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Contemplating sliding it into the wife now to wake her up
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Don't believe you are lying next to a woman at all, I think you are here for wank fodder.
Being woken up by anyone without an understanding of consent, all the NO
Talking about it with a stranger on fab , all the NO
Doing it with agreed consent beforehand. For me to know |
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over a year ago
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"Don't believe you are lying next to a woman at all, I think you are here for wank fodder.
Being woken up by anyone without an understanding of consent, all the NO
Talking about it with a stranger on fab , all the NO
Doing it with agreed consent beforehand. For me to know "
She said it best  |
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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago
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"Fucking hell I actually am. Was more of a do you women like being woken up to sex as I'm thinking of doing it to the wife..."
Tell her you are on here and tell her you are talking about fucking her on here, I dare you |
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"Fucking hell I actually am. Was more of a do you women like being woken up to sex as I'm thinking of doing it to the wife...
Tell her you are on here and tell her you are talking about fucking her on here, I dare you"
Yeh this  |
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"That's not an issue lol unless she said stop but hoping my cock will make her not "
JESUS!
Tell me that's not your understanding of consent?!
Why don't you just make her breakfast in bed instead? |
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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago
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"That's not an issue lol unless she said stop but hoping my cock will make her not
JESUS!
Tell me that's not your understanding of consent?!
Why don't you just make her breakfast in bed instead? "
He should do her a favour and pack a case and leave |
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"Actually looking at my bed now thinking about sliding it in the pillow  tragic.
Out!!!"
Pillow chat? We could talk about the sexy pillows we're lying next to? I'll even send you photos if you get me going.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any guy did this to me I'd snap it off.
Noted.
Make me a coffee first
I'd make you a coffee & a full breakfast for morning sex with you   "
No bacon, extra hash browns  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually looking at my bed now thinking about sliding it in the pillow tragic.
Out!!!
Pillow chat? We could talk about the sexy pillows we're lying next to? I'll even send you photos if you get me going. "
Even the pillow mugged me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any guy did this to me I'd snap it off.
Noted.
Make me a coffee first
I'd make you a coffee & a full breakfast for morning sex with you
No bacon, extra hash browns "
Deal but don't want you being too full..... |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!"
Exactly, spot on ! Seems like it's one rule for them and one rule for us. |
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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago
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"What do we think and do you women like that... She asleep next to me do I fuck her as a morning wake up??
Are you not worried she might wake up and catch you on Fab ?"
If there is a god, that's another subject, please please please |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!"
Blanket consent is what I would use with trusted partners but I've also had phases like just after I had kids where I did not want to be touched. I communicated each of those clearly though |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!
Blanket consent is what I would use with trusted partners but I've also had phases like just after I had kids where I did not want to be touched. I communicated each of those clearly though "
Always have an excuse |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!"
Are you sure you *get* all the consent posts? He's literally talking about fucking someone and hoping it turns out she's into it.
Don't get me wrong - we're on FL and have our kinks and agreements. Yet, he's on fab without her knowing and has even apparently been to clubs, apparently without her knowing. Do you really think she shares his wank-fodder fantasy of disturbed sleep? |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!
Are you sure you *get* all the consent posts? He's literally talking about fucking someone and hoping it turns out she's into it.
Don't get me wrong - we're on FL and have our kinks and agreements. Yet, he's on fab without her knowing and has even apparently been to clubs, apparently without her knowing. Do you really think she shares his wank-fodder fantasy of disturbed sleep? "
How do you know she doesn't? |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!
Are you sure you *get* all the consent posts? He's literally talking about fucking someone and hoping it turns out she's into it.
Don't get me wrong - we're on FL and have our kinks and agreements. Yet, he's on fab without her knowing and has even apparently been to clubs, apparently without her knowing. Do you really think she shares his wank-fodder fantasy of disturbed sleep? "
You didn't answer my question lol! |
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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!
Are you sure you *get* all the consent posts? He's literally talking about fucking someone and hoping it turns out she's into it.
Don't get me wrong - we're on FL and have our kinks and agreements. Yet, he's on fab without her knowing and has even apparently been to clubs, apparently without her knowing. Do you really think she shares his wank-fodder fantasy of disturbed sleep?
How do you know she doesn't?"
Read his profile. |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!
Are you sure you *get* all the consent posts? He's literally talking about fucking someone and hoping it turns out she's into it.
Don't get me wrong - we're on FL and have our kinks and agreements. Yet, he's on fab without her knowing and has even apparently been to clubs, apparently without her knowing. Do you really think she shares his wank-fodder fantasy of disturbed sleep?
How do you know she doesn't?"
Doesn't what? |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!
Blanket consent is what I would use with trusted partners but I've also had phases like just after I had kids where I did not want to be touched. I communicated each of those clearly though "
Spot on! |
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!
Are you sure you *get* all the consent posts? He's literally talking about fucking someone and hoping it turns out she's into it.
Don't get me wrong - we're on FL and have our kinks and agreements. Yet, he's on fab without her knowing and has even apparently been to clubs, apparently without her knowing. Do you really think she shares his wank-fodder fantasy of disturbed sleep?
How do you know she doesn't?
Doesn't what?"
"Do you really think she shares his wank-fodder fantasy of disturbed sleep?" |
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"There is no wife lol
The profile name is married_wondering_eye
He's wondering if he can slip it in his wife"
I don't believe he is next to a woman right now I think he cane on here for a wank about a hypothetical situation |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp  |
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp "
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the male Karens moaning about the sensible people talking about consent… in a relationship things like this will be discussed and agreed on. If the op and his imaginary wife have previously agreed that she has given consent to be woken up by sex then by all means crack on. If not, don’t. And consent isn’t a gender issue btw, it’s a blanket thing. Women who wake their fella up with a bj should have had the same conversation previously.
The people joking about consent need to give their heads a wobble, sexual assault isn’t a good subject to take lightly |
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it "
Why on healthy marriages?  |
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it
Why on healthy marriages? "
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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago
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"All the male Karens moaning about the sensible people talking about consent… in a relationship things like this will be discussed and agreed on. If the op and his imaginary wife have previously agreed that she has given consent to be woken up by sex then by all means crack on. If not, don’t. And consent isn’t a gender issue btw, it’s a blanket thing. Women who wake their fella up with a bj should have had the same conversation previously.
The people joking about consent need to give their heads a wobble, sexual assault isn’t a good subject to take lightly "
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it "
How do you know all that just from his brief opening post? Nobody knows what goes on inside anyone else's marriage. If it was a woman posting the same thing about a guy asleep everyone including the white knights would be saying how hot it was. |
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it
How do you know all that just from his brief opening post? Nobody knows what goes on inside anyone else's marriage. If it was a woman posting the same thing about a guy asleep everyone including the white knights would be saying how hot it was. "
Thank you ! Thank you ! |
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it
How do you know all that just from his brief opening post? Nobody knows what goes on inside anyone else's marriage. If it was a woman posting the same thing about a guy asleep everyone including the white knights would be saying how hot it was. "
This |
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"How do you know all that just from his brief opening post? Nobody knows what goes on inside anyone else's marriage. If it was a woman posting the same thing about a guy asleep everyone including the white knights would be saying how hot it was. "
Deductive reasoning.
I can see your point though. Probably best just to presume she's into it. If she's not, she can always say. Right? |
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I'm sure most couples have done similar to eachother over the years & most would have discussed it as something that turns them on as some couples have agreed with this already.
I for one found morning sex so hot & can't remember who started it on most occasions but it certainly wasn't me on every occasion! |
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"I'm sure most couples have done similar to eachother over the years & most would have discussed it as something that turns them on as some couples have agreed with this already.
I for one found morning sex so hot & can't remember who started it on most occasions but it certainly wasn't me on every occasion! "
Funnily enough the only person I said no to was my husband! It was a toxic relationship.
But now I'm having healthy connections I give blanket consent to those people and they to me. Love morning anything |
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"I'm sure most couples have done similar to eachother over the years & most would have discussed it as something that turns them on as some couples have agreed with this already.
I for one found morning sex so hot & can't remember who started it on most occasions but it certainly wasn't me on every occasion!
Funnily enough the only person I said no to was my husband! It was a toxic relationship.
But now I'm having healthy connections I give blanket consent to those people and they to me. Love morning anything "
Love this |
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"I'm sure most couples have done similar to eachother over the years & most would have discussed it as something that turns them on as some couples have agreed with this already.
I for one found morning sex so hot & can't remember who started it on most occasions but it certainly wasn't me on every occasion!
Funnily enough the only person I said no to was my husband! It was a toxic relationship.
But now I'm having healthy connections I give blanket consent to those people and they to me. Love morning anything
Love this "
Could I send you a DM ? No ulterior motives just a chat x |
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"I'm sure most couples have done similar to eachother over the years & most would have discussed it as something that turns them on as some couples have agreed with this already.
I for one found morning sex so hot & can't remember who started it on most occasions but it certainly wasn't me on every occasion!
Funnily enough the only person I said no to was my husband! It was a toxic relationship.
But now I'm having healthy connections I give blanket consent to those people and they to me. Love morning anything
Love this
Could I send you a DM ? No ulterior motives just a chat x"
Of course |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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What a thread.
Op, let's say you've got a wife and you've discussed it before. Crack on and don't waste your time on here.
I really enjoy it. Love the feeling. I'm not going to wax lyrically on it because the tone of the thread is saying don't but yes. It can be really hot. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"The tone of the OP just sounded creepy. If he had said my wife loves being woken up with a cock inside her, would have been completely different.
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Oh I can understand that! I think he's just really horny and typing with his little brain. Not really thinking about how it reads. |
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Obviously if you don’t know the person very well then that’s a conversation that needs to happen before hand.
Theirs always a lot of assumptions made on posts like this .
Theirs nothing nicer then waking up in this way I love it and my husband definitely has no complaints.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's your wife so only you could make that decision.
I have done things like this in the past with partners but it's something that we had already discussed. |
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over a year ago
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Gotta love Fab
Single Male : wake up sex for the wife
Fab: Raaaaaaaaapppppppeeeeeee!
Single Female : wake up BJ for the hubby
Fab : that’s SO hot! What a lucky man!!
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"Gotta love Fab
Single Male : wake up sex for the wife
Fab: Raaaaaaaaapppppppeeeeeee!
Single Female : wake up BJ for the hubby
Fab : that’s SO hot! What a lucky man!!
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Completely agree with this. That is exactly how it goes on fab.
However he did not ask if he should wake her he asked if he should fuck his sleeping wife with no context.
I've said a few times the OP sounds creepy as fuck not because men, because he made it sound non consensual in his OP. Then when asked about context responded with another creepy reply
Had he said, my wife loves being woken up with a cock in her pussy that would have sounded hot.
Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better
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"...I've said a few times the OP sounds creepy as fuck not because men, because he made it sound non consensual in his OP. Then when asked about context responded with another creepy reply
Had he said, my wife loves being woken up with a cock in her pussy that would have sounded hot.
Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better
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You cannot harangue a person on what they •haven't• said. It's open to interpretation. And yes I totally get the consensual inference, I really do. As long as everything is above board then it's all good. 
However - and I'm very sorry - but you need to redact your personal remark "OP sounds creepy as fuck" because it's tantamount to 'naming and shaming' and we don't need to discredit anyone on here.
""Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better"" — That's more plausible and I agree.  |
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I think it comes across distastefully because the op is getting himself horny on fab ,whilst in bed with a wife who has no idea .It's a bit like if you're getting sex at home ,why are you on fab looking to cheat.
I'd feel the same of a woman was doing the same then posting it on here too.
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If its spoken about and consented to prior. Fair enough. But literally it'd have to be the night before.
"Hey babe, how do you feel about me waking you up tomorrow with sex?"
Consent can be given in a second and removed the next. What she said a hour ago could be very different now. Only you know your partner and if that's something you've discussed fair enough. If it isn't I'd try waking her up with kisses and see how she reacts. Your on very very dodgy territory. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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That was something I wish my husband had done now and then.
Alas, he was a quick blow job before he fell asleep, or a suck, fumble and 10 minute missionary fuck before he fell asleep.
I love it when a man touches me while I sleep to arouse me.
If I wasn't feeling it I'd say no and we'd go back to sleep.
I don't usually say no though |
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"What do we think and do you women like that... She asleep next to me do I fuck her as a morning wake up??"
Why don’t you ask your wife if she likes this method of being woken up? She might be able to clear the matter up for you.
No point asking us. A lot of people seem to find it creepy behaviour, or worse. But it’s between you and your wife. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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After reading some of the comments on the thread I'm thinking a lot of people haven't been married.
Or maybe my marriage was different, but we never asked for consent. We'd make a move and get a response or get told not tonight Josephine.
I dunno. Maybe I'm old.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it
How do you know all that just from his brief opening post? Nobody knows what goes on inside anyone else's marriage. If it was a woman posting the same thing about a guy asleep everyone including the white knights would be saying how hot it was. "
While I've not posted in this for or against. Though consent is always the key. I agree that nobody knows the Ops dynamic of the relationship (or if it is real at all)
Believe me I would still call that woman out for giving the bj without consent.
Fuck that white knight shit, plenty of examples of calling women out on their behaviour for things on here, by many including myself. |
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"...I've said a few times the OP sounds creepy as fuck not because men, because he made it sound non consensual in his OP. Then when asked about context responded with another creepy reply
Had he said, my wife loves being woken up with a cock in her pussy that would have sounded hot.
Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better
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You cannot harangue a person on what they •haven't• said. It's open to interpretation. And yes I totally get the consensual inference, I really do. As long as everything is above board then it's all good.
However - and I'm very sorry - but you need to redact your personal remark "OP sounds creepy as fuck" because it's tantamount to 'naming and shaming' and we don't need to discredit anyone on here.
""Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better"" — That's more plausible and I agree. "
The original post IS creepy come on ? I stand by that remark |
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"After reading some of the comments on the thread I'm thinking a lot of people haven't been married.
Or maybe my marriage was different, but we never asked for consent. We'd make a move and get a response or get told not tonight Josephine.
I dunno. Maybe I'm old.
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I was married 15 years and it was the only relationship I actually hated being woken for sex. I communicated that. Mainly due to kids but slso it was a shit toxic marriage
In my previous relationships I have given consent
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"...I've said a few times the OP sounds creepy as fuck not because men, because he made it sound non consensual in his OP. Then when asked about context responded with another creepy reply
Had he said, my wife loves being woken up with a cock in her pussy that would have sounded hot.
Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better
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You cannot harangue a person on what they •haven't• said. It's open to interpretation. And yes I totally get the consensual inference, I really do. As long as everything is above board then it's all good.
However - and I'm very sorry - but you need to redact your personal remark "OP sounds creepy as fuck" because it's tantamount to 'naming and shaming' and we don't need to discredit anyone on here.
""Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better"" — That's more plausible and I agree.
The original post IS creepy come on ? I stand by that remark "
OP as in original poster or original post?
The post itself has creepy vibes I can understand that. The poster though... Eh, a bit short to go on really to be personal about. |
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"I love slipping inside mrs cherry when shes asleep and sometimes i wake up to her giving me a bj. Obviously we do full written consent the night before, witnessed and signed in triplicate. We lodge it with our solicitors for safe keeping sealed with a wax stamp
No one is saying that.
The OP made it sound like he had never tried it before, that he was hoping for the best it just sounded gross
Within healthy marriages where people actually communicate of course blanket consent is a thing. I do that.
It's really not the sane thing is it
How do you know all that just from his brief opening post? Nobody knows what goes on inside anyone else's marriage. If it was a woman posting the same thing about a guy asleep everyone including the white knights would be saying how hot it was.
While I've not posted in this for or against. Though consent is always the key. I agree that nobody knows the Ops dynamic of the relationship (or if it is real at all)
Believe me I would still call that woman out for giving the bj without consent.
Fuck that white knight shit, plenty of examples of calling women out on their behaviour for things on here, by many including myself. "
Yeh I've called out creepy behaviour on here by women too. And in clubs. |
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"...I've said a few times the OP sounds creepy as fuck not because men, because he made it sound non consensual in his OP. Then when asked about context responded with another creepy reply
Had he said, my wife loves being woken up with a cock in her pussy that would have sounded hot.
Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better
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You cannot harangue a person on what they •haven't• said. It's open to interpretation. And yes I totally get the consensual inference, I really do. As long as everything is above board then it's all good.
However - and I'm very sorry - but you need to redact your personal remark "OP sounds creepy as fuck" because it's tantamount to 'naming and shaming' and we don't need to discredit anyone on here.
""Had a woman started this thread would have probably been worded better"" — That's more plausible and I agree.
The original post IS creepy come on ? I stand by that remark
OP as in original poster or original post?
The post itself has creepy vibes I can understand that. The poster though... Eh, a bit short to go on really to be personal about. "
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I've said a few times the OP sounds creepy as fuck not because men, because he made it sound non consensual in his OP. Then when asked about context responded with another creepy reply
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He made it sound non consensual in HIS OP
Creepy reply
I meant his post was creepy sorry I shouldn't have used abbreviation
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"The tone of the OP just sounded creepy. If he had said my wife loves being woken up with a cock inside her, would have been completely different.
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The tone used is creepy
Right I've caused enough "karening" for one day I need to stop arguing on the Internet now and pack car for swingathon!  |
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"All the male Karens moaning about the sensible people talking about consent… in a relationship things like this will be discussed and agreed on. If the op and his imaginary wife have previously agreed that she has given consent to be woken up by sex then by all means crack on. If not, don’t. And consent isn’t a gender issue btw, it’s a blanket thing. Women who wake their fella up with a bj should have had the same conversation previously.
The people joking about consent need to give their heads a wobble, sexual assault isn’t a good subject to take lightly "
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I get all the consent posts but don't tell me none of you have woken hub/bf etc up with a BJ?!
I'm sure you didn't get consent first- I love being woken up like that!"
Yes I have but it has always been with consent in place beforehand... (Such as the blanket consent myself and my boyfriend have over certain things...)
Consent is key and communication is sexy people;
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"After reading some of the comments on the thread I'm thinking a lot of people haven't been married.
Or maybe my marriage was different, but we never asked for consent. We'd make a move and get a response or get told not tonight Josephine.
I dunno. Maybe I'm old.
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I’m thinking this too. Or maybe unsuccessful marriages for whatever reason. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"After reading some of the comments on the thread I'm thinking a lot of people haven't been married.
Or maybe my marriage was different, but we never asked for consent. We'd make a move and get a response or get told not tonight Josephine.
I dunno. Maybe I'm old.
I’m thinking this too. Or maybe unsuccessful marriages for whatever reason."
You implied a question with your actions... And then were given a yes or a no...
You might not have used the exact words of "do you consent to sex tonight" (related, there are much sexier ways to ask for consent) but you responded to a positive or a negative. That's asking for and receiving (or not) consent. |
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"After reading some of the comments on the thread I'm thinking a lot of people haven't been married.
Or maybe my marriage was different, but we never asked for consent. We'd make a move and get a response or get told not tonight Josephine.
I dunno. Maybe I'm old.
I’m thinking this too. Or maybe unsuccessful marriages for whatever reason.
You implied a question with your actions... And then were given a yes or a no...
You might not have used the exact words of "do you consent to sex tonight" (related, there are much sexier ways to ask for consent) but you responded to a positive or a negative. That's asking for and receiving (or not) consent. "
Bit easier to gauge consent levels if the person is awake … |
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"What do we think and do you women like that... She asleep next to me do I fuck her as a morning wake up??"
Sounds hot, I m i… wait, this line doesn’t work here does it? |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
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I would never ever dream of this during the week, Mrs Marchel works stupid hours so it would be thoughtless and selfish of me, plus I'm more likely to be wearing claret all over my face in a matter of seconds if I tried.
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It's a different story at the weekend, when she's rested and had a good night sleep then some sensual stroking will tell me if she is in to it. She does enjoy morning sex, but if there is no reaction from her then I leave it and knock one out instead. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Consent is always a tricky subject between consenting adults…..I mean if you pull your knickers down , bend over , spread your but cheeks and say come here daddy and look in my bum hole , and he misheard look as fuck, and he did and he had a small cock and you didn’t feel it touch the sides of your anus (you just thought he was having a good look) but then you noticed spunk dribbling down your thighs and screamed help I’m being analy r*ped by a mad man in a clown costume .
What’s happened here? is this a crime or a genuine mistake ? If it didn’t touch the sides does it count ? who’s to blame , who would judge Judy believe ? |
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I’m not even going to bother reading this thread. It’ll, mostly, be comments about consent as if you’re spending the first night with a woman and don’t have the mindfulness to not even contemplate it without having already discussed it.
It should go without saying that you posted this because you’re married and know each other’s reactions and consent well enough to consider this.
Unfortunately, people like to overthink sometimes.
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"I’m not even going to bother reading this thread. It’ll, mostly, be comments about consent as if you’re spending the first night with a woman and don’t have the mindfulness to not even contemplate it without having already discussed it.
It should go without saying that you posted this because you’re married and know each other’s reactions and consent well enough to consider this.
Unfortunately, people like to overthink sometimes.
Miles"
Exactly my thoughts! Having been married in past this has happened And with long term partner! We called it being woken up with a surprise! X |
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"What do we think and do you women like that... She asleep next to me do I fuck her as a morning wake up??"
My ex wife used to wank and suck me in my sleep with full consent. I used to fuck her in her sleep with consent to. Awesomeness  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"After reading some of the comments on the thread I'm thinking a lot of people haven't been married.
Or maybe my marriage was different, but we never asked for consent. We'd make a move and get a response or get told not tonight Josephine.
I dunno. Maybe I'm old.
I’m thinking this too. Or maybe unsuccessful marriages for whatever reason.
You implied a question with your actions... And then were given a yes or a no...
You might not have used the exact words of "do you consent to sex tonight" (related, there are much sexier ways to ask for consent) but you responded to a positive or a negative. That's asking for and receiving (or not) consent.
Bit easier to gauge consent levels if the person is awake … "
Oh yeah completely and someone doing that without prior consent...
It is the bad R word we are not allowed to say, that rhymes with drape.
I've not denied that... But what I was replying to was a tangent from the OP admittedly.
There is some strange assumption that talking about consent means you have to physically ask 'do you consent to me doing this'... Nothing happens in either of my relationships that isn't consenting, and we are constantly affirming that consent is in place... It's really not that hard, or complicated to check that the person you're with is down to continue...
Asking 'is that ok', 'can i?', even a cheeky stopping and with a grin asking 'shall I continue'... They are all little continual ways to check consent. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not even going to bother reading this thread. It’ll, mostly, be comments about consent as if you’re spending the first night with a woman and don’t have the mindfulness to not even contemplate it without having already discussed it.
It should go without saying that you posted this because you’re married and know each other’s reactions and consent well enough to consider this.
Unfortunately, people like to overthink sometimes.
Miles"
You say that but I know more than one person who has woken up with a partner forcing themselves onto them, there was no consent in place, nothing had been discussed.
Consent is king, it should be the first thing mentioned in threads like this and it needs to keep getting talked about until everyone realises it - because lots of people still don't.
Communication is sexy people - or at least it is if you do it right! |
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