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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many men/drinks/orgasms does it take to get over someone.... asking for a friend   .•°°•°"
14 men
62 drinks
726 orgasms
Please spread the above out over a period of at least 6 months |
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"How many men/drinks/orgasms does it take to get over someone.... asking for a friend .•°°•°"
Honestly.
Zero.
I have to process and understand. Questions irritate piss out of me.
Answers I can deal with.
All the best though, you do you.
Maybe a few others too.
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By *KloganMan
over a year ago
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Here’s some positive vibes that worked for me… focus on yourself, take the time to do the things you want to do and tell yourself everyday in the mirror that you’re over it…
Heart, body & soul….
Apologies for the patronising waffle.. x |
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By *KloganMan
over a year ago
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"How many men/drinks/orgasms does it take to get over someone.... asking for a friend .•°°•°
14 men
62 drinks
726 orgasms
Please spread the above out over a period of at least 6 months "
Or this… this would work.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many men/drinks/orgasms does it take to get over someone.... asking for a friend .•°°•°"
0, it doesnt matter how many, it stays with you. But the question is, did that person bring out the best in you? Were you the most important person to them....tell your friend that xx |
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"How many men/drinks/orgasms does it take to get over someone.... asking for a friend .•°°•°
14 men
62 drinks
726 orgasms
Please spread the above out over a period of at least 6 months "
Six weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in a similar position at a similar age. It took about 3 years of working on myself and realising that I didn’t want or need a relationship to be happy and about a week later the woman I ended up marrying walked into my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I read somewhere once it takes two years.
After my first boyfriend it took me two years to actually want another man's company and not be angry and man hating.
After the second.... completely different. I joined fab after about a year. I knew any man hatred wouldn't last anyway.
Besides that....it hurts, you have to learn to let go of the questions you won't get answers too, and god that part is a Bitch. Swallow the truth of it all and realise you have to move on for your sanity and happiness.
And know that being single for a good length of time is actually amazing for your own personal growth. I truly think that people who aren't single for long periods of time struggle more in certain ways.
Unless of course you lost someone because they passed away....that I couldn't even comment on. That's entirely different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alexa, what is (insert exes name carrot coffee bean 100 in welsh)
You'll thank me later!!
Xx"
I don't even have to do this to know what happens .
OP do it!! |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"How many men/drinks/orgasms does it take to get over someone.... asking for a friend .•°°•°"
You have two choices ... sit and dwell on it and prolong the bad feelings you have making your life and state of mind worse or fuck the whole lot of it off and crack on with your life .. pain is a part of life it makes you who you are .. push past it what is out of your control is not worth worrying about life is a short experience make it count .. have a great day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many men/drinks/orgasms does it take to get over someone.... asking for a friend .•°°•°"
I thought this was going to be a joke?
*waits for a classic punchline. |
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I’m not the ideal person to answer this as I’m stone cold heartless. I’m very much shrug & move on.
But the amount of drinks is zero. Drinking at this time is only permitted in the presence of girl pals who will rub your back, hold your hair & tell you you’re pretty
The amount of men? Men are not the answer, very often the question and also a good part of the working out - but not the answer
Self love is the way to go.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"None of things will help you get over someone.
Realising they don't care about you will."
Truth.
It takes a while, OP. Just take your time and be good to yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read somewhere once it takes two years.
After my first boyfriend it took me two years to actually want another man's company and not be angry and man hating.
After the second.... completely different. I joined fab after about a year. I knew any man hatred wouldn't last anyway.
Besides that....it hurts, you have to learn to let go of the questions you won't get answers too, and god that part is a Bitch. Swallow the truth of it all and realise you have to move on for your sanity and happiness.
And know that being single for a good length of time is actually amazing for your own personal growth. I truly think that people who aren't single for long periods of time struggle more in certain ways.
Unless of course you lost someone because they passed away....that I couldn't even comment on. That's entirely different."
Really beautifully put by petite.
As a 51yr old, who's been there, many times, I can absolutely promise Op you (your friend) will be ok. It will slowly dull to just sitting in the background of your thoughts and heart. Having fun, and new experiences stops you from over thinking, and letting the memories consume you!
Then the next one that hurts you, doesn't sting quite as bad, and you get over them just a little quicker! Sending you (your friend hugs) PM if you want to xxx |
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