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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes

None of anyone's business

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day."

What’s the difference between crying internally and physically for you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day.

What’s the difference between crying internally and physically for you?"

There's a deep rooted internal pain in your chest, the one you get when you actually cry. But there isn't the physical appearance of crying.

Woahhh this is deep for a sex site on a Wednesday morning Pickle.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day.

What’s the difference between crying internally and physically for you?

There's a deep rooted internal pain in your chest, the one you get when you actually cry. But there isn't the physical appearance of crying.

Woahhh this is deep for a sex site on a Wednesday morning Pickle."

Coulda just said no tears! Stop it getting too deep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day.

What’s the difference between crying internally and physically for you?

There's a deep rooted internal pain in your chest, the one you get when you actually cry. But there isn't the physical appearance of crying.

Woahhh this is deep for a sex site on a Wednesday morning Pickle.

Coulda just said no tears! Stop it getting too deep

Now there's tears!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day.

What’s the difference between crying internally and physically for you?

There's a deep rooted internal pain in your chest, the one you get when you actually cry. But there isn't the physical appearance of crying.

Woahhh this is deep for a sex site on a Wednesday morning Pickle.

Coulda just said no tears! Stop it getting too deep

I wish more men were deep

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together? "

Yes.

Three.

Without going into extensive details....

One who caused me to have years of stress and health related issues after finding out she'd been fucking a colleague for months under my nose after 7 years of marriage.

One when we'd decided it was best to part amicably after agreeing we categorically never wanted kids before marrying and then her changing her mind. Would have been unfair of me to have deprived her the chance.

And the last? Many times. When we've been through tough times, when somethings wrong and I can't solve the problem (not through lack of trying), when they're in pain and I can't help, when they've inadvertently done/said something completely by accident that triggers a bad memory in my head or causes me to think back to shittier times when I was at my worst.

And every now and then when I'm alone and I sit back and think how lucky I am. Those are different tears of course, but tears all the same.

And yes. We're still together and will be til the day I shuffle off this mortal coil. Because I know I'll be gone long before her and that also makes my cry at times because I want so many more years together because life has never been this good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day.

What’s the difference between crying internally and physically for you?

There's a deep rooted internal pain in your chest, the one you get when you actually cry. But there isn't the physical appearance of crying.

Woahhh this is deep for a sex site on a Wednesday morning Pickle."

I’ve had that before. It’s like extreme sadness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Physically, no. not often.

(I can cry at films though)

Internally, every...single...day.

What’s the difference between crying internally and physically for you?

There's a deep rooted internal pain in your chest, the one you get when you actually cry. But there isn't the physical appearance of crying.

Woahhh this is deep for a sex site on a Wednesday morning Pickle.

I’ve had that before. It’s like extreme sadness"

Yeah. One that can take you to dark places. I also wish men could open up. Unfortunately it isn't accepted. And when we internalise our emotions we project them incorrectly.

I'm aware I do this. So I have to take breaks and go for a walk before sitting down and talking.

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Nowhere

Yup - my ex got tripped over on the beach by the dog - I cried laughing… apparently that made me immature - whereas i thought building sand castle boobs was the immature bit!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

My husband cried when I told him I was leaving him. Nearly broke my heart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Yes.

Three.

Without going into extensive details....

One who caused me to have years of stress and health related issues after finding out she'd been fucking a colleague for months under my nose after 7 years of marriage.

And every now and then when I'm alone and I sit back and think how lucky I am. Those are different tears of course, but tears all the same.

This is beautiful man. Really really beautiful thank you for sharing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yup - my ex got tripped over on the beach by the dog - I cried laughing… apparently that made me immature - whereas i thought building sand castle boobs was the immature bit!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My husband cried when I told him I was leaving him. Nearly broke my heart."

I’d cry at losing you too

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

Of course! Men have feels too. Mostly in their bellends but sometimes in those hearts too.

I've done the whole snotty barely speaking words groans whyyy thoughhh.

Felt very sexy at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m still crying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus I cry over TV adverts now.

Children break you Hahaha.

As for what happened, life innit.

Still happening now, but fuck it. Roll the dice, let it ride, answers I can live with, questions I can't.

It's worth the hit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Yes.

Three.

Without going into extensive details....

One who caused me to have years of stress and health related issues after finding out she'd been fucking a colleague for months under my nose after 7 years of marriage.

And every now and then when I'm alone and I sit back and think how lucky I am. Those are different tears of course, but tears all the same.

You've just single handedly restored my hope and belief in love.

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By *untimes wantedMan over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together? "

Yes i have and for a long time.

He was killed years ago.

So, no still not together but never forgotten.

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Nowhere

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Yes.

Three.

Without going into extensive details....

One who caused me to have years of stress and health related issues after finding out she'd been fucking a colleague for months under my nose after 7 years of marriage.

And every now and then when I'm alone and I sit back and think how lucky I am. Those are different tears of course, but tears all the same.

You've just single handedly restored my hope and belief in love. "

Great - can i restore your faith in being bummed at all??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Of course! Men have feels too. Mostly in their bellends but sometimes in those hearts too.

I've done the whole snotty barely speaking words groans whyyy thoughhh.

Felt very sexy at the time."

Those cries are so annoying. Send me right to sleep after

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Yes.

Three.

Without going into extensive details....

One who caused me to have years of stress and health related issues after finding out she'd been fucking a colleague for months under my nose after 7 years of marriage.

And every now and then when I'm alone and I sit back and think how lucky I am. Those are different tears of course, but tears all the same.

You've just single handedly restored my hope and belief in love. "

You're welcome. I'd lost mine completely after the second wife. The running joke is that I'm Ross from Friends but mine has been completely restored too. And much as I wish we'd met much sooner the simple fact is that much as the age gap gets me down at times because I know I'll never have as many years together as I wish I could, if we had met a decade earlier I'd be on some kind of register for the rest of my life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do I look like I cry over men?

(Sob)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do I look like I cry over men?

(Sob) "

It’s giving trauma

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Nowhere

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Yes.

Three.

Without going into extensive details....

One who caused me to have years of stress and health related issues after finding out she'd been fucking a colleague for months under my nose after 7 years of marriage.

And every now and then when I'm alone and I sit back and think how lucky I am. Those are different tears of course, but tears all the same.

You've just single handedly restored my hope and belief in love.

Sometimes the universe needs to reorganise things to put the right 2 people together… looks like it did its job

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. Someone who says she loves me, but isn’t willing to make the leap.

I think about her every day.

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By *anderingArtistMan over a year ago

an abstract world

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together? "

Not over a partner per se, more over associated stuff.

We're not together anymore.

I don't cry much nowadays unless someone's died or there's a sad/really happy bit in a film. Put me in front of a romcom and I'm a hormonal wreck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Not over a partner per se, more over associated stuff.

We're not together anymore.

I don't cry much nowadays unless someone's died or there's a sad/really happy bit in a film. Put me in front of a romcom and I'm a hormonal wreck

I can’t cry at films.

I feel broken in that sense

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Not over a partner per se, more over associated stuff.

We're not together anymore.

I don't cry much nowadays unless someone's died or there's a sad/really happy bit in a film. Put me in front of a romcom and I'm a hormonal wreck

I can’t cry at films.

I feel broken in that sense "

I nver could. Now I do. Well not cry. I do get teary though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever cried over a partner? What happened? Are you still together?

Not over a partner per se, more over associated stuff.

We're not together anymore.

I don't cry much nowadays unless someone's died or there's a sad/really happy bit in a film. Put me in front of a romcom and I'm a hormonal wreck

I can’t cry at films.

I feel broken in that sense

I nver could. Now I do. Well not cry. I do get teary though "

You’re a real man that’s why

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