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A picture always helps so people can see who they are talking to.
A bit more sbout you. What do you like to do? How do you unwind?
It doesnt have to be War and Peace but you need something to grab peoples attention and help you stand out from the crowd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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18-99
Literally ticked every “like”
Nothing about you
Nothing what you’re after
Fill in shortly for me comes across as lazy
Photo of some sort doesn’t have to show face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and maybe an brief explanation of why you can’t accommodate, people naturally assume you’re cheating but you may live with your folks, be a single parent etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I get all your points and appreciate the feedback I'm not great when it comes to writing about myself don't like to come across like everyone else on here but also don't want to come across like I know it all and I've seen it all just aiming for the middle ground
I'm not shy nor am I pushy I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant
I've got pics pending upload I've been waiting since last night for them to be verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly, it needs to be an accurate reflection of you as an individual.
Trying to figure out the secret sauce recipe is only going to lead to failure.
This is about making an impact, a quick snap judgement of who you are and why you're worth a moments notice above all the other noise.
Your ability to do that, in itself, is a filter by which you'll be measured. Be derivative you'll blend in, fake you'll be found out.
Be you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To me, there looks as though there is nothing genuine about this profile."
What makes you think that I can see why no pics no bio etc but I can assure you I'm 100% genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I get all your points and appreciate the feedback I'm not great when it comes to writing about myself don't like to come across like everyone else on here but also don't want to come across like I know it all and I've seen it all just aiming for the middle ground
I'm not shy nor am I pushy I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant
I've got pics pending upload I've been waiting since last night for them to be verified "
Let others run their profile as they want and yours how you want.
Calling other peoples profiles “arrogant” isn’t the best when you don’t have one yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I get all your points and appreciate the feedback I'm not great when it comes to writing about myself don't like to come across like everyone else on here but also don't want to come across like I know it all and I've seen it all just aiming for the middle ground
I'm not shy nor am I pushy I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant
I've got pics pending upload I've been waiting since last night for them to be verified
Let others run their profile as they want and yours how you want.
Calling other peoples profiles “arrogant” isn’t the best when you don’t have one yourself "
I'm not calling others arrogant I'm saying from my point of view it comes across as arrogant if that makes sense which if it works for them that's fine but I'm not like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Comments like these don't endear you to your audiance OP
"... don't like to come across like everyone else on here ...
... I've read a fair few on here that just come across as being arrogant ...
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You've explained on your profile why you cannot accommodate, so that responds to a point others made.
Still get some photos (but personally I would not go for the dick pics), but who am I to talk, I only have a couple on show (I must upload some proper ones). |
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Imagining your profile was a couples or females, there's no compelling reason why I would want to meet you.
You explain why you can't accommodate, fine, but what do you bring to the table?
You are 6 ft 2 apparently, lots of women like a tall chap so expand on that angle. What else?
Are you the shy type and want to be seduced, what might a fun date look like for you? Likes dislikes? Anything that might pique someone's interest? |
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Have you seen any profiles on here that you did like then? Not like as in want to fuck the person but like because it showed originality and a bit of personality.
Unless you have an absolutely amazing body, you need to say something in your bio that will make you memorable. The odds are stacked against you here as a single guy so you need to stand out. |
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Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom."
This but more a case of me asking if you're a Dom or a dominant? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom."
My name not my sexual preference |
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"Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom.
My name not my sexual preference"
D. |
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"Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom.
My name not my sexual preference"
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"Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom.
My name not my sexual preference
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Mate, you read more into two words than I've ever read into any profile on here in 10 years, proud of ya  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why the green tick but no verification showing? My Mrs likes to really verifications before we meet.
Otherwise, some pretty sound advice in the above replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe sound a bit harsh here
But if you ask for “help” to build a profile isn’t that a bit fausle and disingenuous off you as it wouldn’t be a real representation off your self
It would be a representation off those that help you build sed profile
Leading to people you meet not getting the real you and maybe putting them off meeting people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe sound a bit harsh here
But if you ask for “help” to build a profile isn’t that a bit fausle and disingenuous off you as it wouldn’t be a real representation off your self
It would be a representation off those that help you build sed profile
Leading to people you meet not getting the real you and maybe putting them off meeting people "
Not if you’re only getting some pointers and ideas.
The input and pics are still your own, |
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"Just the statement 'I'm Dom' on its own is so vague. What kind of Dom are you? What dynamic do you like to play in. There is so many types of Dom's out there. So just labelling yourself as Dom, suggests to me that it's just a label that you apply to yourself. So if I was reading your profile, I'd be thinking he isn't really a Dom.
My name not my sexual preference
Mate, you read more into two words than I've ever read into any profile on here in 10 years, proud of ya "
Well ya know mate, I'm Dom kinda fits into the site we're on lol....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe sound a bit harsh here
But if you ask for “help” to build a profile isn’t that a bit fausle and disingenuous off you as it wouldn’t be a real representation off your self
It would be a representation off those that help you build sed profile
Leading to people you meet not getting the real you and maybe putting them off meeting people
Not if you’re only getting some pointers and ideas.
The input and pics are still your own,"
Still a bit dishonest to be honest as it isn’t a representation off the person and that’s just my honest |
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Mrs Mooth ..
How do you expect others to know you if you don't know you a little bit.
Think about what you are offering and write it in a sentence or two AFTER you have written a sentence or two about what you are looking for......
It really is that simple.
I am looking for
I can offer........
And a nice face pic or fully clothed body shot.
the end. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Honestly, it needs to be an accurate reflection of you as an individual.
Trying to figure out the secret sauce recipe is only going to lead to failure.
This is about making an impact, a quick snap judgement of who you are and why you're worth a moments notice above all the other noise.
Your ability to do that, in itself, is a filter by which you'll be measured. Be derivative you'll blend in, fake you'll be found out.
Be you."
Pretty much this.
A
*helps being hung like a horse, being a looker and having the patter too though.
**as Tesco says. 'Every Little Helps'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Photos. Do some and choose the best looking ones that you think the people you like might like.
Text, if you find it hard knowing what to write, have a look at a lot of other males accounts and be inspired. (Do not copy and paste, bad form ).
Good luck op, nobody on fab has a perfect formula, but some do have very attractive profiles.  |
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