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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you flirt?
Are you more comfortable on or offline?
I struggle to flirt when messaging I become almost robotic especially when it comes to paying compliments to anyone other than F! Where as in real life I'm quite charismatic and flirtatious, I don't understand why messaging is harder for me!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.
In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't know how I flirt. Poorly? In a dorky fashion? I still think I'm not particularly flirty.
In person I'm possibly a bit better as I'm more tactile. Smile a lot more. I kind of bounce off someone else's energy - if they're flirty with me I'm more likely to respond in kind - it's far easier to read that in person. |
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When I have the energy I'm very playful and joke a lot. I guess this is flirting. But if I really fancy someone I get butterflies in my stomach while doing it. And I'm equally good in text or in person. I enjoy it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know how I flirt. Poorly? In a dorky fashion? I still think I'm not particularly flirty.
In person I'm possibly a bit better as I'm more tactile. Smile a lot more. I kind of bounce off someone else's energy - if they're flirty with me I'm more likely to respond in kind - it's far easier to read that in person."
Listening to your voice would definitely work in person x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a natural flirt. Catching eyes. Suggestive smiles. Looking from head to toe. And then confident in conversation.
Can you show me how it's done please  I'm crap at flirting lol"
If I'm ever in Southampton I'll show you  |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.
In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap"
This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think alot of it comes down to confidence.
Without sounding like an arrogant prick. I'm confident in my ability to deal with most situations. And that confidence comes across in my personality.
Again. I don't want to sound arrogant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.
In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap
This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life."
Hey sexy I love you. How did I do? |
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"I'm a natural flirt. Catching eyes. Suggestive smiles. Looking from head to toe. And then confident in conversation.
Can you show me how it's done please I'm crap at flirting lol
If I'm ever in Southampton I'll show you "
Oh please do |
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We sit behind a façade when it comes to Fab messaging, which can be a little easier than flirting in real life.
I'm not really sure how I flirt overall - am I too obvious or bumbling awkwardly like a lovestruck teenager or perhaps comfortably confident and assured? I do flirt, that much is true, if the dialogue is seductive and engaging - it almost becomes instinctive.
It also depends on the environment: in a busy pub I find the environment less conducive to flirting. In a hotel lounge/cocktail bar the ambience brings out my coquettish demeanour. |
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I'm pretty good at flirting in 'real life' but it doesn't compare to my flirtiness in messages.
I have a superpower in flirty messages/fantasy erotic text. I love it.
The question is when to flip from the probing and 'sparring' of early messages of relative innocence to flirting to filth.
Knowing that is the key. Some women like it, some don't and I guess I haven't got that right all the time.
And before you say it...it's actually that I play it too safe at the beginning. |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.
In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap
This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life.
Hey sexy I love you. How did I do? "
Subtle as a sledgehammer pretty much like me when I try to flirt in real life! |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
"How do you flirt?
Are you more comfortable on or offline?
I struggle to flirt when messaging I become almost robotic especially when it comes to paying compliments to anyone other than F! Where as in real life I'm quite charismatic and flirtatious, I don't understand why messaging is harder for me!?"
In person best...
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"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.
In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap
This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life.
Hey sexy I love you. How did I do?
Subtle as a sledgehammer pretty much like me when I try to flirt in real life! "
Sledgehammer is fine by me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tho k it depends. I can flirt with only those I can see being receptive to it. I can sense when done aren’t interested, or bc will take it as bad form.
I like flirty people, I get along with them well. |
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I'm shit both online and in person, probably slightly better in person because I can at least smile.
But yeah think more socially awkward & quiet with the odd smile and hope you get the hint is probably me.
I'm equally as bad at knowing anyone is flirting with me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely online. We're all behind a screen so we know it's playful and due to distance, it's unlikely we'd meet.
In person, I'd be way too scared that the feelings aren't reciprocal so don't want to make a tit out of myself although I know it'll stop things going further if I don't take the leap
This is the same for me, I am way more flirty on here than I am in real life.
Hey sexy I love you. How did I do?
Subtle as a sledgehammer pretty much like me when I try to flirt in real life! "
We’re a match made in heaven then. We should get married and make the sex until we ache a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.
So that's what that is...  
Oh please, you're hooked. "
I’m not hooked. I’m the wh00k32r 
…wait… |
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I'm better online but at the same time I flirt differently in person.
It's somewhat the same but I use eye contact and little smiles too.
Plus behind a screen I have the added bonus of that person not being able to see me going bright red 
Em x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I like you, it's easy. If I don't, I don't flirt. Unless I've had wine.
Give it to me baby
I so would.
I got a thrill from that "
I'm not sure if I like seeing Lilith flirt, it's like looking at the sun, I know it's bad for my eyes but I can't seem to stop |
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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago
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Online. Far more of an open environment, the anonymity offers up the 'ideal' you. In real life, there's the physical, the instant reaction as to whether you find another attractive.
No lies though, in either setting. Games are fun, mind games aren't. |
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I love a good bit of flanter... Flirty banter!
I sometimes have to rein myself in when I recognise I'm going too far or being too inappropriate... Although I've got some good girlfriends who give as good as they get |
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