not in mine anymore after being told I shouldn't have time off That sounds a bit unreasonable on your employer's part? What was the reason given?
That illness shouldn't be a reason to be off sick (I am still getting over a virus and sinusitis) all because noone else knows my job xThat is not a reason to bring back a sick employee... bad management if nobody else has the ability to cover for you when on sick leave!"
And to top it off they looking at employing someone at our sister office as a neg on the same salary as me... Been there seven years and can do everyone's jobs!!!! Sorry for the rant x |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm actually really happy at the moment...a visit to NZ to see my son would be nice, but can't think of anything that I want to change right now "
Would love to be in your position (not necessarily going to NZ although that is on my list of things to do)... |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A new job would be good... Heart not in mine anymore after being told I shouldn't have time off That sounds a bit unreasonable on your employer's part? What was the reason given?
That illness shouldn't be a reason to be off sick (I am still getting over a virus and sinusitis) all because noone else knows my job xThat is not a reason to bring back a sick employee... bad management if nobody else has the ability to cover for you when on sick leave!
And to top it off they looking at employing someone at our sister office as a neg on the same salary as me... Been there seven years and can do everyone's jobs!!!! Sorry for the rant x"
Don't worry about a rant... that is sometimes the nice thing that people can spontaneously air their frustration and get support from their mates here. I can understand how frustrated you must feel, especially when not well. xx |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You know me Aphro, I am a really nice person and would deffo share   "
I know you are... question though! Would you share.. anything... I mean absolutely anything/ one with me?;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm actually really happy at the moment...a visit to NZ to see my son would be nice, but can't think of anything that I want to change right now Would love to be in your position (not necessarily going to NZ although that is on my list of things to do)..."
After a few terrible years, being happy and content has been a long time coming. It's a nice place to be |
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"I'm actually really happy at the moment...a visit to NZ to see my son would be nice, but can't think of anything that I want to change right now Would love to be in your position (not necessarily going to NZ although that is on my list of things to do)...
After a few terrible years, being happy and content has been a long time coming. It's a nice place to be "
That was a really nice post to read. it's always good to hear things are going well for someone.  |
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"I would like an ex that gave a shit about anything but himself for 2 reasons...
If might improve the relationship between him and his son instead of having to persuade him to spend some time with him once a week.
It might allow me to have a bit of time to myself. Not necessarily to meet but even to just have some me time x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im thinking job, my boss is a rite prick. i have it out with him most mornings in the mirror but he doesn't listen  "
This made me laugh, how could he not listen to you with a body like that
Chloe xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A fair and reasonable amount of child support!!
I know I will get slapped down but I find it really hard to understand how someone does not want to look after their offspring  "
Why would you get slapped down for making that coment?
Unfortunately, there are absent parents who disagree with you, although I dont know who I despise more him, or the government for allowing him to get away with it!
Sorry for ruining this light heartened post, feel like Ben Elton now! |
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"A fair and reasonable amount of child support!!
I know I will get slapped down but I find it really hard to understand how someone does not want to look after their offspring
Why would you get slapped down for making that coment?
Unfortunately, there are absent parents who disagree with you, although I dont know who I despise more him, or the government for allowing him to get away with it!
Sorry for ruining this light heartened post, feel like Ben Elton now!"
Well usually the standard answer is that the parent with care is bleeding the other one dry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a little luxury, an event, a meet, a new job etc ... which would change your life for the better right now? "
How about an end to all the horrible "ism's" we carry about in our daily lives ...just a thought, can you name your most despised ?? Top of my list to eradicate and always in our lives, Racism and sexism ...... both horrible |
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