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Whats the best message to send?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There can’t be a kind off message that gets a reply
As everyone profile is different
Everyone is looking for different things
There is no magic message that will get replays
You got to taller make ever single message to suit that person and they profile and they wants and needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a face pic on the profile will always ensure I have a look! And then a message that makes me smile, Sometimes it’s not personal though as a woman we get inundated and some just slip through the net!  |
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Something that shows you've read their profile, if your messaging a couple message them both not just the female.
To be honest 1st messages for me don't have to say much as long as it's not just a hi or fancy a fuck type, if I like the profile I'll reply to a one liner if I don't I won't, I never expect huge essays for a 1st message.
Mrs
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Please treat this cock pic as a witty and entertaining opening message that makes you want to shag me !!!
Never tried but who knows… then don’t attach a cock pic and they’ll think you’re playing hard to get - chicks love that!!  |
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"There can’t be a kind off message that gets a reply
As everyone profile is different
Everyone is looking for different things
There is no magic message that will get replays
You got to taller make ever single message to suit that person and they profile and they wants and needs "
That's spot on actually!
I keep my first message quite short and suggest that they look at my bio, photos and verifications.
Pictures say a thousand words etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something that shows you've read their profile, if your messaging a couple message them both not just the female.
To be honest 1st messages for me don't have to say much as long as it's not just a hi or fancy a fuck type, if I like the profile I'll reply to a one liner if I don't I won't, I never expect huge essays for a 1st message.
Mrs
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Damn it. Let me just re type my message   |
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By *4G-GBBukCouple
over a year ago
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"Something that shows you've read their profile, if your messaging a couple message them both not just the female.
To be honest 1st messages for me don't have to say much as long as it's not just a hi or fancy a fuck type, if I like the profile I'll reply to a one liner if I don't I won't, I never expect huge essays for a 1st message.
Mrs
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This. The amount of times I get told I'm beautiful by some clown at 4am...
Mr S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There can’t be a kind off message that gets a reply
As everyone profile is different
Everyone is looking for different things
There is no magic message that will get replays
You got to taller make ever single message to suit that person and they profile and they wants and needs
That's spot on actually!
I keep my first message quite short and suggest that they look at my bio, photos and verifications.
Pictures say a thousand words etc."
Thanks I do try my best to give the best advice I can to the best off my knowledge |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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There isn't one. What works for one woman may not work for another. Additionally it depends on the guy sending it too. If they don't like the look of you, despite the message being the perfect one to send, you won't see any difference.
All kinds of messages work just as all of them don't work.
Send the message you would write naturally yourself and the kind you would like to get.
You won't please everyone so stop trying to please the with what you think they want. |
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"Hi I'm a person I think, lovely bum and/or dong on you, I did almost six push-ups back in March would you like to spend time with the apex of human performance?"
- Intro
- Compliment
- About yourself
- Query
You can have that one for free OP, use it sparingly for it will bring you too many intercourses to handle.
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I don't like it when the advice is 'tailor your message to their profile' because unless you have shared values you will just be bullshitting.
I'd advise honesty over that. Maybe pick up on something in the profile that you can at least talk about, or some 'criteria' you fit into. If you click on someone because you liked their pictures but don't like their profile, don't pretend you do. Just click on someone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be completely honest. I don't generally send initial messages out. I put my personality across as best on here as possible. I update my photos regularly (daily sometimes)
Pretty similar to meeting someone in a bar. I don't go table to table asking if they want a drink. I wait for the right moment. Or for them to make a definite suggestion their interested. Then and only then will I send a message first.
"Hey saw you've fabbed/liked/looked at my profile a few times. I'm *****, I've looked over your profile........"
And it grows from there. Sometimes it hits a dead end other times it leads somewhere. Who knows. |
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