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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face
On here it’s obviously difficult as it’s not the first thing we get to see very often.
Stop staring at the cock then!"
Send me a picture of your face instead then and I wouldn’t have to  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face
On here it’s obviously difficult as it’s not the first thing we get to see very often. "
How many times has a face been a disappointment after you thought you might click?
Serious question. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Face
On here it’s obviously difficult as it’s not the first thing we get to see very often.
How many times has a face been a disappointment after you thought you might click?
Serious question. "
I'm about to make that happen for her  |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Face
On here it’s obviously difficult as it’s not the first thing we get to see very often.
How many times has a face been a disappointment after you thought you might click?
Serious question. "
A few. Voices are more often the disappointment for me than faces though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality.
Sure its nice to look at something attractive but if you've got the personality of Hitler but the body of a goddess. Your still an arsehole of a human being. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face
On here it’s obviously difficult as it’s not the first thing we get to see very often.
How many times has a face been a disappointment after you thought you might click?
Serious question. "
It happens. I’m sure it happens to all of us at some point though. |
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"Personality.
Sure its nice to look at something attractive but if you've got the personality of Hitler but the body of a goddess. Your still an arsehole of a human being."
Well if that is an option, I am having that too, I thought I would get told off if I deviated from the options! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality.
Sure its nice to look at something attractive but if you've got the personality of Hitler but the body of a goddess. Your still an arsehole of a human being.
Awwww fanks! "
Anytime sweetie  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personality.
Sure its nice to look at something attractive but if you've got the personality of Hitler but the body of a goddess. Your still an arsehole of a human being."
It wasn’t an option.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality.
Sure its nice to look at something attractive but if you've got the personality of Hitler but the body of a goddess. Your still an arsehole of a human being.
It wasn’t an option. "
In that case, It's the face |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Let's look at this logically!
You can hide the face.
Bag, from behind, sit on it.
But a body is a little harder to hide. Clothes help of course, but can get in the way a bit more.
Or just close your eyes to it all! |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Stourbridge (West-Mids) |
Face!
A nice smile is more of a draw than a buff body any day of the week in my opinion.
Hopefully I'm not in the minority, because I think my own face is far more attractive than my body 
 MrsGiggler x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Face!
A nice smile is more of a draw than a buff body any day of the week in my opinion.
Hopefully I'm not in the minority, because I think my own face is far more attractive than my body
MrsGiggler x "
You look lovely.
Thankfully, I have a nice smile (I'm told).  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
From experience towards myself, a face is clearly more important to the majority.
Having a semi decent body has not really done much for me in terms of success (fab or not) because my face has never really changed.
I'm not ugly, but I'm not stand out either.
I know guys much better looking than me with average or less bodies (I cba delicate wording things, deal with it) that just get much more attention than me. |
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"From experience towards myself, a face is clearly more important to the majority.
Having a semi decent body has not really done much for me in terms of success (fab or not) because my face has never really changed.
I'm not ugly, but I'm not stand out either.
I know guys much better looking than me with average or less bodies (I cba delicate wording things, deal with it) that just get much more attention than me."
Can we start a wee crowd fund to get you a new coupon? |
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It's a hard one. If someone is pretty but takes no of themselves or their appearance that takes precedence.
If a lady is plain, or even unattractive facially, but looks after herself, has an energy and sparkle, then that's attractive.
However, if they get narcissistic then no...even if she is hot as hell.
All I can say is, I know when I see it. |
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"Face
On here it’s obviously difficult as it’s not the first thing we get to see very often.
How many times has a face been a disappointment after you thought you might click?
Serious question. "
Quite often but also some lovely surprises I'm sure we've disappointed a few
Mrs |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"From experience towards myself, a face is clearly more important to the majority.
Having a semi decent body has not really done much for me in terms of success (fab or not) because my face has never really changed.
I'm not ugly, but I'm not stand out either.
I know guys much better looking than me with average or less bodies (I cba delicate wording things, deal with it) that just get much more attention than me.
Can we start a wee crowd fund to get you a new coupon? "
I'm a little lost so it has totally gone over my head, what's the coupon for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From experience towards myself, a face is clearly more important to the majority.
Having a semi decent body has not really done much for me in terms of success (fab or not) because my face has never really changed.
I'm not ugly, but I'm not stand out either.
I know guys much better looking than me with average or less bodies (I cba delicate wording things, deal with it) that just get much more attention than me."
My experience as a woman with a reasonably good face is that my body has mattered more to men (and my body is below average IMO). Of course my personality could be shite... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"From experience towards myself, a face is clearly more important to the majority.
Having a semi decent body has not really done much for me in terms of success (fab or not) because my face has never really changed.
I'm not ugly, but I'm not stand out either.
I know guys much better looking than me with average or less bodies (I cba delicate wording things, deal with it) that just get much more attention than me.
My experience as a woman with a reasonably good face is that my body has mattered more to men (and my body is below average IMO). Of course my personality could be shite..."
It is always going to be a combination of the 3. Always.
But face is generally... Where our eyes look to most of the time. I'm not talking about quick random fuck, but genuine interest from people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From experience towards myself, a face is clearly more important to the majority.
Having a semi decent body has not really done much for me in terms of success (fab or not) because my face has never really changed.
I'm not ugly, but I'm not stand out either.
I know guys much better looking than me with average or less bodies (I cba delicate wording things, deal with it) that just get much more attention than me.
My experience as a woman with a reasonably good face is that my body has mattered more to men (and my body is below average IMO). Of course my personality could be shite...
It is always going to be a combination of the 3. Always.
But face is generally... Where our eyes look to most of the time. I'm not talking about quick random fuck, but genuine interest from people "
Yes, of course, but I don't think a face has to be stunningly pretty or very handsome to be attractive. Often, the smile and/or eyes do have it. (That's why I put "fabulous face" for £3 in my build a partner thread - shameless boost  ) |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Face.
I'm going to be a tad blunt though. I don't believe every person saying face means it. Or if that's true of fab as a whole.
Look at the women men fawn over. Not seen their face but they have good bodies.
I think it's like when people say personality over physical. I'm sure for some it's true. I'm also certain that it's used when not true and just sounds like the right thing to say. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Face.
I'm going to be a tad blunt though. I don't believe every person saying face means it. Or if that's true of fab as a whole.
Look at the women men fawn over. Not seen their face but they have good bodies.
I think it's like when people say personality over physical. I'm sure for some it's true. I'm also certain that it's used when not true and just sounds like the right thing to say."
I think it's more a case of they want to believe it is true. In a way it is, but saying it solidifies their own belief to make themselves feel as though they are above the physical.
The only truely honest people about it are the "shallow" (only using it as a blanket term - apply yourself to it or not) that are looking for a truely lust fuel hookup fuck and go.
They want the lust of physical, face and body.
Everyone else is skating trying to walk the lines. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face.
I'm going to be a tad blunt though. I don't believe every person saying face means it. Or if that's true of fab as a whole.
Look at the women men fawn over. Not seen their face but they have good bodies.
I think it's like when people say personality over physical. I'm sure for some it's true. I'm also certain that it's used when not true and just sounds like the right thing to say."
The same could he said for women and the men they fawn over though.
For example, I've never seen a man's profile on here stating that height and physique will dictate a reply. But I've seen plenty of women draw those lines in the sand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face.
I'm going to be a tad blunt though. I don't believe every person saying face means it. Or if that's true of fab as a whole.
Look at the women men fawn over. Not seen their face but they have good bodies.
I think it's like when people say personality over physical. I'm sure for some it's true. I'm also certain that it's used when not true and just sounds like the right thing to say."
I think if we are all honest, most of people would agree with you.
Here’s the thing, and I’ll use Fab as the example of why I posted this.
I see a profile with zero face pics, but their photos show an attractive body in my opinion.
And their personality fits mine and I’d get along with them.
But when you finally see their face, (photo or in person) you are at the point of fancying them or not. It’s like the final hurdle.
And then there’s a person who you get along with, but never looked twice at in the sexual way. But after a while, their beauty starts to shine through every inch of them. The corner of their mouth as the smile, the glint in their eyes when they talk passionately, etc.
So I will always say face.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Look at the women men fawn* over. Not seen their face but they have good bodies.
God bless Face Pic Friday and all who sail in her. It can be a wonderful thing."
I'm well aware of FPF.
Women with conventionally attractive bodies can have beautiful faces. I've seen a fair few from the fora, whether at socials, coffees and more or through various threads. Like FPF.
"I think it's more a case of they want to believe it is true. In a way it is, but saying it solidifies their own belief to make themselves feel as though they are above the physical.
The only truely honest people about it are the "shallow" (only using it as a blanket term - apply yourself to it or not) that are looking for a truely lust fuel hookup fuck and go.
They want the lust of physical, face and body.
Everyone else is skating trying to walk the lines. "
Yes, thank you Kai. I think this is right and more along the lines of how I view it.
Skating trying to walk the lines has tickled me!
*It's not just men over women. It's people in general. I chose an easy example as this week has been far too long for me! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Face.
I'm going to be a tad blunt though. I don't believe every person saying face means it. Or if that's true of fab as a whole.
Look at the women men fawn over. Not seen their face but they have good bodies.
I think it's like when people say personality over physical. I'm sure for some it's true. I'm also certain that it's used when not true and just sounds like the right thing to say.
I think if we are all honest, most of people would agree with you.
Here’s the thing, and I’ll use Fab as the example of why I posted this.
I see a profile with zero face pics, but their photos show an attractive body in my opinion.
And their personality fits mine and I’d get along with them.
But when you finally see their face, (photo or in person) you are at the point of fancying them or not. It’s like the final hurdle.
And then there’s a person who you get along with, but never looked twice at in the sexual way. But after a while, their beauty starts to shine through every inch of them. The corner of their mouth as the smile, the glint in their eyes when they talk passionately, etc.
So I will always say face.
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Ah Woody! This is such a well thought out and explained response. Thank you, I can understand where you're coming from perfectly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like both, but I also like pizza just as much.
However I get blocked when they see my face  so pizza is more relevant.
Its okay. Just say Lilith. We know she is a face and pizza hater. "
Do you know if you say her name 3 times in the mirror.....a giant hash brown appears and consumes you |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I like both, but I also like pizza just as much.
However I get blocked when they see my face so pizza is more relevant.
Its okay. Just say Lilith. We know she is a face and pizza hater.
Do you know if you say her name 3 times in the mirror.....a giant hash brown appears and consumes you "
Well there goes my Friday night plans! I was all in until the part I get consumed. Also, hash brown is more a breakfast food too. |
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I'm not choosing!
I won't.
But..... If I HAD to choose it would be the face.
Because faces are beautiful, they tell us alot about a person. Yes the body can too, but a face is something you see of a person more than the body.
I like different faces with different personalities.
Jo.Xx |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I'm not choosing!
I won't.
But..... If I HAD to choose it would be the face.
Because faces are beautiful, they tell us alot about a person. Yes the body can too, but a face is something you see of a person more than the body.
I like different faces with different personalities.
Jo.Xx "
My body is more like a full set of 'Encyclopedia Britianica' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not choosing!
I won't.
But..... If I HAD to choose it would be the face.
Because faces are beautiful, they tell us alot about a person. Yes the body can too, but a face is something you see of a person more than the body.
I like different faces with different personalities.
Jo.Xx "
I only have one face |
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"Simple question in the title.
*of course we’ve had this question before, but…
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To be honest, personality comes first. The most physically attractive person can almost instantly unattractive if they're not a nice person.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a sucker for those v lines on men, and a hairy chest, shoulders, tattoos. But it's also needs to be a attached to a pretty face, dark broody eyes, beard/stubble, kissable lips.
I can't do one without the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a sucker for those v lines on men, and a hairy chest, shoulders, tattoos. But it's also needs to be a attached to a pretty face, dark broody eyes, beard/stubble, kissable lips.
I can't do one without the other."
Will I unfriend you now then  ;'( |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a sucker for those v lines on men, and a hairy chest, shoulders, tattoos. But it's also needs to be a attached to a pretty face, dark broody eyes, beard/stubble, kissable lips.
I can't do one without the other.
Will I unfriend you now then ;'("
Can you wait until after the sex please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a sucker for those v lines on men, and a hairy chest, shoulders, tattoos. But it's also needs to be a attached to a pretty face, dark broody eyes, beard/stubble, kissable lips.
I can't do one without the other.
Will I unfriend you now then ;'(
Can you wait until after the sex please?"
Yes. |
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"I'm not choosing!
I won't.
But..... If I HAD to choose it would be the face.
Because faces are beautiful, they tell us alot about a person. Yes the body can too, but a face is something you see of a person more than the body.
I like different faces with different personalities.
Jo.Xx
I only have one face "
Really?! 
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a sucker for those v lines on men, and a hairy chest, shoulders, tattoos. But it's also needs to be a attached to a pretty face, dark broody eyes, beard/stubble, kissable lips.
I can't do one without the other.
Will I unfriend you now then ;'(
Can you wait until after the sex please?
Yes. "
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That's some weird slang but it makes sense now 
but within reason . Personality also is attractive if you are attractive and in decent shape x 
*best unique answer. 