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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me it depends what mood I'm in and what I want that particular day. I do love a nice hotel meet 
Second is a club, with lots of fuckery with multiple people
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I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same really depends on what I am looking for or wanting hotels are grate for first meets and what no after the social
If I am at clubs not really looking for sex more just there to mingle and talk to people sex is always a bonus but it’s not why I am primarily there for just a safe investment to be myself without orther being to jumental and starring and such
If it’s a sanua then I am out for a wicked time take a ticket with your number on it I get around to it at some point   |
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We prefer Hotel stays as it allows us time to ourselves also. We have been to clubs but so far only played with each other. We have had a 'friend' come to our house but that was a couple of years ago and no longer an option. We've had a lovely country walk with a couple that ended with some fun too. 
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"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.
Mrs "
Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it. |
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"We prefer Hotel stays as it allows us time to ourselves also. We have been to clubs but so far only played with each other. We have had a 'friend' come to our house but that was a couple of years ago and no longer an option. We've had a lovely country walk with a couple that ended with some fun too.
Jo.Xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.
Mrs
Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it. "
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Assuming we're talking meeting people we don't know?
In a club works great. A have a drink, have some laughter and see if the chemistry is there. You have a spaces to get more intimate together if things flow that way. If it goes greats and you want to meet again you can always arrange a hotel or something in the future. However if its not working out you're still in a club and both parties can split and find more fun with others.
Our second option would be a few drinks at a bar with at least one party having a hotel room booked close by. No obligation to swing but a neutral place to go if things go well.
Generally if we get on well over a drink and we're all laughing then there's a good chance we'll work well together in bed.
However if its people we know then a couple of drinks at the bar and hotel/Airbnb or drinks and fun at their place.
For us the main thing is meeting good people, having a good laugh and a great time. If we end up in bed and having a filthy time with them that's awesome but if not along as we've enjoyed a few laughs then we're happy. Not into pressure to get physical just love things to flow naturally and free.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to be a bit sociable so a first meet would always be just that. Though hopefully would leave us both wanting more.
Even if it's someone I know I like to flirt, chat, laugh before any naughtiness as its all part of the foreplay.
When it comes to fun then I'm a hotel room kinda girl.
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I'd rather go on a date and see what happens, or what could happen at a later date, then book a hotel room as plan banging at 8pm or whatever. There's no time to build chemistry when you play it like that.
I had a planned meet in a hotel room at the back end of last year and by the time it came I can't even horny. I was actually stressed because of the traffic |
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Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.
Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.
Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life |
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"Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.
Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.
Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life"
I think clubs are full of cliques and a bunch of awkward single guys on the periphery. I've met some really good people in clubs, but they are definitely a hell of a lot more seedy than people on here portray them to be |
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"Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.
Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.
Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life
I think clubs are full of cliques and a bunch of awkward single guys on the periphery. I've met some really good people in clubs, but they are definitely a hell of a lot more seedy than people on here portray them to be"
Depends which ones, can't tar all clubs with the same brush, they are just venues |
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Coffee shop usually but yesterday had a impromptu meet! I was using my bus pass for first time and it passed a fabsters house I sat at top and he waved from his garden on way down! He suggested stopping of on way back for a cuppa so I bought the cake he made the tea! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clubs are pressure free I think. In an open minded environment. It's safe.
Hotel meets can be fun, but there is an element of caution I think. Meeting a stranger in a hotel, and I completely understand and appreciate why people would he apprehensive.
Personally, I wouldn't have anyone in my home for a one off meet, that's where my kids sleep. As a single dad, I like to keep that life separate from my "fab" life
I think clubs are full of cliques and a bunch of awkward single guys on the periphery. I've met some really good people in clubs, but they are definitely a hell of a lot more seedy than people on here portray them to be"
Not much different to a bar/spa if you've agreed to meet someone there? I'd imagine just rocking up alone would be a very different experience if you haven't |
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"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.
Mrs
Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it. "
Actually yes putting it that way makes sense, thank you.
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"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.
Mrs
Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it.
Actually yes putting it that way makes sense, thank you.
Mrs "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If I'm meeting someone socially? A coffee shop or a nice bar. I quite like going for walks as well, there are some beautiful walks very close to me.
Being more intimate with someone? I love staying in a nice hotel. Having a hot shower, snuggling up to someone on a big bed. Actually there's a whole heap of reasons but I'm logging off soon.
Anyway, hotels to me are perfect. |
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"I've only done hotel meets, I can imagine a club meet could be fun although I'm not sure I could for a social without feeling some pressure to have sex due to the environment, that's probably just me overthinking it though.
Mrs
Clubs, but for the reasons you are worried are what make it safer, because there are lots of people there is actually less expectation. You can just ad-hoc speak to people there, be sociable and zero pressure to play, but if you feel horny just play with each other. If you share a hotel room they are right there and expectations can be high, gets awkward if one of you isn't feeling it.
Actually yes putting it that way makes sense, thank you.
Mrs
You'll remember this when we visit Pandoras, we're just angling to bump into you "
We've only been the once, I keep thinking we should give it another try.
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