Mels post got me thinking.
If you lack confidence and that fairy came along and made you full of confidence what is the first thing you would do? Ask for that pay rise? Finally message that person you lust after on here? |
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I'm really not sure. I work really hard to not let my lack of confidence hold me back. I think it would mean I'd likely just embrace things rather than maybe not enjoying them as fully as I could because I'm over thinking |
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I have absolute confidence the person I lust after but haven't messaged, won't work out, even if she liked me.
I imagining Tinkerbell and she's quite hot. So can she turn me into a fairy instead so we can live happily ever after? |
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Go train in the skills I want for the job I want.
Well that just summed up my lack of self confidence didn't it ...I read that back to myself and I don't think I even need to let that sink in. |
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Thinking about it I’d get a room full of people to listen to my English oral piece that I had to read to the class in 87/88 that I savagely fucked up due to shyness….still haunts me. Never talk about hippopotamuses when your socially awkward…  |
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Confidence is a taught behaviour. Sure, some are gifted to posses and utilise it naturally. But for the most part it's learnt and can be improved.
It's all about increasing your sense of self appreciation.
Literally standing infront of the mirror and reinforcing the good things about YOU!
Not just physically but mentally too.
We, can be so self loathing at times that we forget the good things about our selves.
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"I'd suddenly do nothing different, because my confidence loss is something that doesn't hold me back from trying things."
This tbh. Even when I'm not on form I don't let hold me back. |
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My confidence is dented somewhat. Sometimes it makes me feel undesirable and out of everyone's league (for want of a better term). Therefore, with my confidence renewed, I would take a leap of faith and reach out to those persons on my radar ... |
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