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To cuck or not to cuck that is the question;)
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By *aysean OP Man
over a year ago
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Recently me and my partner have been exploring our sexual fantasies, talking openly about her wish to be my pros-ti-tute(and potentially with more men) and my desire for her to be fucked by a black man or even 2 black men. We have both been getting off on this so far, but agreed it's best kept as a fantasy only. Although a big part of me and I think a smaller part of her would like to make this a reality. What's the advice from you guys reading? We have a loving relationship as we are but is exploring this further not worth it, I have had previous experiences within the lifestyle and cuckolding although I was on the other side of the equation as a single guy, she has zero experience and is generally pretty conservative! Thanks in Advance |
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over a year ago
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Just take it steady, keep talking and both only do something when you’re both in agreement it’s something you want to do.
Any coercion or forcing people down a path they don’t *really* want to go down is not the way.
Sometimes fantasies are best left as that : fantasies.
But on the other hand unless you overcome your nerves and take that first step you’ll never know if it’s for you or not  |
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"Just take it steady, keep talking and both only do something when you’re both in agreement it’s something you want to do.
Any coercion or forcing people down a path they don’t *really* want to go down is not the way.
Sometimes fantasies are best left as that : fantasies.
But on the other hand unless you overcome your nerves and take that first step you’ll never know if it’s for you or not "
Yeah this is good advice, slowly slowly, no getting ahead of yourselves. Some of those fantasies are quite hardcore and sound like they could end in disaster, perhaps just dip your toes first  |
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By *aysean OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice all, makes sense and as you said some things are best left as fantasies,but then again we have opened the door a little here so we shall see what happens next, for now the open talk is proving useful at the very least plus I'd never told her about that particular fantasy before so in some way it feels cathartic. |
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By *aysean OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just take it steady, keep talking and both only do something when you’re both in agreement it’s something you want to do.
Any coercion or forcing people down a path they don’t *really* want to go down is not the way.
Sometimes fantasies are best left as that : fantasies.
But on the other hand unless you overcome your nerves and take that first step you’ll never know if it’s for you or not
Yeah this is good advice, slowly slowly, no getting ahead of yourselves. Some of those fantasies are quite hardcore and sound like they could end in disaster, perhaps just dip your toes first "
Yes! We're dipping the toes in and it's been fun at least, she certainly surprised me with her enthusiasm to role play these scenarios. But we're playing with fire a little bit for sure so thanks for the advice. |
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We first talked about another man in 2008. We kept talking and met a guy in 2010. The experience was so good, she went back on her own and still does. We met another guy in 2011 with the same result. She met another guy in 2014 and spends weekends with him, still. She is still with me and we love each other dearly.
Everything has been done in small steps after a good deal of talking. It is great fun when handled correctly. It works for us, but be careful. |
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By *aysean OP Man
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"We first talked about another man in 2008. We kept talking and met a guy in 2010. The experience was so good, she went back on her own and still does. We met another guy in 2011 with the same result. She met another guy in 2014 and spends weekends with him, still. She is still with me and we love each other dearly.
Everything has been done in small steps after a good deal of talking. It is great fun when handled correctly. It works for us, but be careful."
Interesting thanks for your insight and advice much appreciated! I do agree small steps and in time perhaps we can move forward and explore these fantasies, and then again maybe not, we do love each other alot so that's the priority so we'll take care 100% before committing to any potential ideas. |
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